Abbey was very efficient and thorough and professional in the handling of my late spouse's cremation as well as locating a plot, ordering a headstone and even formatting a portion of his ashes into an artistic work which will be placed on my desk, so that my spouse will always be by my side. When I had questions, which, I admit, were numerous and often, the staff had prompt answers. Whenever I felt unsure about a certain decision I was about to make, the details were explained to me, allowing me to make the best decision for myself and my spouse. Everything that should be provided by a first-rate service was provided. Abbey Cremation Service was recommended by the caring folks at Middlesex Hospital Hospice Care, and I thank them for it. I was able to arrange for many of the details ahead of time, which does help tremendously in securing the arrangements that best suit your needs. I recommend Abbey for their service, value and professionalism. read more

This is a terrible company to deal with. They sent my Mother's cremains and the 2 metal urns were terribly scratched up. Instead of simply offering some sort of reimbursement, Luke basically said it was MY fault and not their crappy wrapping of my loved ones remains. He expected me to mail them all the way back to Connecticut from California. As a retired funeral director this is not the way you should treat a grieving family during one of the worst times of their lives. read more

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Abbey Cremation was absolutely amazing with assisting me with the final arrangements for my recently deceased brother. They were so empathetic and patient with me and provided me with great support and guidance. They assisted with some state funding for the service as well. Their prices are very competitive and CT Hospice recommended them to me. I also highly recommend them! read more

This guy Luke is a real piece of work. He lied and told me the probate judge signed off on having my son buried. He passed on 8/20/20! No one notified us. Then he tells me it's going to be $3500 to get my son back. This little punk had the balls to ask me if I was such a good mom why was my son missing for so long. Unreal. No clue about addiction and what it does to families. I talked to probate and they stated that they just release custody they don't specify what the funeral home director does with the remains. Luke stated to me "you're lucky I didn't just dump him in the sound like other funeral homes do " I would have been happier with that to be honest read more

A bit disappointed with them. After initially contacting them they quoted me a price and I agreed with it. After they had picked up my brothers body for cremation I was asked what I would want for a container. I chose a plain 8x8 box about the size of a box that a birthday cake comes in. I was then informed that the box was $195. Since there was nothing I could do since they had already cremated my brother, I paid the $195. I would not use them again. They should have been up front about total costs before they picked up his remains. Through a internet search after the fact, I found that they have been doing this for years. read more

Well, well, well! After reading all these negative reviews and experiences that others have encountered with Abbey Cremation Services owner Luke DeMaria, I can honestly say that I am not surprised by them at all. Luke is the most condescending, rude, verbally aggressive and totally unprofessional person in the "End-of-Life" services business that I have ever encountered. The saying is "You Get What You Pay For" is so very true in doing business with Abbey Cremation Services. If possible put your financial burden and family dynamics into a business that will have the utmost compassion, understanding and be supportive of your family situation. Buyer Beware! Cheap is Cheap for their services in all aspects of doing business with this company. Protect your rights. Do your research carefully and check this business owner up before putting your loved one in their care. Be proactive. BTW, I would have given a ZERO if there was an option to do so. read more

They made me feel like I did something wrong because I called the state of Connecticut and reported them so the fraud department took over. The owner was such an insensitive jerk. The way he talks to people who just lost a child is unreal. I hope the state roasts them. read more

Stay Away! This place is a disgrace. My sister passed away in May of 2022. Abbey is set up with the state of Connecticut. They knew that this was to be paid by the state. For 15 months I begged and pleaded with them to release my sister. Especially as we approached her one year anniversary. They were cold and unhelpful. They wouldn't even help me with contact numbers to reach department of the state that they work with in these cases. Constantly telling me " I could pay if I wanted her". Why? So they could be paid twice? They deal with the state, they know they get paid! Holding my sisters remains hostage was despicable. They added to the pain and heartache of the loss of my sister. This place should be avoided! Your loved one is nothing more than a money roll for them!! Stay Away! read more

