I love taking afternoon tea and one of my favourite places to enjoy the cherished ritual is at Aubrey Rose Tea Room in La Mesa. Located in a pleasant sidewalk-lined row of shops, Aubrey Rose is a hidden gem of a quaint, distinctively feminine and vintage-style tea parlour that offers a charming and cozy British afternoon tea experience. As guests enter the venue, they can feel like they are stepping back in time, being transported by elegant, traditional and vintage English charm. The ornate space is romantic floral themed and antiques-filled with tea-related gifts and Victorian décor that fill up the shelves which create intimate table spaces set with delicate fine bone china. At Aubrey Rose, the cherished ritual of afternoon tea is elevated to an upscale affair. I like to opt for the Queen Victoria Tea which includes a Seasonal Soup Course with Accompanying Savoury, a three-tiered tray, organized by savoury and sweet (Bottom Tier: Assorted Finger Sandwiches and Savouries, Middle Tier: fresh Seasonal Fruit, and Top Tier: an assortment of Petite Treats and Sweets), Dessert Scone and accompaniments served as the last course, and Unlimited Premium Loose Leaf Tea. I highly recommend the chilled cantaloupe soup which is beautifully presented and deliciously refreshing. The house made tidbits and sweets are also delightful. Service is welcomely warm, friendly and attentive. The Aubrey Rose Tea Room experience heightens a simple pause for a beverage, blending comfort with a touch of elegance, into a moment to slow down and appreciate the finer things in life...with your pinky up. read more

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Such a wonderful experience. Love the ambiance and the vibe inside. A lot of neat things in this area of La Mesa. Parking is public, and there were spots but I can see how it would get challenging at later times. Service was great. Food was great. Tea was great. Highly recommend this for anyone! read more

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I have been several times in the last decade or so. A friend and I have a tradition of grabbing holiday tea every December and this has been one of the places on rotation, especially in the years since covid as Aubrey Rose Tea Room is one of the few places that have outdoor seatings. Each time we've come here making a reservation ahead of time. This year my husband and I made a special reservation for August and took all the mothers in my husband's family here as a Mother's Day treat (yes, in August), and I think everyone had a lovely time. We got to try a good variety of teas. The servers are all very friendly, and the food is as expected, with the amount of savory treats on the bottom, and the delicious soup served at the beginning, scones for the center tray, and desserts at the top. One of the things about Aubrey Rose Tea Room is that the desserts aren't super sweet. Oddly enough, both my friend and I aren't really into sweet items, so we either don't pack eat the sweet items or take them home with us. However, the amount of sugar in their desserts don't seem as strong as other establishments which to me is a positive. Not that it isn't sweet, but still enough for me to go "Oh, that's sweet!" Those scones too, with clotted cream is hard to beat. Always one of my favourites of afternoon tea. The sandwiches and the small puffed pastries are often mixed up a bit, and are always fun to try out - and generally my favourite since we both prefer savoury items. Inside is an array of tables, with decor and cute English items and tea placed in between tables. There are a couple bathrooms in the back, clean and nicely decorated. (Most afternoon tea places are nicely decorated. The others in hotels have typical hotel bathrooms, but the dedicated tea places have nicer bathrooms). If you're looking for a quiet atmosphere, outside is where it is at. I think I've sat outside most of the times I've been here and it is incredibly pleasant. The whole area where Aubrey Rose Tea Room is very quaint. Parking can be a bit challenging to find sometimes, as they have 2 hour meters, so you might need to come back and feed it some money, though that isn't always ideal, but there isn't much choice outside of metered parking in the surrounding neighbourhoods. Also, of all the holiday teas I have done in the Greater San Diego area, they are also the most affordable. There are still a few I have yet to go to, but this is permanently in our afternoon holiday tea rotation. If you enjoy afternoon tea, I highly recommend giving it a try. And if you have done afternoon tea before, it's not going to be at the level of any British palace's tea place, but it's pretty darn good. read more

A recent tea with a now kindergarten girl did not disappoint. Packed full on a Saturday so noise a bit of an issue. Bookings give you two hours, so plenty of time. They were extra careful with the child, bringing small ice bits to lower the temperature of the tea, and making it caffeine free for her separately. read more

