Never again
Booked a time late in the evening (6:30pm) to play some casual golf with my girlfriend who is new to the game and who I wanted to show the field for the first time (she's been practicing on the range for a couple months and I thought it would be nice to get her some field practice). Upon check in, we noticed that we've been grouped with another pair. We felt a little uncomfortable playing with others because we were worried about keeping pace with our skill level. So, we asked the front desk if we could rebook a tee time where we will be guaranteed a twosome. They kindly rebooked us for a later time (6:52pm) and told us that they will let us know if somebody does end up grouping with us again. Approaching the tee time, we didn't hear back so we walked up to the first hole. This is where the conflict started. We were behind a solo player who was behind a full group. While waiting, the course ranger pulls up with a random player next to him telling us that this individual will be grouped with us. I told the ranger that there is a solo player ahead of us, so they can be grouped as a twosome. He replied "she requested to be alone". Before I could even respond, he immediately points out that we only had one bag for the pair of us. We weren't aware that every person playing had to have their own bag - it's been a while since I played on the field as well. My girlfriend usually only practices driver, 7 iron, and putting, so I had only put those clubs of hers in my own bag. He goes on to say "don't you guys know the rules? Nobody shares bags anymore" as if it were common sense. At this point, my girlfriend who was already nervous playing on the field got really shook and started to get teary eyed. I kept trying to explain our situation but he would continuously cut me off saying that those are the "rules". He further goes on to 'rub it on us' by saying "if you like golf so much, why don't you just get a bag, it's only $5 dollars at goodwill". He then condescendingly offers a solution by having someone bring rental clubs for my girlfriend and saying that he will "let this slide" this one time. Obviously we were both offended at this point and my girlfriend no longer wanted to play this round. So I took a deep breath and told him I would just play by myself and that my girlfriend will spectate. But, guess what, he had a problem with that too. Apparently he "knows" that we will cheat and that she will scoop in a chip or two while I play with the other person. He said that he would have to follow and keep an eye on us to make sure she wouldn't play. My girlfriends starts to burst in tears feeling accused of being a cheater and getting pointed out for being inexperienced in the sport (same goes for me too). I tried one more time to have a civil conversation by stating that we also "requested to play alone" as the solo player ahead of us did. But apparently he only takes personal requests and not requests made to the front desk. After a moment of silence, he pretends to 'give up' and has a solo player behind us group with the stranger and told us to play after. Looking over my shoulder, my girlfriend is bawling and my heart is pounding out of anger. I looked at my girlfriend and told her "let's just get out of here". She nodded and we proceeded to head out telling the group behind us that they can take our spot. The course ranger, watching us walk away, added a nice comment "make sure you get your refunds~".
My girlfriend is now traumatized and doesn't want to play golf ever again. I just don't understand why all of this had to happen. If you have to group, why is okay to group to a twosome and not to a solo when both requested to play alone? If he knows that we were both relatively inexperienced in the sport, why couldn't he have been more gentle and perhaps offer us to wait just a bit longer to play more pressure free. We are aware of the pace of play etiquette and was willing to pick up balls and drop it closer if it felt like we were falling behind. I understand he was just trying to do his job regarding the 1 bag per player rule, but there's no need to start accusing people of being "cheaters"; we did pay green fee for two people. In the end, we weren't even upset about not playing but rather the insults and shade thrown at us by this one man. Sucks that a highly anticipated evening had to be ruined like that. This was a horrible experience for the both of us and we will never return to this golf course as long as that ranger is there. read more