The way that the Owner acts and behaves gives small businesses and the City of Alameda a Bad name/Reputation. If you don't fit her particular description of who her clientele should be, expect to have a bad experience...and by that, i mean an upper to middle class, conservative white female...because as a man she was completely out of line....Oh and dont say the word PENIS in the store either....
my mother in law was in there with my wife and saw something she really liked, so she had the sales associate hold it for me to pick up the next day with my name and number...i go in look over the other nice things they have what i think is a friendly conversation with the associate about their wares and even the nice color of eye shadow she was wearing.
i look over behind the counter and see a litlle statue of a mushroom with two circular hedges on each side with a sign that says lifes good on it....i remark that it looks like a penis, in a way that was both funny, but also that the way its displayed might give her clientele pause seeming how its of the female variety...i leave with my item and no issues that i know of...
a few hours later i get a call from the owner, Barbara, to tell me i'm banned from the store because i offended the associate. she doens't offer reason why or how. i told her that i know what i said, that the mushroom statue SHE is selling looks like a penis..not MY penis, or any other term for it. but the scientific name.as well i didnt say i'd do anything with it, or make any other referenceout side of the items shape. she then has the audacity to say shes never been talked to like that before, that nobody has ever mentioned anything, and shes had men come in all the time and never be so bold...of course they're not. no man goes in there of his own volition. she then decides to question how my wife would feel if i said that word in public. first of all she married me, secondly she knows how i am, and thirdly, How dare you question somebody not involved in the conversation, and make an assault on my character for using a word that isn't a bad word, especially in the context that i was using which was shapes..(like a donut, or a square, or what have you). I did attempt to talk to that associate to apologize that she was offended, but i don't take back anything i said, because nothing was wrong...But to take time to call me and get in to a fight and question my character (she assumes i'm some sort of rude lowlife who has no business shopping in her store, which i get the sense isn't the first time to happen)
the irony is that the associate never acted like ther was an issue, like i said, talked about her eye shadow color, and the fact that i, and her husband had both done theater...she never gave an inkling of anything being off...BUT THEY WERE SURE HAPPY TO TAKE MY MONEY...principals i guess...
Its bad enough sometimes that alameda gets this reputation for being a certain way, its even worse when you see somebody put it in to action...i would never have gone in there, as most men would not...and dont give 2 craps a rats behind if im banned...but the reason is so insane and the way she handled it was so bad, i figured id just give warning...so what ever you do, don't go in there and say the word penis.... read more