Before I met Arya, I was locked in tight spirals of anxiety, depression, and self hatred. I used to think of my life as stumbling through a dark room, looking for an object I had never seen before. I walked into this work looking for things I had no belief in finding. When I started working with Arya, what he offered was a gentle, profound deconstruction to a mental script. He challenged me to re-envision an imaginary isolated room as infinitely expansive terrain. He encouraged me to release the death grip on "what I know" and to be vulnerably open to everything I do not know. I was asked to seek self kindness in the same vein as self cruelty. This process left me raw. It took time to understand the pain I had to endure, and I eventually did. Over months, as I evolved, my view of myself and the world braved a fundamental reshaping.
As a life coach, Arya is deeply receptive, sharply intuitive, wholly present, and personally invested. His keen insight into a person's innate nature is his subtle power. It allows him to shed light on ingrained layers of self-sabotage and seek ways to gently redirect to a more free, essential self. His sessions are a safe space to hold the full, uninhibited range of a person, including habits of shame, discomfort, or trauma that may otherwise never see the light of day. Arya has an unnerving ability to pick up on nuance, and he can easily adapt from moment to moment, holding you precisely where you need with care. What begins as micro-shifts, over repeated sessions, ripples out into larger patterns of personal change.
I do not see Arya as a coach who will impose a "correct" lifestyle, tell you how to achieve something, or give you a rubric to follow. He is not interested in imposing beliefs, nor "good" or "bad" judgments. He's interested in bringing forth what is innate, genuine, and particular to you as the client, and this is how his counseling reaches a core level. It requests skin-grazing honesty and direct intimacy with your defense patterns, your stubborn beliefs, and your genuine wants.
One of the traits I value most in Arya is his honesty. He wholeheartedly believes in his approach and actively practices what he preaches in his life. In this way, he relates to his clients with humanizing sincerity and empathy. He brings himself to the table while patiently challenging you to do the same. His candidness means he will call you out on your BS, holding you accountable for yourself rather than letting you take the easy way out. With kindness, he always encourages a more honest self to come forward.
I have worked with Arya for a year and four months. Over this time I have become fuller and more self-honest, filling into spaces that are deeper and lighter. I am more personally empowered than I have ever been, and what I have learned is, there is much, much more to me than I will myself to believe. Today, I am better equipped to build upward in capacities that were impossible for me a year ago, and better equipped to handle when I find myself in familiar difficult places. The freedom offered in this work is a chance to ease the layers of confinement placed upon yourself -- who you are or aren't, what success looks like, what love feels like, how you should or should not be. At its simplest, the goal is to love, cherish, and foster 'you', unconfined by personal conditioning that has trapped you in place for ages.
Over time, my relationship with Arya has only gotten richer. In my sessions, I look forward to laughing with him, crying, and everything in between. To me, this trust is the mark of a truly effective coach. Arya is my dear friend and trusted ally, and my gratitude is boundless. read more