I drove over 3 hrs to see Dr Wellington based on a recommendation from a friend in the chronic…read morespine pain support groups. They had me schd for the wrong location, so i was in the car driving last min decided to call...oh no he's not in Fishers he's in Carmel today, I'm like that's not what they told me, so i needed to change gps, I was worried i'd miss my appt because like i said, not familiar with the area being over 3 hrs away. I get there, I've had 3 C spine surgeries last year, i haven't been able to work all since falling at 35yo and herniating my c spine... i've been living w my parents in agonizing hell of pain trying to get help for 2 yrs now, i'm 6,7,8/10 every day, i have not been without serious pain for 2 years. I'm runing out of income and the pain is destroying me completely, so i was hoping to see him about an intrathecal pain pump.
I have never been treated so poorly in a medical setting, as the patient, or seen someone be treated this badly, because i have been a BSN RN for 8 yrs & 3 semesters away from becoming a Nurse Practitioner, because i had to quit last year to have 3 spine surgeries, and i stood at the secretary counter to fill out paperwork because it's really hard for me to put my neck into flexion and write, and kind of hard to sit and hold a clip board infront of your face and write. So i usually stand on the end of the counter, so it keeps my spine more neutral as i write. I was asked to move to the other side so she could see some pts, so i was like ok, and my book bag was on the floor, i had a clip board, wallet, pen, phone, my insurance card & license all in my hands and not to mention it hurts my neck to lift bags so i usually try to do it in the least painful way, but could no since my hands were full & i was trying to hurry out of their way, so i just kicked my bag over a whole 2 feet to the other side of the desk and stood over there and continued my paperwork.
Well, I guess the secretary TOLD ON ME? ... that i was kicked my bag around the office and that i was dropping "f bombs" when i shit u not, all i did was whisper TO MYSELF, 2 times "Fuck, i dont remember how many times i went to message therapy this whole year" and i was like looking at the wall trying to think and got out my phone too look up dates and try to calculate to get a close number, and then 2 ladies come to the door and call my name, i still had 2 pages left and showed them my clipboard and they were like that's fine u can come on back, so go back & i got scolded like a 5 yo, i was talked to you harshly when i never cussed any staff out, never made a scene all i did was whisper 2 cuss words to myself and move my bag with my foot because that was easier on my spine and faster to move out of the way.... and they were acting like i was cussing people out, and i could not understand how nor why they were treating me like this? why?
Because i have a two full sleeves of tattoos and my hands and fingers? were they profiling me or discriminating against me, because i had done nothing wrong to them whatsoever, and they were being very rude on the approach of bitching me out about WE DO DONT TOLERATE F BOMBS HERE WE WILL NOT SEE YOU OKAY DO U UNDERSTAND THIS!!?? both of them standing there, my mother was shocked as well. She couldn't believe it, and called them a bunch of assholes after we left, terrible. I'm like i drove over 3 hrs to get here and waited 2 months for this appt and they threw me back and forth then said the dr decided not to see you.
So they brought me back scolded me and i was like ok, i was explaining to them trying to defend myself like i just whispered to MYSELF fuck as i was filling my paperwork out, they way they were treating me, you would have thought i bitched out the secretary... and they're like ok ok we dont care no more f bombs!! I was just trying to explain myself.... they cut me off and kept saying we are not saying the f word in here anymore, do u understand!? they just kept saying it over and over as i was like i only whispered it to myself, my God? what is going on, and i was like ok whatever geez, they go NO NOT WHATEVER DO U UNDERSTANDDD!!?? i'm like okay sure, and they're like u can go back out to the waiting room and finish ur paperwork, then 5 mins later same 2 came and brought me out to the hallway near the elevators & were like so we also heard u were kicking ur bag around? ... I'm like are u serious!!?? that was way before they brought me back the first time to scold me.... i was like ur secretary asked me to move to the other end of the counter and with my hands full and spine problems, i did not want to try to pick my backpack up off the floor with my hands full, so i just kicked it over to the other end of the desk and continued filling out my paperwork there? like i dont understand why that's a problem, they were acting as though i was kicking my bag around the office having a tempter tantrum or something, & said well we've decided not to see you. Unbelievable!