I was pleased with their professionalism and quick response to everything I asked for. They were very reasonable with their service. I would recommend them to anyone. read more

To all those who posted a one star review...the whole process is so much smoother if you plan in advance! We had Abbey Cremation for both my Mom and Dad when they died. The staff was very helpful, the paperwork is simple, and they treated each with respect when they came to the house. They both died at home, it only required a phone call for the staff to come and pick them up. When my Mom died, one of my brothers had to travel from Boston to say goodbye. The staff arrived in about an hour, and they were kind enough to wait until he arrived. I already have my cremation paid for through Abbey Cremation and I appreciate that they offer those of us who don't need the hoopla a simple, straightforward process. Since my parents died, we as a family have scattered their ashes all over the world. Be brave, be bold, and save your family what all of these people had to go through and make your own arrangements well in advance! read more

I want to share my experience so other people can be more prepared for the process when a loved one passes away. When you choose Abbeys cremation they are the least expensive. But by choosing the least expensive, I was not aware it meant that you were also getting less assistance. Luke said we don't hold your hand at this inexpensive rate. You want that experience you pay $4000 plus more for that experience. I think thats important for others to know that. Loosing a loved one is not easy, your mind is clouded, your thoughts are scattered and you really need someone to walk you through the process and explain the next steps. My mother died and we were lucky enough to have medicaid pay for ther cremations. Make sure you followup with medicaid to see if payment is processed. We had to and informed Abbeys it was paid so we could book the date for the funeral. If you utilize their funeral director services know that they will complete the death certificate, call the Cemetery to schedule the funeral(you need to tell them to do this) and drive your loved one to the Cemetery but that is pretty much it... We had to follow-up to see how to pay the Cemetery, to make sure it was booked and to find out if paperwork was needed to be signed(we called numerous times for this). If its raining a Cemetery will put up a popup but your funeral director must request it so call them and make sure they think to do this(we didnt know the funeral director needed to do this so we stood in the rain). If you want prayers they will do it but they wont follow-up to ask you the religion and to discuss what prayers are wanted. So I requested this service and was expecting it and when the funeral happened there was nothing said for my mother. I unfortunately didn't know all of this and so many things were not done. We stood in the rain, prayers were not done over my mothers ashes and I left the Cemetery feeling like my mothers final resting moments were haphazardly done. Do your research so you feel right about how you lay them in their final resting place. Don't walk into this not knowing all of this. I hope my review will help someone else in the future. Luke has offered to go back out the next time we are in town to say some prayers for my mother but unfortunately you can't get a redoe with this. Rest in peace mom. We love you Medicaid email Funeral.dss@ct.gov read more

Thank you for keeping my dad safe and loved until I was able to get the courage to pick him up after cremation. You're family is wonderful and I'm so pleased that I was able to have a positive experience after a very sad time in my life. Thank you. I would highly recommend using Abbey for your loved ones. read more

My mother passed and they were recommended by the staff at Middlesex Hospital. Their service is top shelf. No trying to sell you anything you don't need. We had discussed with her what she wanted and we explained it to the staff. They provided everything we needed at a very reasonable cost. I would definitely use them again and highly recommend them to anyone. read more

Abbey Cremation Service - Cremation Services Near Me - Rocky Hill, Connecticut

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Luke, son of owner, has terrible listening skills and was curt and rude on the telephone. He kept cutting me off in an impatient manner. When this was called to his attention his attitude got worse and he abruptly hung up. This is how he treats a past customer. read more

