The Monterey, California area has three excellent private high schools that I know of. For our son, we applied to Trinity Christian High School in Monterey; Monte Vista School in Watsonville and York School off of Highway 68, just outside Monterey. All good schools. TCHS and Monte Vista school accepted our son's application. We also applied to York, having visited it on Open House events and York seems to have fine teachers, a beautiful campus and was a very impressive place.
Except for one problem. York is about 3x's the price of TCHS and Monte Vista School. We are middle class so about $3,000 per month was more than we could afford. And nice a place as York is, we did not see how it was worth 3x's the price of TCHS or Monte Vista school.
So we applied for financial aid and filled out what had to be the most intensive financial anal-exam of our lives in applying for financial aid. I mean...what is my old Ford van worth? $300 per a car dealer years ago. etc etc.
But perhaps that is s.o.p. so we finished the application plus the volumes of financial statements, tax returns, etc demanded.
Despite our son being a straight A student and having the highest gpa in his 8th grade class, he was not accepted.
Okaaay.....such is life.... Move on. Schools can do what they want and we are fine with that. So what bothered us about York School then? And why my low rating for a very nice school otherwise?
Our son was not accepted but so what? That is just part of life. No biggie. No sweat. So what?
As for why our son was not accepted, who know?
Maybe part of it was the old van I drove there? Who knows? Maybe part of it was me telling the York staff that we could not afford it without financial aid? Who knows?
What bothered us is when we received the "not accepted now but apply again later" letter and email, we emailed and also USPS mailed polite replies, which also asked one question:
Our question we asked York (since York encouraged us to try again later), was:
If our son had been accepted, would his application for financial aid been approved?
We asked this because the $3,000 or so per month tuition was so much higher than other schools and so if we applied again later, as suggested, we would apply again for financial aid. So we wanted to know if our son HAD been accepted, would he have gotten the financial aid?
But York School did not reply to our email. Nor did York School reply to our written letter. The impression York thus gave us, right or wrong, was that of elitism or something along those lines.
York's lack of response let us with a bad taste in our mouth.
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