For roughly 5 years I've taken numerous courses at the Boston Landmark center, and I've spent many hours as a person who assists on the courses and at the center. The coaching, practices, ideas, and work have made a significant difference in the way I live. Through the programs, I've spent days, months, and even years inquiring into things like:
- Where am I a person of integrity, and where am I not? What does it cost me when I'm not a person of integrity, and what value do I get when I am?
- Where am I inauthentic in life? Especially, where am I inauthentic in my relationships, both with others, and with myself? What would life be like if I cleaned up my inauthentic and out-of-integrity behavior?
- What could I be up to with my time on the planet that would be worth my life? What purpose bigger than myself would leave me inspired, fulfilled, self-expressed, and full of aliveness?
These are only a few of the inquiries you explore at Landmark, and Landmark's coaches are exceptional at guiding you through the conversations to discover your own answers. You not only explore the inquiries by having some of the most authentic and real conversations you will ever experience, but you also explore the inquiries by taking new actions and living in new ways to explore what works for you. It's some of the most meaningful, impactful, and life-affirming work I have ever done, and two of the many results I've created out of doing the work are:
- Switching from a software engineering career to a corporate team coaching career. I now get to make a difference in the quality of people's work-lives every day, and I am immensely more fulfilled.
- Creating a amazing relationship with an amazing woman where we use numerous tools we've practiced in Landmark's program to continually create a relationship of love, partnership, connection, and fun.
I highly recommend taking Landmark's programs to see what value you could get from doing the work. There is nothing else quite like it.
As for Landmark Forum graduates sharing about the Landmark Forum with people who haven't taken the course, and/or graduates inviting people to introductions about the Landmark Forum, here's what I have to say...If you REALLY take on the courses/programs as designed (do all the homework as designed, fully participate in course exercises, try on whatever coaching you receive before disputing it, etc.), it might be some of, if not THE most difficult work you've ever taken on. The work will challenge some of your most deeply entrenched truths about life, people, yourself, relationships, what's possible, what's socially acceptable, etc, so you can imagine how that might be extremely uncomfortable. That discomfort can turn people off. However, if you look at any person that has accomplished something truly EPIC, they almost definitely had to persist through an immense amount of discomfort. As a comparison, I always think of the mental and physical training one has to go through if they want the accomplishment of being a NAVY SEAL. Some people are completely turned off, maybe even disgusted by that type of intensity, discomfort, and brutality associated with what it takes to become a SEAL. However, I am 100% sure that when those people make it through the training and reach their goal, it is one of the most life-affirming, exciting, fulfilling, and amazing experiences. Sometimes, if not most of the time, Landmark's work is a little like that. It takes something to do it, but if you can persist through the discomfort, you will generate some of the most fulfilling, exciting, and life-affirming results you've ever seen. When people do that, it's an amazing experience. They love sharing about it with their friends and family. They want others to experience it, just like when people can't wait to take a friend to an awesome movie they just watched. Similarly, people consistently walk away from Landmark's work genuinely caring more about others and the world. Landmark's work consistently makes a significant difference in the quality of people's lives, so if you're a person who all of a sudden has a enhanced level of caring for the people around you, there is a natural urge to want the people in your life to go through the experience of the Landmark Forum so that they can also benefit the quality of their life.
So, if you're ever annoyed or frustrated with someone that's sharing about the Landmark Forum, or inviting you to an introduction about the Landmark Forum, just know that they're coming from a place of love and caring. They want the whole world to have the amazing, life-affirming, fulfilling, and joyous experiences they've had by doing the work, and they just want to share their happiness with you. And, if you think about, if we as a human race aren't willing to share about and invite others to participate with us in what we find to be the most life-affirming, awesome, loving, and exciting experiences, than what are we really doing? read more