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So love Afternoon Tea British style. Was in the area and was solo and was peckish and this place fit the bill. They were incredibly busy and it was rather loud as every table was full and so many guests were so happy to eat some delicious food and some unique teas. Weird they all had to yell at each other sitting at the same table. LOL For sure will return when I have some people with me to get larger services and more finger sandwiches. :-) read more

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Service, The service was absolutely FANTASTIC! I felt like I was the only in there! They make sure each and every person feels special! Ambiance, The ambiance was AMAZING! They have a bookshelf that is bell inspired, it fit the theme very well! I really felt like I was really in the movie! The hats were so fun, such a great touch! Everything was so coquette and beautiful! Food, The food was EXQUISITE even with the cute small portion sizes, it filled me up and my family to the max! Don't get me wrong I've never been a tea drinker but this tea we so worth coming back for! Watch out Aubrey Rose tea room you definitely will be seeing my family and I there again VERY soon! Thank you so much for the wonderful experience and delicious food, all and all don't forget the beautiful scenery. Beautiful place worth visiting 100/10 recommend! read more

It is a yearly tradition for my boyfriend and I to celebrate his mom's heavenly birthday with a high tea date. This is our third year and every year we've tried a new tea room. This is by far the best tea room we've been to yet. Reasonable pricing, a nice variety in the tea menu and really nice savories and sweets. The staff is very attentive and friendly. The venue is just adorable and we had a little fun trying on hats. Favorite tea- strawberry kiwi Favorite savory - sun dried tomato pinwheels pinwheel Favorite sweet - whisky bourbon bread pudding read more

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Super fun experience! My friends and I reserved tea and sat outdoors. The presentation of everything was phenomenal and it was all very fresh! The service was incredible! Definitely will be back! read more

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This hidden gem is a delightful spot in downtown La Mesa. Perfect for a small celebration or for larger parties and bigger occasions. My first time was truly unforgettable and the Buccaneer tea is a delicious blend of coconut notes! The servers are all super helpful and I love when everything on the tray is explained in detail! read more

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Food was delicious with plenty of offers for fresh teas in a variety of flavors. Ambiance during the week was nice and calm, plus they took care of us for my mom's birthday with a cute sign celebrating her day. read more

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I stumble into this place during Oktoberfest. When to check it out and fell in love with all the decor and set up. I had to try their special which was a sampler for the 30 bucks. You got a pot of tea and mimosa and a few finger foods everyone was nice. The tea was delicious. The ambience was great. I will definitely come back with my friends next time. read more

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Lovely tea room. The tea sandwiches were delicious and so were the pastries. The atmosphere was very quaint and the service was good. Highly recommend. read more

Service was great. Super friendly staff and teas were wonderful. Our 3 teir platter was delicious of sandwiches, scones, jellies and desserts. I had a wonderful experience the ambience was relaxing but fancy at the same time. read more

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One of my favorite things to do is go to tea! I loved this tea room as they had fantastic service, plenty of fun seating options for all different group sizes, and they have a great many options of tea. I do suggest making a reservation ahead of time because reservations do fill up quickly. I love their grand teas as it comes with the pot of tea with unlimited refills and the tower for tea sandwiches, scones, and desserts. Their sandwiches were good, but I do wish there were more sandwich options besides the two main sandwiches. The rest of the sandwiches were more biscuits. The scones and clotted cream were stellar though! Their fruit options were a delight and very fresh. The desserts were probably my favorite as they were all light yet memorable sweet flavors and styles. I came here with a larger group of friends so I did not get to try all of the teas I would have personally liked, but every tea I had was still delicious. I did get to have the Aubrey rose tea and that was my favorite option of the day. I'll have to come back to try the options I was looking forward to! read more

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Went here with 2 girl friends on Sunday. The decor is super cute and I love that they personalized your table with names of people in your party. Overall the service was pretty good a little slow but you're just sitting enjoying your tea so understandable. The food was good lots of sweets not a lot of savory. This is a super cute outing for a group of friends or mom with daughters or something. The tea was great my only complaint was it was a little pricey for some tea and a few bites but the ambiance and service is worth it. Overall I would go back! Only bummer was pricing was a little high and the bathroom could be nicer. read more

