If Yelp reviews could have titles, I'd call this one "The Life Changing Magic of Getting Dressed" and I give all the credit to Pam Etzin of An Eye For Detail.
I'm a reluctant shopper. I don't mind spending money, but I do mind being assaulted by the presence of hundreds of items that I don't like and I don't want to buy. Shopping for clothing is particularly harrowing for me. The experience of "why shopping for womens' clothing sucks" is neatly summed up here: https://thecustomerblog.co.uk/2011/07/19/9-observations-on-the-retail-shopping-experience/
I'm also a lifelong unrepentant "tomboy". I'd much rather be galloping astride a tall Thoroughbred, donning my scuba gear or rummaging around an Army/Navy store than shopping for clothes or perusing fashion magazines. My style could probably be summarized as "paddock boots, jeans and a tank top".
To make matters worse, I'm between sizes and had literally no idea how to dress this larger body, with an impending European vacation only weeks away. After a few failed shopping attempts I sent an SOS email to Pam, and it turned out to be the best investment I've made in myself in years. Within one week I went from staring blankly into my closet to being able to get dressed - looking great and hence feeling great! And it's such a relief not having to stress out about the upcoming vacation.
That Pam loves her work is evident in her down-to-earth enthusiasm, boundless energy and insightful, productive shopping. She also has E.S.P. as while we were initially getting to know each other I was having trouble defining my "style" for reasons previously mentioned. Based on our conversation, her intuition and a few items of clothing I'd brought (we met at Lord and Taylors) she totally "got" what I was about. Then while I got situated in the (no judgement zone) fitting room, Pam went out on the floor, zipping through the racks - particularly the sale racks - and came back with armloads of clothes in my size and colors. Almost everything she picked was a hit. She also made suggestions for things I might have never considered but turned out to be great! Even though I was basically starting from scratch, she was very cognizant of budget - not only working with what limited items I had, but also making sure everything worked together - thus creating a wardrobe. I never knew shopping could be this much fun!
Since I'm 30 lbs from my weight loss goal and don't want to spend a lot on clothes , our next trip was to TJMax. When I arrived, Pam had already "pre-shopped" and had loaded up a wagon. Once again, nearly everything was a home run! In short order, I walked out with two huge very affordable bags of beautiful clothes. This lady is worth her weight in gold. Being able to dress nicely despite being overweight makes a huge difference in self-esteem and confidence.
Best of all, you don't have to be one of the 1% to work with Pam - she has an affordable tiered pricing structure and can work within anyone's budget. I went for a pricier package that includes a closet clean-out which hasn't happened yet, so I may have to edit this review. But I'm sure by the time Pam's done, my short-on-space NYC closet will be a Masterpiece. read more