Warning: THIS IS AN INSANELY LONG POST - BUT TOTALLY WORTH IT IF YOU'RE LOOKING FOR AN AFFORDABLE PAEBAEK VENDOR IN THE BAY AREA!
**I'll come back to add better resolution photos!**
I highly recommend this place if you're looking for a vendor who can help prepare your Paebaek (Korean tea ceremony). This past April, my now-husband and I wanted to do both tea ceremonies for our families - a Vietnamese/Chinese one in the morning and a Korean one in the evening during the dinner reception.
There are not a lot of Paebaek options in the Bay Area and this one is not as well known as it should be. I heard about this place from my mom who frequented this store and was familiar with the owner, Mrs. Yang.
Before the Paebaek, my mom, my husband and I went to the shop and had an informal meeting about how things would go. She went through the schedule of events, how long it would take, what props and decor would be provided, which order of family members on both sides would be participating, and we also got to try on the traditional hanboks. She let us choose which traditional hanbok we would be wearing underneath the wedding ceremony garments (you'll see in the pictures!).
Because my husband is not Korean, and those in attendance at our reception and the MC was not Korean, Mrs. Yang's son was very gracious to email us a detailed powerpoint of exactly what would be taking place each step of the way. This gave us material for the MC to speak to the audience while we were performing the ceremony, so that everyone knew what was going on and what it meant in Korean culture.
The day of, Mrs. Yang and her two assistants (One gentleman who helped set up the ceremony and another lady who assisted Mrs. Yang and us into our clothes and throughout the ceremony). Both Mrs. Yang and her assistant were also dressed in Korean hanboks as well, which helped bring a true traditional ambiance! They came prepared with all the rentals and decor that would be needed. All we had to do was make sure we had a 12'x12' space large enough for the ceremony (if you have a small stage, that would work too!). We planned for this space in the middle of the restaurant surrounded by the dinner reception tables.
Mrs. Yang and her assistant worked together to help my husband and I into our traditional hanboks so that we could hang out with our guests before the reception and take pictures. Once everyone was settled in, we went back to the changing room to be further assisted with the wedding garments and hairpieces that would be needed for the traditional wedding attire.
The patience Mrs. Yang provided, even when we had guests who arrived a bit late, really helped to ease our nerves and to enjoy ourselves in the moment. I can confidently say the Korean tea ceremony was a HUGE HIT for both our families, everyone was so entertained and it was honestly a wonderful way to bring both our families cultures together, and to showcase my Korean traditions to my husband's family. IT DID NOT DISAPPOINT!
The dates and chestnut toss (to wish you lots of children), the passing of the tea, the sharing of the date with your husband, the piggyback ride at the end of the ceremony -- it was a truly fun experience. Mrs. Yang was right beside us, talking us through the ceremony and each step.
After the ceremony, as the food for the reception was coming out, she went back to the dressing room to help us out of our clothes. All the food items on the Paebaek table, Mrs. Yang left for our families to enjoy during the rest of the evening and her team did a superb job tidying up and heading out.
To break it down further: Here's what you will need:
1. Book your Paebaek with Mrs. Yang - all the rentals will be provided
2. Have a family member/MC to comment and guide the audience along with the ceremony (if you have two different languages, a Korean translator would be helpful!)
(She does not provide sound equipment, but we used a mic and some standard speakers for our MC)
3. You will need about a 12ftx12ft space, or a stage so everyone can see
4. A changing room for you and your spouse to be assisted when changing
I was hesitant at first to do a Paebaek ceremony because there just weren't enough vendors to choose from in the Bay Area. I was SO RELIEVED my mom introduced me to Mizzland's Mrs. Yang. She was truly a remarkable planner and it was everything I wanted in a Paebaek. To this day, months later, my family and friends still talk about how wonderful it was to witness a Korean tea ceremony! Thank you so much, Mizzland!
HIGHLY RECOMMEND. Grab your best Korean-speaking family/friend and head over to plan your Paebaek! read more