Thanks to Fairfax Egg Bank and to the sacrifice and selflessness and generosity of our egg donor, after ten years of marriage my husband and I were finally able to have me get pregnant at age 47 despite my diminished ovarian reserve, endometriosis, natural killer cells, antiphospholipid syndrome, and obesity.
Our first daughter was born in December 2017 from the first embryo that we transferred, conceived with the help of a donor egg from Fairfax Egg Bank. I am almost eight months pregnant with our second daughter, from the second embryo that we transferred, also conceived with the help of a donor egg from Fairfax Egg Bank. It's an emotionally difficult process to decide to use an egg donor, and then I spent countless hours searching for the right egg donor for my daughters.
Ms. Samantha Marple, our coordinator at Fairfax Egg Bank, held my hand long-distance through the entire process from late in 2016, exchanging daily emails with me and helping me find potential egg donors on the Fairfax Egg Bank's website based on the factors I shared with her that were important to me. Ms. Marple is still there for me now, two and a half years later, sharing in my joy and amazement at my growing family. As far as the then-26-year-old donor's eggs, out of 7 frozen eggs that we received from her (only a portion of what was retrieved at one time), 6 survived thawing, a remarkable 5 fertilized with my husband's sperm even though he is of advanced paternal age, and out of those 5 fertilized eggs, four embryos made it to day 5 or 6 and to implantation or freezing. We transferred a fresh embryo in the spring of 2017 that resulted in pregnancy, and a second embryo was frozen in the spring of 2017 and then thawed perfectly in the fall of 2018 and also resulted in pregnancy, and we have two remaining embryos that were frozen in the spring of 2017. We are so pleased to have found and used Fairfax Egg Bank!
I received responses to my numerous emails within hours, and they helped me through a loan process to pay their fees. We had our loan funded within 48 hours and the frozen eggs on their way to our clinic within days. When you are already so anxious going through fertility treatment, Fairfax Egg Bank's quick response and constant communication and caring help are so comforting and reassuring. Not having had children had been my only regret in life, but thanks to Fairfax Egg Bank, I have my perfect, beautiful, miracle babies, and my dream of having a family of my own finally came true. And even more profound, I was able to carry my babies in my womb and feel every aspect of their remarkable growth, and I was able to breastfeed. It was a long, hard road, but I wouldn't change anything now because this is the family I was meant to have, and I cannot describe the depth of love for my daughters or my awe every minute of the day when I look at or think about them. read more