**WARNING** LENGTHY BUT HONEST REVIEW
I live about 6 hours north from where Compass Trainings is located. I just completed the Bootcamp Training with Compass this weekend. If you're combing through IG, compasstrainings.com, and/or Yelp trying to make up your mind about stepping into Compass, let me give you my reason for traveling 6 hours and a short recap of my weekend with an honest review(if you would just like to read the review you can scroll down):
For years I thought my life was in pretty good order. I had plenty of friends(who always seemed to look up to me) and a family who I spend a lot of time with. I have an amazing girlfriend and best friend who I can thank for recommending me to Compass. I always seemed to be a person who can pick up and learn things pretty quickly. However, when I met the love of my life, she opened my eyes to a few things.
First, those friends that seemed to look up to me, they did so because they weren't doing much with their lives. Some of them didn't have jobs. Their relationships were crumbling or they were single. All me and my friends seemed to do was drink and hangout at someone's house. I grew up with most of my friends so leaving them behind was not an option to me. However, my GF reminded me that you are the company you hang around.
Second, the family that I spend a lot of time with, I was never actually very close to. I never talk to them about personal things in my life. I've never opened up to anyone in my family about anything emotionally. Coming from an Asian family, I just thought that's how we moved, right?
Third, I was always someone who can pick up and learn things quickly, but for some reason I always stopped before I mastered something. I'm a so called, "jack of all trades, master of none." At least that's what I've been told by various people in my life.
Fourth, and the biggest reason for me to finally trust compass, I have such a loving and amazing girlfriend but after awhile I stopped reciprocating the love she was giving me. I realized that I would pretty much leave her sitting by herself while I drank at parties with people I knew and she didn't. My friends would come to the house to hang out and drink all night. She would tell me that she wasn't happy with what I was doing and that it hurt her to see me falling apart because she knew I could be and do so much more than what I was showing. She mentioned Compass trainings to me but I always brushed it off thinking I didn't need something like that. Unfortunately, It came to a point where I HAD to figure out why I needed so much validation from my friends, that I was choosing my girlfriend second.
THE REVIEW:
I finally stepped into the Compass Bootcamp Training this Friday, May 3, 2024. As I sat there uncomfortably at 9:45am I remember thinking, "what am I doing here?! How is a 3-day class really going to change who I've been all my life?! There isn't even anything wrong with me." As more people walked in, that uncomfortability grew stronger. Little did I know how much my way of thinking, my life, and my values would change in just that FIRST day! THIS IS NOT AN EXAGGERATION. My eyes went from squinting like I'm reading fine print to wide open, stepping away from the wall sitting directly in front of me, and looking at the biggest picture possible. IN. THE. FIRST. DAY!! I cried on the way back to my hotel. I NEVER cry so all this was new to me. I honestly thought I was ready to go home after the first day because I was "healed" already. I've never been more wrong.
The second day was more EMPOWERING than the first(which I thought would be impossible when we were wrapping up the first day)! The exercises we did really helped me to open up and release a lot of pent up emotion. The conversations I had allowed me to view perspectives I never considered. This Second day was so empowering and life changing for me. At the end of the second day, I was literally crying on the way home again out joy and relief from the things I was able to release and learn about myself.
The third and final day had its own importance. Emotions were soaring but the videos and exercises really help put things into perspective for me. I was actually sad the training was coming to an end.
This was by far the most influential thing I've ever done for myself. I can honestly say that I see things in a different light after completing the bootcamp. I know myself a lot better than before I walked through those doors. The people I felt uncomfortable with have now become some very close friends to me in a matter of three days. Luis(the facilitator), the staff, and the participants all played a huge role for my growth. This training was so empowering that I HAD to commit to the next half of the training: THE EXTREME! read more