--Pain medication-free, very positive birth experience at Good Sam during holiday season--
Meg is fantastic. The above comes nowhere near covering the reasons why I'm so grateful we had Meg as our doula, but I wanted to put the outcome highlights up front. We did the "Basics" package and Meg cared for us so well during my pregnancy, the birth, and postpartum.
Meg is calm, encouraging, confident, and strong as hell when appropriate, thoughtful and knowledgeable when that's what you need, personable, and a total kick ass advocate for you in a diplomatic but strong way at the hospital. She's got you covered. She listens well and does not have her own agenda - she's there for YOU so that you can show up and focus on birth with the support you need.
Choosing Meg: I was due right around the winter holidays and apparently finding a doula for a due date between ~Thanksgiving and New Years can be tricky. I also had fears around birth related to some pre-existing conditions. I wanted a doula that would listen carefully to my birth preferences and support them without inserting their own agenda. I wanted to try a no pain medication birth, but if I had a flareup of my condition, I might want to try an epidural anyway and didn't want to be discouraged from that if I asked because I wanted to feel empowered by my confidence in my pain tolerance because it was the only thing I initially felt confident about approaching the birth. Meg listened deeply during our interview consult, and articulated my wishes back to me in her own words, which made it very clear she totally got it and would support me in the way I asked for support, which wasn't the case with some of the doulas we interviewed. It's also good to get a feel for how many clients a doula takes on per month too. Meg is good about limiting how many she'll take on and staggering smartly around due dates (though of course, due dates are good guesses at best!). Be sure to ask about this when you're interviewing doulas.
For the birth, Meg is familiar with Good Samaritan Hospital, and she worked so well with the other nurses. Two shifts of nurses covered my labor, both shifts had very different approaches and personalities, and Meg worked really well with everyone. My baby was in an odd position, and my hip was kind of frozen/stuck in a not-great-for-birth position, but Meg had tricks and maneuvers up her sleeve, and she got the nurses to help her move me and support me in different positions to move the baby and to loosen my hip. She also anticipated things incredibly: by the time my labor hit the "Oh crap, it's getting intense, I need something to ease this RIGHT NOW" phase, she'd already drawn a bath, dimmed lights in the bathroom and set out tea lights. Without Meg's support and ingenuity, I think my partner would have freaked out, and I would have had a C Section that could have been avoided.
Postpartum, Meg checked in on us at our home more than once, and has continued to be supportive several months after our daughter's birth via text or phone. I had trouble with mastitis, and she was there to help support me and provide advice. She checked in on my partner postpartum too, which was wonderful because becoming a parent can also be tough for the non-birthing parent and he was having a bit of a tough time so I was grateful to have her check on him because I was too overwhelmed myself and we had no other support.
A few other notes: Meg was incredibly generous with her time and resources. Meg listened and answered all my questions and went above and beyond many times. I also wanted a doula who was inclusive. Meg makes it clear on her site that she strives for inclusivity, working with all types of families and also states that she believes everyone deserves access to the expertise of a doula, so she tries to accommodate low fee families or barter when she is able. In an area of tremendous wealth disparity, she works to support the whole community with her skills, not just heteronormative rich white folks, and that is something I strongly support. read more