When I first started going to ISKCON Laguna Beach in 2011, I remember Tukaram Das laughing about a letter he got from a devotee he disturbed. The person who wrote the letter discussed all the things they had to do to heal from the negative experience. When your temple priest is entertained, humored, and amused without remorse over your traumatic experience, instead of taking accountability, being apologetic, and understanding: Than that's your sign to get the hell out of this place. The most traumatic experience I ever had with Tukaram Das was during Bhagavad Gita class. I politely asked him a question when he was taking questions, and his response was "WHAT ARE YOU DOING!!!???". Don't feel bad for me. Feel bad for Kshudi Prabhu who was there, and got up immediately to leave. Till this day, I have not received an apology from tuka or ISKCON for this abuse, and I don't want to hear from you rupanuga. tuka Is the most malignant and pernicious priest ISKCON has ever had. I've seen another ISKCON guest speaker refuse prasadam from him out of protest. He owns a restaurant named non-violence...and at the same time practices violence. Maybe you should practice being likeable instead of the martial arts. Extremely rude. He doesn't let you finish your sentence, and to make matters more demeaning he wants to put words in your mouth too! this guy shows up unprepared and just starts talking. I know this, because he bragged about it. When your temple priest brags about being unprepared, you're wasting your time with him. There are two tukas. In fact, his name should be spelled Twoka. On Fridays tuka acts like a father that wants to appear cool to his children. Quite often he goes extremely off topic and becomes too casual with his favorites to such an extent, that it's wasting my time. You can hang out with your friends after class is done. I'm here to learn. On Fridays tuka gets away with being rude and mean because it is socially acceptable. all his cheerleaders around him laugh along as he mocks and ridicules you for not being the best speaker. I've seen this time after time, myself indulging this behavior, and I will no longer. As messed up as it is to say, I cant recommend this temple's Bhagavad Gita class if you were born in India. tuka realizes that his Sunday demographic are his majority donors. so he would never risk actually being himself on a Sunday. The most ridiculous thing I've heard tuka say was "Get Bhakti or die trying". If you take yourself seriously, you wont go to this temple. I've heard tuka put down Gandhi at least 5 times. Its almost like he is jealous of Gandhi. The funny part is, this guy stole Gandhi's best move: The hunger strike. Anytime ISKCON has tried to discipline him, he goes on a hunger striker, and just ends up having his way. Now his disciples are learning to do the same, and I know Krsna doesn't want to see such practices taken up! tuka does discriminate. tuka does have favorites. lets talk about how he treats the people he is manipulating and grooming. I've heard him say to a woman "I don't like it when you sound stupid." I don't like it when you sound stupid either tuka. I've seen him interfere in another person's romantic relationship, and this poor girl was grieving over her dead father. tuka said "I dont know what this is" right in front of her partner. tuka also practices martial arts with his devotees. sometimes too rough on purpose. you might get punched in the ear for not listening to him. One day tuka held an 8 hour initiation course. The majority attending were female, and he is telling them that no female has ever been appointed guru in his organization. so I ask him, "what are the arguments against female gurus within ISKCON?". He swallowed his tongue and refused to answer. I left, met up with Vedavit and distributed Gitas because that is the initiate thing to do. That year, tuka had no new aspiring initiates and wants to blame me! Telling me "thanks for throwing me under the bus". That's the real reason I'm not welcome at this temple. I'm too smart, and it's a threat to the business. read more