We received Excellent service from Abbey during these difficult times prices were reasonable and they told us they would be willing to work with us in any way they can, showing they cared and their were no additional fees or no hidden costs when picking up my dads ashes which made me at a peace with my decision when looking for a place to choose I had only only a few days to look for a place and this was one of the places I was given, I was impressed with the quick return phone call after I had called, they took down my name and number and someone got back to me that same day, they had comforted me with their show of sympathy for me and my mom, and what we were going through and showed deep concerns and sympathy towards us and assured us that everything was going to be taken care of by them, they also told me in advance what their services included which was removal of my dad, the cremation, and a box or I could bring my own urn or order one from them if I chose to, they didn't push anything on me which was excellent that I didn't have to feel obligated to order or purchase anything extra and that when it was my dads time that they would come and get him, they gave me their card and said call any time and they did come when my dad passed at 1am during a week day they gave us enough time for us to say goodbye, they came and picked him up they showed and handle my dad with complete care and dignity and they were professionals about taking him out of the house, they got their in a reasonable amount of time they were their at my dads house at 4am we could of had longer if we chose to and we didn't have to pay anything until we picked up my dads ashes we decided to go with our own Urn and it only took a short amount of time to get back the Urn by the time I was done with the paperwork they had my dad ready thank you again Abbey read more

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I recently and unexpectedly lost my husband. We always saw the billboard on the highway and both agreed it was going to be the way to go. Of course we laughed, because we thought we had so much more time. I was stunned when I lost him and Tianna was caring and kind and helped me get through the process as painlessly as possible. A few weeks later, dealing with the insurance company was just about impossible. I contacted Abbey Cremation and spoke with the owner Luke who was so great. He got on the phone with me and the insurance company and was willing to do whatever he needed to do to help me get it resolved. Thank you Luke! I hope I never have to use these services anytime soon, but if I do, I will come back. I highly recommend Abbey Cremation! read more

Years ago my elderly father told me he would prefer to be cremated and wanted no wake or funeral, just a simple graveside send off with a few close friends and family. Years passed and I hadn't given it a thought until my dad came to live with us. After a little research, I contacted Abbey and spoke with the owner. He explained the details and said to call him anytime of the day or night if my father died. I put his number in my phone figuring some day I'd need it. It was ten years later that my 92 year old dad passed after a brief hospital stay. I dug out the number and put the wheels in motion. A few days later I met Luke at the facility to sign the paperwork. The place was tasteful and could easily accommodate wakes/services if necessary. I was shown urns of all price ranges with absolutely no pressure. There's even a no cost option of a box if you have other plans. A few days later I picked up my father's cremated remains. There were no surprises, no extra fees, no nonsense. I appreciate that and knowing my dad, (who was a man of means) he hated wasting money was probably pleased, too. Seeing how easy and pleasant this went, I can highly recommend Abbey Cremation. My positive experience makes me re-think the whole idea of a standard $15,000 funeral. I've already made my wishes known. read more

Abbey Cremation Service - Cremation Services Near Me - Rocky Hill, Connecticut

We had a family member pass unexpectedly, and we flew in from North Carolina to handle the service. We didn't know where to start since we weren't from the area. We were referred to Abby Cremation from another funeral home, I'm so glad they did. They were so helpful, compassionate, understanding, and just fantastic to work with. They made the process so much easier for what we were going through. I would highly recommend them to everyone! I can't thank enough for everything! read more

Luke was kind, responsive and helpful throughout a difficult time. Special thanks to Paul who also went above and beyond. Anybody who finds themselves in need of a funeral home and/or crematorium won't regret working with Abbey. Highly highly recommend. read more

Very impolite, no obituary as other funeral home include in cremation, no urns just a bag and then boxed. Price higher than other funeral homes which include all services mentioned. Do you homework and don't use Abbeys cremation services. Good luck and sorry for your loss. read more

Terrible place to deal with. When my husband spoke with Luke the first day he made everything sound easy and that he would be helpful. We never spoke to him again. The people that we have dealt with since have been uncaring , terrible to get information from and uncooperative. Luke said he would meet us so we would not have to drive out to rocky Hill for ashes. Never happened. We got 100% more caring from the vet when our dog passed read more