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Ive been attending this place since the previous owners but the sister owners now have done an incredible job in elevating the service and the entire place. They're amazing and the food is delectable. I bring my loved ones and have such a great time EVERY time. Thank you ladies read more

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So Aubrey Rosw tea Room The cutest and most elegant tea room in town hands down This time is a new review because I decided to have my big birthday party here OMG I was impressed beyond expectation The vibes are amazing It was a private lady event Everybody fell in love Missy the owner is AMAZING very sweet and very easy to work with It was a huge hit and Aubrey rose tea room made it happen The food is very good They have many blends of tea and all taste great The food is great It is just perfect Nothing I can say can explain how impressed I am Thank you Missy and team for making my party successful and making my guests happy read more

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It was ok not as excellent as I had hoped for $60.00 (with tip) A couple of the items could be off the next menu add better savory options. Soup delicious but served lukewarm. Desserts very good. A couple of the teas should have waited to be served slightly not strong enough yet. I have had high tea all over the county as well as out of the country to be able to compare. read more

Our server was pleasant. However, that's the end of anything positive. It was crowded and noisy on a Sunday. The food was awful and very skimpy. A tablespoon of jam and clodded cream for 3. Ridiculous. All the baked goods were dry except the banquette. I've been to many teas and this was the worst and the most expensive. Never again !! read more

AubreyRose Tea Room is always a lovely time! The food and service is some of the best in high tea! A cute and quaint vibe that always puts us in a better mood. Unlimited tea and delicious food. The owner, Missy, is always kind and welcoming for such a great experience. My partner and I cannot praise Aubrey Rose enough. We always look forward to our monthly teas :) read more

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The CUTEST high tea in SoCal! Aubrey Rose has served its community for 21 years and it is still in my opinion the best high tea in town. The decor is so cute and tasteful, transporting you to a cute English manor surrounded by adorable English China. The high tea is $42/per person with preset items and every bit was delicious. You get all the teas you want to drink and the staff are beyond lovely. If there's no line, you can stay there beyond the 2 hour time limit and the staff won't rush you at all. They also have a wall of hats that you can borrow while having your high tea. The venue can sit up to 60 people so it is very spacious. There's plenty of street parking available but it is meter parking. So just be mindful when you come to put enough coins in the meter. Also, on Fridays, the Main Street is occupied by the local farmers market so you must relocate your car by 1:30pm or else you'll get a ticket/towed. But there's a huge parking lot right at the back of the coffee shop that you can park at where you can pay the meter 4 hours at a time (75 cents per hour) read more

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Beautiful tea room with large variety and range of tea offerings, delicious filling afternoon tea, consistent and kind servers, and lots of space for a large group. I attended their morning afternoon tea for my friend's bachelorette and had the most fun time. The tea options are fresh brewed and all have distinct flavors that you are able to swap out and are served in stunning tea pots. The food offered may not look filling at first, but with the tea and good friends we all were very full by the end of lunch. All of the food is well made, flavorful, and pair nicely with the drinks. The servers were just great and answered any questions we had about the tea choices. They also came around often to swap drinks and clear away plates. The tea room itself is cozy and has lots of decorations to take in and enjoy. They even have fun hats at the back that you can wear and really add to the experience. read more

Parking would be meter street parking or meter lot parking. There is the downtown La Mesa parking lot not too far. Or if you are lucky, you could find some free street parking in the residential area near by. Overall, it was not hard to find a parking spot on a Saturday around 2pm. Make reservations before you come! Such a lovely tea room for the ladies. Not sure if my husband would have enjoyed it here but my lady group sure did. The place was packed with ladies dressed up with wonderful hats. Even the young girls were dressed up with hats and purses. It was fun to just see how everyone was in character for the moment. It did look like they could accommodate large groups as well. They have the tea of the month choices and also another menu you could choose from. If you are not sure what type of tea to have, you can ask for recommendations. They explain the items off of the full three tier and we went from bottom up. It might not look like a lot of food but I sure got full. All items were delicious (pastries and sandwiches) especially the corn chowder with goat cheese pastry they brought out first. We wished they sold that tiny pastry in a box. All staff were friendly and quick. One of our friends arrived late and they didn't rush us to get things started but started off with the drink of the month while we waited and then brought out our food when she arrived. Your full party does not need to be all there to be seated. read more

