I find it really interesting that the reviews are basically either one star or five star. I think that says a lot right there! It's not a forgettable experience, that's for sure. I am graduating the program in a couple weeks and I have lots to say about all of this.
There's a lot in the one-star reviews where I found myself nodding my head like, yeah I get that. There are some frustrating things about being in a team with people who you didn't choose. Some of the methodologies and tactics can seem manipulative. They seemed that way to me at times as well. Not everyone will walk away with a thriving coaching practice, in fact most do not. And yet, I'm still rating my experience at Accomplishment Coaching five stars. Why is that?
AC (Accomplishment Coaching) does not make promises that you will love every minute of the training. They don't promise to make everyone happy. In fact, they mention in the beginning that if they are doing their jobs right, at some point you are going to want to quit. And for me, that was a turnoff and I wondered then what I had signed up for. What they DO promise you is transformation. You are going to not only leave the program a different person than when you started, but you will leave each training module (weekend) with so many new insights about your own behaviors and automaticity that you can immediately apply to your life and relationships.
That can be confronting. It's designed to be. Where else in your life will you get deep and profound reflections about the way you're showing up without an agenda or having it sugar coated? You can reasonably predict how anyone else in your life is going to react to pretty much everything you say and do. Not in this room. There are no holds barred and the more uncomfortable it gets, the more you are going to want to quit, and that's the exact reason for the team declaring that they won't let you.
AC trains leaders to not be victim of circumstances, and how to coach others to not let their circumstances run their life. How can you be a stand for your clients if you are not a stand for your own life? This is why your teammates will not let you drop out whether it's a money issue, physical issue, emotional issue. We all have stuff, and over the course of a year things are going to happen. The question at AC is always, who are you going to be about it?
And again I ask, where else in your life do you get that? If you wanted to quit your job, your boss would be like, "Okay, good luck to you, have a nice life." Right?
The only other place I've had people stand for me the way they do in AC is in team sports. If you were on an Olympic team and during your training you broke your leg and decided to quit, your teammates would not let you quit. Nobody would let you quit, and nobody would think it's weird for your teammates to take a stand for you. Consider AC the Olympics for your brain.
Don't take my word for it, though. Come to an observation and you'll see what I mean. I read an article where someone compared the Christopher McAuliffe to a used car salesman, which made me laugh. I like the idea of Christopher out on a car lot with his fancy shoes. But I think the reason they said that is because there's an effortless magic to the way Christopher can get anyone to see what's in their own way, in a way that is almost not to be believed. And this is true for all the leaders. One of my other leaders is Kerry Zurrier. I swear, when that woman talks I am taking notes like my life depends on it. Literally everything that comes out of their mouths moves me forward in my thinking in some way, and they do it with so much ease, lightheartedness, and humor, that I think people sometimes don't know what to think. Because again, it's not what we're used to experiencing in our everyday lives. Come check it out. I promise we won't make you wear a robe and chant. But we might hug you. read more