There were a lot of children at this park. Which is a responsibility that (I believe) parents should consider carefully and prepare for with intention. Interacting with strange dogs can be tricky, even for adults. Certainly, it's best to be educated in 'dog language'.
I have a one year old, 90lb German Shepherd mix. I rescued him 6 months ago. Dempsey is a submissive animal that wouldn't allow himself to be reached for... or pet, and didn't wag his tail for our first 3 months together. We work daily on commands, manners, and socialization... but, (understandably) he still has a few things to learn.
Recently, he's accepted people don't always equal abuse, and developed excitement for humans. Suddenly he's exuberant and affectionate. (Awesome right?) His worst bad manner? He LOVES to lick people's face in greeting. He's just discovered it, and I mean.... really, enthusiastically lick. Giant, German Shepherd sized, slimy, slobber dripping, full on tongue.... It's admittedly gross. It can be a lot... He's super into it.
Children are at perfect face licking height for a large puppy. You see where this is going right? My puppy licked the face of a little girl at this park... and she screamed bloody murder in response. The girls mother was angry at me for my dogs lack of manners in greeting her child. A child which responded, by running frantically in circles squealing.... guaranteed way to further excite a puppy. However, My dog never jumped up on, scratched, or otherwise displayed threatening or inappropriate behavior...he licked her face. Enthusiastically, admittedly! I have three step children age 6,8 and 12 that adore Dempsey... In his experience little people are his first and favorite friends. They're always willing to throw the ball, play, and snuggle with him... what's not to love? He was super excited to see this little girl (a playmate in his mind) immediately upon entering the park.
I could see the whole incident... It happened fast, and I arrived just as the woman corrected Dempsey by severely jerking his chain backwards (he sat) when she released him, he came to my call, and hid behind me. The woman proceeded to harshly scold me for "allowing my dog to jump on children. "
First of all... If Dempsey had actually jumped ON the (4year old?) girl...she would not have stayed standing, or gone unscathed.... my puppy is large. 90 lbs and eye level with the kid. If he had so much as bumped into her energetically she would have been knocked down.
Secondly, I don't 'allow' my dog to jump on anyone. Ever. I take the responsibility of owning a large animal seriously, and work diligently to correct undesirable behavior. Unfortunately... in a Dog Park he runs ahead of me, and I cant always catch every misbehavior immediately. I work on correcting Dempseys 'lick greeting'. A lot. It's gross and it drives me crazy. I must tell him "no lick" 187 times a day.... the only thing I say more is "off the counter" but he is after all, a puppy. My response to the woman was;
"I never set my dog loose in kid parks.... for good reason. You should seriously reconsider setting your kid loose in a dog park."
A dog deserves a place to let loose and be a dog! I was under the impression a DOG PARK was that place.
I trust my animal around kids or I wouldn't have brought him into this park.
None the less... Children at the dog park need to be prepared on what to expect. Coached on possible scenarios and responses... taught proper ways to interact with dogs. If that's too much... Maybe carried by the parent? Or... keep kids out of DOG parks. It's not safe.
Some dogs ARENT socialized to kids. That's reality. Whether or not they should is a moot point when its too late and your child is injured. Some owners don't realize they need to socialize their animal to children. They assume it comes naturally, in the 'socialized to people' category. It doesn't. Dogs see kids as equals, and it can cause problems quickly. Aside from that, dangerous fights break out over toys... Some dogs snap if you touch their ears, or grab their tail. I've seen adults inadvertently knocked down by a game of chase... on multiple occasions.
In a perfect world, all dogs would be properly socialized, and impeccably behaved... then again... so would all humans. It is dangerous to take a small child into a dog park.
If you've looked up this park and you aren't sure about your dog around children.. like... really super sure..... you should scope it out before you go in, just my advice based on my few experiences. read more