ATTENTION: Our son had a stroke during birth with Ann Crowell, the owner of Gentle Beginnings Birth Wellness Center, as his midwife.. At the onset of labor, we were told to stay home as my wife until she couldn't handle it anymore. So we did until my wife was laying on the floor in pain. And then we had to tell Ann we were leaving as it is close to an hour to get to the birthing center. We arrived to find a non certified midwife in training there to care for my wife. Ann was not there. My wife was 6-7 cm when we arrived and progressed to 10 cm very rapidly. And finally Ann shows up at the last minute to start delivery. She didn't even remember our son's name. She called him two different names during delivery and we had to remind her of his name. I guess she was too busy then to remember our son's name.
So quickly into labor, my son was not progressing thru her pelvis and Ann kept putting her in a 'knee up/stirrup' position which was not conducive to delivery with my wife's smaller hips. MY son's heart rate would slow and was not recovering from the contractions, and suddenly the midwives starting quietly talking between each other. No one would tell us anything. Finally I demanded to know what was going on. She explained that his heart rate was not coming up and we may need to go to the hospital for delivery. My son's heart rate continued not to recover and she finally moved my wife into a different position and he was delivered.
Now my wife is resting to pass the placenta, and instead of waiting a bit and seeing if it would pass on its own, Ann, who appeared to be in a rush and tired, sorry we kept you up for the delivery of our baby BTW, reached inside my wife and pulled on the placenta several times which made my wife scream in agony. Then she did it again. Instantly blood starting pouring of my wife and we discovered the placenta was torn now after being pulled. So now my wife and child are rushed to the hospital. We were told my wife lost at least two liters of blood and was almost unconscious from hypovolemic shock. She needed transfusions and emergency surgery to remove the placenta.
I was told by Ann after delivery that her protocol was to transport to the hospital after so many contractions if the fetal heart rate does not recover. She told me she let the heart stay low longer and for more contractions than her protocol dictates. She broke her own protocol and my son had a stroke. According to the MRI, the timing and age of damage, as we were told, correlated with the timing of his birth/labor. Had she not broke her protocol and transported him to the hospital earlier within her guidelines, my son very well may not have had a stroke. But I will never know now. We were told only a couple times in the past had anyone ever been transported to the hospital and in the group of mothers my wife belonged to, three mothers were transported to the hospital during labor.
So now, several days later, after an MRI, three neonatologists, and three pediatric neurologists, my son lays in the NICU with so many tubes and machines tied and hooked up to him; you can barely see him. He is in an constant seizure with his little body twitching. His was given narcotics to place him in a coma like state to stop convulsing, and stayed there for almost a week. He was released from the NICU almost two weeks later. Now after hundreds of thousands of dollars, debt, and hundreds/thousands of hours spent working with him, my son had lost approx. one fifth of his brain, still suffers from epileptic seizures, and has learning disabilities. His doctors say he will be this way for the rest of his life.
During our checkup appts, Ann regularly appeared tired and had to be reminded of my wife's name and my son's name as well. She was late to multiple appts for whatever reasons she deemed more important. We also paid in advance. Maybe she felt she didn't need to put in as much effort now that it was paid for in advance. I really don't know why.
I do know it was a horrible experience that will stay with my family and, now my son will have to deal with the stroke impact, for the rest of his life. I will never recommend Gentle Beginnings and/or Ann Crowell to anyone. She broke her own protocols and she told me so. I share my son's experience to give people a look at what can did happen there. . I also want people to know what my family went thru and make an informed decision as to whether this is the birthing center to entrust your child's and wife's life to or not. It is not for me. read more