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What a fun experience!! I like that they have specific times to choose from for the tea room. They have a selection of different hats that you can wear during your tea experience! There are many different teas to choose from & they change seasonally. We were able to try so many different teas throughout our time there. I love that the teapot was kept warm on the table the whole time from a candle underneath it. They brought out cold melon soup to start which is seasonal as well and perfect for summer. I also appreciated that they put the rose folded napkins on your lap for you. They brought out a three tiered array of different foods. I really liked the savory pastry items. The second tier had fruits and scones on it. I am not a huge scone fan, but the rest of the table really enjoyed them. The top tier had different desserts on it. I wish there were more savory options as fruit, scones and desserts were very sweet. It was an overall wonderful experience and the service was great and they checked up on us frequently. The ambiance and decor is beautiful as well inside. I would recommend checking this place out! read more

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We took our family to tea before attending a play at the Old Globe in Balboa, we always try to find new spots and so grateful we chose Aubrey Rose this year! Tea, food, and champagne were all delightful and we had a lovely time with excellent service. The eclectic decor is adorable too, not unlike tea with Alice and the white rabbit. read more

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Aubrey Rose is one of my favorite high tea establishments. The staff are attentive and helpful, the tea and food always tastes perfect, and it is priced well. They do pack people inside but it's worth it. Inside is cute and floral and feels cozy. Highly recommend. read more

I have been to many afternoon tea rooms around San Diego but Aubrey Rose Tea Room has impressed me for several of reasons: - They are open 4 days a week. Another tea house I know is only open 3 days. - They take online reservations. Other places do phone reservations only. - It is about than $42 for afternoon tea. Other places charge at least $10-20 more. After tip for 2 people our total came out to $110. - This is by far the biggest tea room I have been to. There are over 20 seats. This is a two hour dining experience. I arrived a bit late but they were still able to accommodate me. It is located on a main street in La Mesa with other neighboring shops. There is plenty of parking as there is a lot behind the building. However the parking around here (even on the street) is all metered so make sure you bring your quarters! Let's talk about the actual food and tea. There were so many choices of tea to choose from. We were able to choose 2 at a time and switch them out at any point. Our tray of assortments were absolutely delicious and so much food that we ended up taking to-go boxes home. This is the perfect place to go if you want to catch up with a friend over some light food and I can also see this as a great place to go and celebrate an occasion. read more

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This place is absolutely special. The food and the service was absolutely wonderful. I felt as though the waitress really cared about my guest and I, and was incredibly accommodating to any of our requests. The price was good for what we got, and I would gladly go back again for such a wonderful experience. I went here on a Sunday morning with a friend of mine and we're immediately escorted to our seats. So fun little detail, they took our reservation, and created a special placeholder on our table. It's a little detail, but it was really fun. The overall design of the place, looks like grandmother's cottage. The tables were well spaced, everything was clean, and most importantly, everyone in there looked happy. This place surprise me by allowing us to have unlimited tea for our entire sitting. We were able to drink five different teas, and for a tea drinker like myself, this was absolutely special and extremely fun. The first course was wonderful cantaloupe slushy a chicken salad sandwich. The second course came with a wonderful variety of little cookies, sandwiches, scones, and desserts. With the exception of some small cheddar flavored scone/cookie, everything was very tasty. This place just did an outstanding job and both my guest and I really enjoyed our time here. I look forward to my next experienceat this tea house. read more

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Food and teas were amazingly delicious! We did get a great service. We were able to look at the decor. There were many tea cups and loose tea on sale and quite a variety. read more

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We had the cutest tea time with my girls. The service was spot on and the treats were tasty. Especially the watermelon "soup". The decor is endless and photo opportunities. Loved the location and overall experience. read more

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Today was magical! The instant you arrive you are transported to a beautiful world. The tea and the food are wonderful! We also had the best service in years! Ina, you are a bright light and made our time there amazing, thank you! We will most definitely be back! read more

