My first visit to this dentist was this past winter, when I got my teeth checked. The appointment was odd because it seemed to all happen so fast and was a bit different (not necessarily bad) from cleanings and check ups I have had in the past, (they didn't scrape my teeth, they polished before cleaning) but there were no immediate warning flags. I hadn't been to a dentist in about a year at this point. I still brushed and used mouthwash regularly, though wasn't flossing every day as I have in the past-though still flossed periodically each week. The dentist said that I had some cavities and indicated 3 locations in my mouth.
I went back to have the cavities filled earlier this month and realized that the dentist determined I actually needed 8 fillings. Now I have NEVER had that many cavities at one time before, and hadn't had any cavities from 2009-2014 (seeing a different dentist). I went ahead and had him do 6 of the cavities, before i couldn't handle the pain anymore. After having the work done, I was speaking with others and researching online and found out that some dentists will fill anything and everything, even soft spots or "micro-cavities". ( "Microcavities" are not a new phenomenon. In fact, they are essentially a very early stage of the tooth decay process that may or may not develop into a full-blown cavity. Today's "microcavities" are what dentists have for decades referred to as incipient caries, or to put it more simply, "surface cavities". http://www.michaelsinkindds.com/blog/microcavities-to-fill-or-not-to-fill/)
I had a second appointment with the dentist to fill the remaining 2 cavities the other night. My teeth/jaw from the first job still hurt immensely after 2 weeks and are very sensitive to eating hard foods like chips. I mean hurt so badly that it sent a chill down my whole body if I chewed in the wrong spot and sometimes kept me awake, like it did the night before my 2nd visit and I had to take aspirin to get some sleep ( i very very very rarely take pain medication). The pain has been decreasing slowly, but I have never experienced this kind of prolonged pain from fillings before, and with the info I had learned about some dentists filling surface cavities, I decided that I wanted to consult with the dentist and ensure that he was filling full-blown/ must be filled cavities, because I would rather monitor surface cavities and only have invasive dental work when absolutely necessary.
When I brought my concerns up with the dentist, he became very defensive. Please note that I was NOT rude, nor accusatory. I was simply seeking reassurances that the work was necessary in his professional opinion and that we were on the same page with the type of care that I wished to receive. So I had told him of my concern with suddenly having so many cavities (which can indicate that microcavities are being filled) and asked him if the fillings that he was going to fill were in fact full blown cavities, or if they could be monitored and halted with fluoride rinses, etc. He said that he had never heard of the term "microcavity" (though this is a very well known and often used term). He said that I was accusing him of just filling non-cavities and then refused to fill the last 2 cavities. He told me if I was so concerned that I should seek a 2nd opinion, and that I was more than welcome to just let the cavities go and that they would continue to grow and just be bigger cavities (this was said rather rudely). He was more concerned with wanting me to see things from his view point- how dare I question him, his decision and his integrity- rather than helping me to better understand how he determines the need for fillings and providing me with proof of his integrity. He seemed to think that simply because I have a lot of other cavities (mostly from my childhood) that I must just have bad/pron to cavity teeth. Again, haven't had a cavity in years, then suddenly have 8! He stated that he believes that there are no micro-cavities, that a cavity is a cavity and he will fill it.
I have a right as a patient to advocate for myself and to understand the treatment that I am receiving. I have questioned doctors, dentists, dermatologist before and have NEVER had one become so defensive. I will not be returning to a dental practice that demands trust rather than doing what it takes to earn it. read more