My parents learned of Abbey from a friend of the family. Since it was their wish to use abbey cremation service I went along with it (after checking the ridiculous prices of cremation closer to home). I couldn't be happier with our choice. We prepaid and any question I had filling out the paperwork they answered immediately. Very easy process. When dad died at home they guided us through the entire process, working with the dr down in Trumbull to get the death certificate completed so we could have the church service on the day we wanted. All we had to do was drive to rocky hill, pick out the urn (they have a great, affordable selection), and take the ashes. When my mom died 2 months later, it was just as easy. I would recommend Abbey to anyone who is looking for a great group of people to help them through this difficult time. In a side note, the price is VERY reasonable but I would recommend them regardless. Thanks Luke and Tiana read more

My father past away unexpectedly, did not have any funeral arrangements in place and my parents were also in the midst of a financial crisis. So I had to figure out a way to handle his cremation arrangement and come up with the money to paid for it. The hospital provided a list with a funeral homes in the area and after making a couple of phone calls I was easily looking at $2500 to $3,000 just to get my father cremated at a normal funeral home. After speaking with the hospital again asking what my options were for when my family did not have any money to pay for the funeral arrangements they suggested they Abbey Funeral & Cremation Services. After speaking with them, they quoted me the best price at $995 for a direct cremation. I thought this was a good deal and felt good at the time. I gave them permission to start the process and felt somewhat relieved. But then I should of realized you get what you pay for. I had to keep calling them to get a status on when I could pick up of my father ashes and obtaining a copy of the death certificate once I picked up the ashes. They kept telling me that the price of the death certificate copies were not included, which I expected. But they failed to tell me that I had to the office of vital records in the town that my father died to get the copies once I picked up my dad's ashes. It made it sound like they could provide a copy at the time when I came to get the ashes. This made me very angry because I have to go to another place on top of all the other things that go along with a death in the family. Even the hospital told me that I can obtain copies through the funeral home. I also told them that I wanted their cheapest urn ($45) to at least have something for my father's ashes instead of the standard cardboard box that is included in the price. Once I got to there to pick up the ashes, they had failed to provide this request for me. Also, pay close attention to the Container section of the general price list. Basically, it says that the $995 price does not include the price for the cremation container for the body. They will provide one for $195 if you do not provide it. This also took me by surprise when I went to pick up my father's ashes. Also, my mother and I got this feeling that they were rushing us out the door and just wanted out money. I felt very disrespected after the whole process was completed. I am also very angry that I have to go to another place to get the death certificate when I thought I could get it at the funeral home. Basically the lesson here is to have your funeral arrangements in place so you do now have to go through this experience that I had to deal with. Only reason they are getting 2 stars is because they are the best price in CT, but remember you get what you pay for. read more

I selected Abbey cremation because of a billboard advertisement and also because of the reasonable price. My experience was not a good one. When my ex husband and best friend passed I contacted Abbey to employ their services. When filling out the necessary paperwork, I called to speak with Luke for help to make sure I was correctly filling out the papers. He asked me how I was related to the deceased and I did tell him that I was his ex wife. At that time he did not say that according to the State of Ct I was not authorized to be in charge of this. Instead, he continued to help me fill out the papers over the phone and all was well. About a week later I got a call from the secretary at Abbey stating that due to CT regulations, I was not authorized. Well this created a huge inconvenience and family upset. I had to search and look up his only living relative, a daughter whom he has not seen in 45 years. This was not easy as she does not live locally. As it turned out, I was able to contact her to carry out this chore and all is well. I am angry because I was lied to by Luke. He should have told me right from the start when I initially called that I could not handle this myself. Also I should have been told that I needed her permission to pick up the cremains. Abbey was just not up front with me. They made a difficult time much more difficult. As a result it took about a month before his body was even cremated and the death certificate was delayed. I couldn't even disconnect his telephone because of the delayed death certificate and had to wind up paying a telephone bill for a dead person. Just not happy with the dishonesty of Abbey Cremation. read more

