Very disappointing experience with this organization. My mother and I spend a lot of time at each other's homes. My children and I love and cherish her cats as much as she. We are close to her felines in the same way that she is to them because of how often we see them. My mother sadly lost her beloved male cat. My kids, mother and I were so torn up over it. We all decided as a family to help grandma locate another cat in need. The silver lining to the tragedy.
I got on petfinder and started our search. I found a cat from this facility that strongly reminded us of our cat we lost. I read his description and he sounded lovely. It was stated that he would adjust in practically any home life with proper introductions. We applied for him that night and I wrote an email to this organization telling them the entire story of our recent loss and our interest in Kardi. I wanted to make sure we could adopt from them as we are in another state.
The next day I got a call back and it was confirmed that they do adopt to approved homes to the state we reside. Yay! It could take up to 14 days, I was told. I informed them that my mother already submitted an application and we were told to communicate with her vet, allowing them to discuss my mother's vet care provided to her cats. My mother called her vet that day to allow permission. On day 7, we decided to reach out. We reaffirmed our interest and asked how we should expect to hear from them once the decision was made. No response. My mother called the following day and was told it is too early to know.
On day 12, we called. Prior to the call I went on their facebook and was surprised to see a new posting of the cats that were still unadopted, Kardi being one of them. I called and was told they are still processing my mom's application and that, oh, by the way, looks like Kardi should be an only cat. He bullies the other cats, they said. I was surprised and mentioned that his ad on petfinder didn't state that. It was a new observation, they said, but they will call me back later once they find out the details of this observation. I decided, after speaking with my husband, that we should apply for him instead of my mother because we do not have other cats, and he would be showered with human affection without the bother of other cats.
I called back, spoke with them about myself and my husband adopting him instead, and they said to go ahead and apply. I asked if they'd have any idea how long it would take to process my application because it would be nice to know what to expect, especially for the sake of my kids, who were aware of the application pending and excited about the prospect of Kardi. My children understood that this is a process and there's no guarantee that we'll receive the cat we want, but it would've been of great value to have a timeframe nonetheless. Unfortunately they wouldn't say. They said that they weren't in a position to say one way or the other how long it would take.
After this call I revisited the facebook posting of all the cats still waiting for adoption. It specifically stated that the cats in that post had no special considerations and were ready for homes. This seemed odd, after having been told he couldn't live with other cats. I got a call an hour later and surprise, surprise, an approved adopter just showed up and chose Kardi, "so sorry".
The whole ordeal was a little nauseating to me. We didn't go into applying for him thinking he was destined to be ours, just hopeful that he would be. I respect and understand the process, but there was something about the experience that did not seem forthcoming and didn't sit right with me. I was truly made to feel like we weren't ever really considered for him.
I respect what rescues do. I respect that they aren't required to adopt out to anyone. I had hoped they'd have seen how much we wanted to be a home to this cat. We plan to reach out to our references to see if they had even bothered to call them.
If they had had any reservations about us, I would hope they'd have said so, or at least they could of declined us the week prior while we held out for this cat. We had only reached out before 14 days to understand how we'd expect to hear from them and we didn't want to get lost as we were so interested in my mom or I being his adopter for the reasons stated above.
I'm hoping we won't have any similar experiences in our quest to adopt a cat with other organizations. I doubt we'll have the same issues elsewhere. read more