See those scratch marks at the front sidewalk? Those were made by my fingernails as I was dragged in here my freshman year by my mother, who was fed up of the local public schools and threw me to the nuns. Me at 13: "Um, uniforms? No boys? As if! I'm sooo outta here!"
Now, many (MANY) years later, I can see that a single-sex, religious education was the making of me. I can't say enough good about that. I didn't realize at the time how unusual it was to get the kind of education I did there. I realized soon after graduation that my negativity towards CHS while I was there was more general teen angst and that I didn't really have any well-founded criticisms of the school.
The academics were good, but probably no better than some of the schools in local wealthy areas (I went to college with kids from Northgate and Acalanes and it seemed like we all got about the same level of education). But the focus on community service, on developing our own set of values, on Christianity as social justice, on our roles as women in the world and in the Church... these were unique experiences to CHS. also, the teachers and staff are some of the most dedicated people I've ever met. They really get to know their students. It is really hard to "slip through the cracks" here.
Now, about the stuff that's not in the brochures:
As a lower middle-class kid in a school full of rich kids, I felt a lot poorer than I really was. To the extent that elitism is a problem, it really originates with the parents and not with the students. Some people send their kids here because they want to tell their golf buddies that their kid is in private school. That side of things left a bad taste in my mouth for most of the "CHS alumni pride" stuff.
It was already almost totally white when I went there, and the few minorities hung out together. Plus, from the recent pictures I've seen, they appear to have eliminated all the minorities from the student body. Hopefully that's not true.
The school is not large enough to have special programs for students who need extra attention in the classroom because of academic or behavioral isssues. If your kid needs a highly remedial program or is an emotional train wreck, this is not a suitable place for them. There are not enough resources to provide that kind of specialized support. Try to get an intra-district transfer to one of the larger public schools or look into smaller private schools.
However, if your child has a physical disability and they are getting shut out at the public school, I think this is a great place for that student. I was horrified to learn about the way students with physical disabilities are excluded and tormented at other schools. If that had gone on here, the students would have been as quick to react as the staff.
Lots of parents want to send their kids here. It's one of the few feeder high schools for many local Catholic K-8s. Don't amble up to the school 2 days before classes start with your tween in tow and then be pissed that you can't get in. If you are interested in sending your kids here, start getting involved early. read more