My father passed away unexpectedly at Waterbury Hospital on Sept 15,2017. I called a few places and Abbey's was priced ok. I called and spoke with Luke and he said that he would meet with me to talk over everything that needs to be done. I told him that I never had to do this before so I was not sure of everything. Well I get there and Luke was not there and was not going to be the one helping me with the planning for my dad like he said he would. I did not like the fact I was lied to right from the start. The lady that helped us puts us into a room to fill out papers, and then she brings us into this room that has boxes and urns to pick from, I was shocked that they could charge someone $795.00 for cremation a wooden box, then $195.00 for a cardboard box or the sickest thing I ever heard you can rent a cremation casket after someone else has been in it. I told the lady that we did not have much money for anything because we didn't think my dad was going to pass this soon. All I was told was they would not charge us the $195.00 for the box. I had been looking at all the urns and said how I really liked a few of them. Did not even offer a small keepsake urn. The cremation had already been done on Monday and they did not bother to call me until 4 days later. The biggest part of it all was when I went to pick my dads ashes up, the lady comes into the room with a white box and throws/pushed my dads ashes on the table to me and then says where is the money you owe us. I could not believe what I heard her say. They gave me my father in a plain white box and his ashes were a plastic bag. I'm not rich or have a lot of money and I feel that's why I was treated so badly and that shameful. I will not recommend Abbey Cremation to anyone after the way I was treated. I'm happy for you all that had been treated right, but I sure was not. D.Franceskino read more

We live in RI and my father in law lived and passed away in CT. Luke was so nice and I felt comfortable right away when I called. I was in RI making phone calls while my husband was in CT taking care of what needed to be taken care of there. He answered all of my questions and I made an appointment with Luke for my husband for the very next morning. My husband felt the same way as soon as he met him. Luke was professional, knowledgeable, helpful and thoughtful. He made a tough time easier by making the process smooth and seamless. The facility was beautiful and was beyond my husband's expectations. Thank you Luke for all of your help. God bless you. read more

I would strongly recommend Abbey Cremation I was referred to them through Hospice of NE CT after contacting other local funeral homes which quoted me 3,500 and up to cremate my mother who was in a nursing home .I did not have a life insurance policy on her, nor did I have a lot of money . When Hospice told me about Abbey I called them Luke was very professional and kind he told me what he would charge and why he charges what he charges to help families who do not have a lot of money . The day my mother passed I called them they were so nice on the phone and they came and picked her up as promptly as possible. When they arrived the gentleman that came was so professional , nice and accommodating . He treated my mother with dignity and respect even though she was deceased . when me and my sister went a couple of days later they were again so nice and very helpful with filling out the paperwork . They even gave us the choice to purchase and urn from them or we could purchase an urn somewhere else and they would put her in the urn we purchased as a courtesy when we picked up her ashes. read more

Had the need of a crematory for my elderly brother's wife. My brother asked me to handle it for him as he himself is not well. I called Abbey Crematory and spoke with Luke, who was very helpful, caring and compassionate. He advised us of how direct cremation worked and the cost. We decided to go with Abbey Cremation since he was so accomadating. The price was quoted was reasonable. I explained to him that we would need to get the life insurance processed before payment, he informed me he would help us with that if we needed him having him as an assignment of payment and my brother getting the balance. My sister in law was cremated, when I called to see if the ashes were ready that's where the demeanor of Luke changed. He would not release the ashes until payment was received and that is not what we were told on our first phone call. I reminded him of that first phone call and what he told us about payment he began to get rude stating that we should not expect him to wait 3 weeks for his money. I told him my brother did not have the money he didn't seem to care and asked me if I had the money. So angry I went and picked up the ashes and paid for them not believing how I was duped by him. The charge was not as advertised due to other costs, that we were not informed about. After I told him how I thought we were treated he did apologize and waived one of the charges. So beware when you see a price ask about all the costs for cremation. In closing I would not recommend Abbey Crematory. On a side note when I picked up the ashes of course Luke wasn't there, I had a very nice gentleman named Max, thank you Max for your help. read more