Byanca is an incredible doula! There are not many experiences that can compare to the birth of child. As I prepared for the big day, I knew that I had to have the best of the best by my side - and there was Byanca.
I have known Byanca personally for a few years, and have always been touched by her knowledge, her desire to empower women and her strong grounding presence. Byanca helped deliver another one of our friend's baby via home birth, and I knew the moment I got pregnant - I wanted Byanca to be apart of my birthing experience.
Not to spoil the ending - put my birth was perfect! My water broke on a Friday, and the process began. Byanca came to my home with my other fabulous doula Liz and supported me in whatever I needed. I didn't give birth until Saturday at 8:16 pm - so it was a pretty long stretch of time. I didn't need Byanca the whole time, as I wanted to have some space for myself (I needed to get into a meditative headspace) - but what I loved was Byanca was there at a moment's notice for when I did need the help. After false labor on Friday night, and not much movement on Saturday at about noon on Saturday, my midwife came by and prescribed some exercises and protocols. This was when things started to pick up and when I needed support. Byanca worked with me on the exercises and protocols, and that is when I went into full blown labor. She moved me around the house and kept things fun and light. She also was able to notify my husband who was at work and midwife who lived nearby - which at that point I was not able to do as I was in transition.
Things moved at the speed of light. I was in a lot of pain, but I don't even remember what that felt like - all I remember was how loved and supported I felt the whole time. I felt so blessed and thankful for Byanca's nurturing nature and ability to move me through a natural birth. It was so seamless, and my baby boy was born so healthy and without complications. I was in control the whole time, and I knew it was because of the support of Byanca.
I was keen to do a lotus birth and Byanca worked with me on my intention - she gave me tips, shared feedback on the placenta - explaining the different aspects of it, and it's importance and prepared the placenta after it was cut 24 hours later to get ready for burial. She shared with me all my options and supported me in my choices.
Byanca is such a pillar, and I am forever grateful to her for her role in my birth. If you are looking for a memorable birth, with help in pain mangement, understanding your options as a mama during the birthing process, and helping with the placenta and the aftermath of the initiation into motherhood - Byanca is your doula!
Last thing to note - she also makes the cutest baby necklaces (only worn when mama is watching 24/7) & she also has a deep connection with all the babe's she works with!
Nina Banday, San Francisco, Ca - Baby BD June 30, 2018
Birth Video Review:
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