While we didn't have a very hardcore birth plan for our first child besides delivering in a hospital, it was important to us to hire a doula as our guide. We had heard really positive feedback from friends and since we quite literally didn't know what we were doing, we knew we wanted a birthing expert in the room with us who could be an advocate and partner to our hospital team.
Our hospital (UCHealth Highlands Ranch) shared a list of doulas/doula groups they recommend, and we started our search there. After reading the testimonials and information for Intuitive Birth and feeling most drawn to their services, we were lucky to be connected to Tammy who still had availability.
From our very first meeting with Tammy, we felt so connected and cared for. In our initial consultation, we were able to ask any questions we had about the process and her experience. We loved her evidence-based answers that you could tell came from her passion and previous experience in science, but we joked that she was just the right amount of "crunchy" that we needed too.
Between that first consult, our prenatal visits, and the birth itself, Tammy was always accessible by phone or text for any concerns or questions we had, basically at all times of the day! There are some things that just can't be googled, and she was able to share more context based on her many years of experiences and births. Tammy was always so encouraging when the questions were less about logistics and more about emotions, helping us feel more prepared for what was coming next.
When it was finally time to go to the hospital, she was there as soon as we needed us, and was the exact energy that we needed. When things weren't progressing and mama was just feeling pain and discouragement, Tammy was there to help with different positions, ask the right questions to determine what we needed, consult with our nurses, let dad run out to get food, etc. Even with a nearly 24-hour labor she was always there when we needed her, and has apparently mastered the art of the power nap since she NEVER appeared at less than 100% energy. When we were facing an unplanned C-section, she was the voice in the room encouraging us to make whichever decision we wanted, rather than feeling pressured into anything.
During the process and once we held our sweet baby boy in our hands, we just kept mentioning to each other how glad we were to have Tammy in our corner. Our birth experience would not have been the same without her!
Since the birth, we still feel such a connection to Tammy and she has kept in touch to make sure our entire family continues to feel supported! While we might have a few more years until another birth, there is no way we would do it without her and Intuitive Birth! read more