Hi, I was a resident in the 9 month program, and with God's help and the self discipline I carry, I kept my mouth shut for 9 months. To be honest, I was too scared to speak up and knew I would get consequences if I did. So here I am, hoping that my review helps the next victim to Green Oak Ranch. Here is the truth about when you sign your life over to Green Oak Ranch for the next 9 months:
1. When you are there, they take your phone away for the 9 months.
2. You are unable to have ANY contact whatsoever for the first 3 months. Including family.
3. You have to use the office phone once you are out of blackout to make calls (mind you, there is only 1 phone, you can only be on the phone for 10 minutes. Most of the time Pastor Mike doesn't put out the phone.)
4. You cannot leave for groceries when on blackout
5. You aren't allowed to have meals on your shelf in the fridge or freezer. Only snacks allowed.
6. You MUST (yes they force you by threatening restriction if you do not go) go down to the dinning hall for all meals, even if you're not hungry.
7. The men in the program cook the meals. These meals have ZERO nutrition, not the guys fault, the program just doesn't offer them any decent food to cook for everyone. Some meals served are: burritos, frozen fish, frozen chicken tenders, pasta, etc.
8. They do not care if you have allergies. I personally went through several epi pens. I told several people several times, I CANNOT HAVE ROSEMARY. I go into anaphylactic shock. They don't care.
9. They do not offer much help once you graduate the 9 month program. You have to "apply" to be there in the Transitional Living Program. If you are denied, you must leave the property, and if you don't have anywhere to go, they will pack your things in trash bags and leave it at the front gate.
10. You cannot have your car on property or work for the 9 months you are there.
11. You may not work while in the program. Only for them. For free.
12.They only offer 1 AA class per week, everything else is Bible studies.
13. They do not help you get a sponsor.
14. They do not encourage working the steps.
15. You cannot express yourself the way you want to.
16. No shorts, no spaghetti straps, no flip flops.
17. Women's program duties around the ranch include: Scrubbing the endless amount of toilets, cleaning allllllll restrooms, cleaning the facilities, laundry, doing cooler runs, picking up trash, etc. The men would work in the kitchen, landscaping, work with the animals, maintenance, etc. Both program directors are extremely strict. If there was one hair or piece of dirt, it needed to be redone. It felt as though expectations were never met.
18. No emotional support. You could walk into anyone's office crying and honestly, they really done care.
19. I personally witnessed the "pastor" calling all the females in the program sluts. He would also growl at you as you walk by, just waiting for the next person to f*** up. Zero encouragement.
20. In the 9 months I was there, us girls had ONE pool day. Plus you must wear a one piece.
Overall, you can't do anything you want without clearing it with staff, and it will most likely be a no unless it is benefiting them.
For example, my Uncle built me a garden box. I was only allowed to have it for everyone to use AND I had to leave it there. You can't be yourself or express yourself as a human being. If you do, restriction, restriction, restriction. Many people relapsed after being there, including myself. Now that I am in a different program and sober living, I have stayed sober, working the steps, and being successful. Looking back, Green Oak Ranch is a cult in my opinion. I hope people read this and realize that just because they claim it is a "Godly place," it isn't. It's hell on earth. read more