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Absolutely stellar service, and food I could eat for every meal... eating bread and desserts and getting fat and sassy?? YES PLEASE Its my favorite place to treat friends to! read more

Scheduled an afternoon tea to celebrate my best friends birthday. We were a little frazzled because we didn't know La mesa changed the parking lot to paid parking and we didn't bring coins so we had to find street parking. If you know a tea lover i highly recommend having them come here for afternoon tea! The place was decorated brightly and they offer different hats if you'd like to wear them during tea time. Plenty of cute tea cups and all items needed for tea time for purchase. Our waitress was great, highly knowledgeable in the tea opens and great with suggestions. She stayed on top of keeping our teapots filled and moving us through the courses. I will definitely be back to try more teas and for the delicious accompaniments with the tea. I highly recommend the almond tea and loved all of the savory options. read more

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Went here because I was just itching to experience having a cute little tea party with my girlfriends, so one of my girlfriends secured a reservation and we even took her sweet 3 year old daughter with us and it was a BLAST! I love that there's always a prix fixe menu of delightful sandwiches, various pastries, and desserts and that they even go so far as to personalize a super cute name card with everyone included. Our littlest guest also had a fun time just munching on the fruit and simplified sandwich for her, so if you're thinking of taking younger guests, just do it! Their tea selection was also excellent and we stayed with the house blend, and loved the strawberry kiwi tea also. Would absolutely come here again for the vibes and delicious arrangements. The service is also amazing - every server we had was excellent and super kind. I appreciate the time they take out too, to answer questions and explain every tier of what you're getting. read more

Adorably quaint tearoom in downtown La Mesa with lots of character. Service is up to two hours and costs $45 per adult, reservations recommended (unsure if they allow walk-ins but there were a couple empty seats). Excellent selection of teas, I really enjoyed the Chaucer's Cup and Marrakech Chai, but all I tried were lovely. The soup was a cream of celery and absolutely delicious, the savories and pastries were nice. Very nice service and I'd return for another afternoon tea in the future. read more

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I love that you can try as many tea flavors as you'd like. Everything was delicious and the whole place had a great ambiance.

This was only my second tea service ever. My first visit was at a Vegas tea house which was amazing. So I had high expectations. Sadly this was not as amazing as that experience. Food was ok not great. Service was ok not great decor was ok. Because it is a fixed price menu it just doesn't feel worth the price. One time was enough to experience it. read more

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I had a fabulous time enjoying afternoon tea with my girl friends. We sampled so many teas since it's "bottomless" for the two hours. The first course was a soup, followed by the three tier display of scones, sandwiches, cookies, and other treats. The space is well decorated to make you feel like you're transported to a traditional tea room. The serve ware and teapots were all unique which gave an authentic feel. Really loved the experience overall, it's worth it for a fun time with friends or family! read more

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Had the loveliest time celebrating our annual holiday tea! this was our first time visiting this tea room, and we can confidently say it instantly became one of our favorites!! The decor was perfect for the holidays, the entire staff was so helpful and kind, the tea was so yummy and never ending! and the food portions were vast and delicious. We had a wonderful time and cannot wait to come back next year!!! read more

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What an adorable tea room! Highly recommend Aubrey Rose for anyone looking to celebrate a special event or if you're just feeling extra fancy. The tea selection is fantastic; the tea menu gives a lovely description of each flavor profile and also offers decaf options. The high tea pre-set menu rotates seasonally and boasts a variety of sweet and savory goodies. I absolutely loved everything and was especially impressed how they handled my food allergy (swapped the bourbon in the bread pudding with maple syrup). Oftentimes I just resign myself to missing out on certain things, but the thoughtfulness of their kitchen was very much appreciated! They also have fun hats you can borrow while you enjoy your tea time. They are located on the wall towards the back of the tea room. Definitely a surprising delight! In addition to a wonderful tea service, there are so many adorable tea and home related things that you can buy, many of which are hand-made. Lastly, be sure to make a reservation as space is limited. Parking is aplenty up and down the high street and there is a mini-lot out back. I will definitely be coming back! read more

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