I was a student of El Cajon Driving School about 1-2 years ago and finally got around to writing this review.
I had three lessons, with the first two from Jim. First of all, Jim was an amazing guy and was very understandable and clear the entire time when instructing me how to drive. He got to know me and my interests, and we had very in-depth conversations the whole way through.
However, my last lesson was with Sonya, and frankly, it was three hours of pure scolding. I was not used to the controls Sonya's car had, so when I questioned where some controls were before the lesson even started, she was quick to roll her eyes and condescendingly belittle me in my apparent cluelessness of driving. My neighborhood is very watchful of the speed of drivers, so even though the speed limit was 25, I drove 10-15 to make sure I would not put in danger any of the numerous little kids who are often playing out in the street. Sonya did not hesitate to scold how I did not even know the residential speed limit (even though I did), despite explaining my reasons for driving slowly to her. She never once offered any positive feedback, and I maybe heard her smile and laugh once the entire three hours, which was at her own joke. Furthermore, as I was stiffened up, triple thinking every touch of the brake and gas pedal and turn of the wheel to hopefully not make Sonya scold me more than she already has, she continually scolded my mistakes that I made (I went into the left lane too early one time and didn't have my turn signal on long enough another time) and the fact that I did not know where the controls in her car were at the beginning of the session. She made me park numerous times so she could yell at my mistakes and ask what I was doing. Another time, when I was waiting in the lane to turn left, she thought I was going to pull into oncoming traffic as a car passed despite me being completely still the entire time (???) and grabbed the wheel and yelled if I was trying to "kill both of us." At the end of the session when we were done driving, skipping over the numerous other events like these as I would not be able to fit everything into one review, she was required to sign a slip of paper authorizing me to take the permit test. Her last statement was of the words that she should not be signing the slip of paper, but she is anyway and that she hoped to never see me drive in the streets, and to fix my "horrible" driving. She left without any other words, refusing to shake my hand as a last attempt to show whatever amount of appreciation I had at this point, and left.
Sonya managed to influence me to not drive for about 6 months after her last lesson with me. I took more lessons with other instructors eventually, to fix my "horrible driving," but not once did another instructor do or say anything Sonya had. In fact, many of the instructors said I did not need any more instruction, and offered constructive criticism whenever needed, and also gave me positive feedback: both things that Sonya avoided doing and yelled at me about or ignored instead.
Everything else from El Cajon Driving School I have experienced (the online program and Jim) was top-notch. However, Sonya managed to single-handedly destroy any overall positive opinion I had on this school. I realize now after working with numerous other driving instructors that her attitude was disgusting and was easily the most repulsive and careless I have ever seen.
If you decide to go to El Cajon Driving School for in-person lessons and get paired with Sonya, ask to switch instructors immediately. Anyone would be better than her. read more