Not my first rodeo, but definitely my first wretched experience. This is my third time in the hospital for Ulcers. The most unpleasant part of my painful and lurid episode that lead me to Suburban Hospital, was dealing with doctor Gupta. Im fine with having a doctor without any level of empathy, however I am not fine having it translate to complete unprofessionalism.
Chain of events went down like this:
1- Threw up over half my body blood supply at once, landed in the hospital.
2- Dr. Gupta came in with a smile, but without his doctors hat. Saw me for about 2 minutes max and walked out leaving me clueless and with a bunch of questions. I'm at a point where I need a blood transfusion to stay alive and this guy comes in talking with me all casual while giving me no medical substance. Mind you I have not ate one thing all day and they put me on a fast starting around 12 pm when I came in, till 1pm next day. The purpose of my fast was to prepare me for a procedure in the AM which was confirmed by other doctors and nurses. I was cool until 11am next day where I had to ask, what happened to my procedure. This is when the doctor starts getting offensive, defensive, exceedingly unprofessional, and furthermore oblivious to the details of my hospitalization which he should have been informed about.
3- Dr. Bakhshi, who doctors named as his "assistant", or "partner", or whatever the relation, came to pay me a visit in the hospital and tell me that we will be doing the operation the next morning. So I am sitting here thinking, what the hell was the point of fasting for 24 hours???? Obviously me and my mother were curious and concerned. My mom started asking Bakhshi a bunch of questions which were followed by very vague answers. He gave me the number for Gupta.
4- I called Gupta to ask him some simple questions to find out what is going on. I did not call yelling or accusing or anything. And oh my god. Gupta turned into something similar to a demonic figure blasting me with outrageous comments and not allowing me to talk or ask a question without cutting me off. The way he was talking to me sounded like he wanted to come into the hospital and have a fist fight with me. Spent extreme verbal abuse to my end, and mind you im already stressed enough. Trying to argue with me and not taking responsibility for any of his actions. Additionally, he began to insult my mother to me, and also said that I was representing my mother. Well despite what he may thing, I am the ill one in bed here, im not representing anyone but myself. My mother was representing me. And I am the only one who has authority to discuss these matters with the doctors. Therefore even if my mother was running around screaming at everyone, which she was not (was very calm and respectful), Gupta should not be treating his patients and family with disrespect.
He proceeded to pass the buck onto Bakhshi about scheduling and said he didn't know what was going on or when anything was going to happen. He was playing stupid or he really has no idea what goes on with his patients. Either way he portrayed himself to me as an illogical, unethical, disorganized, greedy, and impulsive person. I don't know why people say he has a good reputation because he did not show himself to be someone of high caliber stature to me. On the phone he sounded like a punk jock of high-school age. Would never thought this guy has a medical degree from his conveyance. Furthermore, he concluded our conversation by telling me he didn't feel like talking about this, then hung up on me.
5- Finally got my procedure done and left.
It doesn't end there....
After my procedure the doctor didn't come see me to tell me what was going on or what he saw. Its been over a week and I still didn't get a follow-up call or any communications. There is NO CARE for patients to any extent other than milking that commission. I sense a lot of greed and lack of pride in craftsmanship. I see the other bad reviews on here and can fully relate. I see the good reviews and cannot see why there is a great deal of variance other than the fact they must be friends and family members leaving reviews.
Believe me I consolidated these events with a family friend who is a Gastro and other close friends that are high level medical professionals that are retired and teaching at med school; who agree with the issues we had with all of the above.
My advice to Gupta and team. Do your job. You don't have to like it anymore, and its ok to be greedy, but don't let it show through practice. You don't have to kill us with kindness, but at least respect us. And finally, mistakes and miscommunications happen, but take responsibility for them and be humble. You are dealing with lives, not machines. read more