Well friends, I have finally reached the glorious 1000th Review! Exactly 10 years ago today,…read moreDecember 20th, 2006, I sat down at our desktop computer in the living room on Baltic Street in Kearny Mesa and decided to join Yelp and write a review about my dinner that night. We had gotten some sandwiches from a place called Gotham City Pizza (Now known as Giorgino's) and I decided to write about them.
Fast forward 10 years, and here I am about to write my 1000th review for a man who has literally changed the life of our family His name is Dr. Timothy Fairbanks. A quick backstory first........
January 13th, 2014, we had our first child name William Joseph Strong. We were so excited to welcome him into the World and he was delivered without a hitch! A few minutes after he was born, during their first initial tests, the nurses noticed something wrong with him. He had no opening in his rear end. There was no hole there! They let us know that they had to take him with them to the NICU and then transfer him to Rady's (We were at Grossmont at the time). A parents worst nightmare. My wife was recovering from the C Section and couldn't even be with her first born child! Tears flowed, worry set in, and what should have been the happiest moment of our lives, turned into one of the scariest moments of our lives. We would soon find out that Billy was born with a condition called Imperforate Anus (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Imperforate_anus). It affects about 1 in 10,000 children born every year. Rare, but most of the nurses knew what it was and had seen it before. In a simple cliff notes description, his intestines did not link up with his rectum/anus. Along with that, there are usually other deformations that come along with it. Thankfully, Billy only had two other issues (He had a nice sized bump under his skin on his back called a tethered cord and a small hole in his heart.) Things could have been a lot worse! Some kids have kidney issues, limb issues etc. These deformities occur during the first few weeks of pregnancy, so it wasn't something they could see on an ultrasound, and it wasn't something that my wife or me did wrong. It was just an unfortunate circumstance that we had to overcome. Thankfully, those issues were taken care of and cause no problems today!
After being in the NICU for a few days, in order to create an opening for bowel movements, Billy needed to have an ostomy/stoma surgery. This is where Dr. Fairbanks comes into play. Besides having the best first and middle name (same as mine..Timothy Joseph!) there is, Dr. Faribanks is literally, a lifesaver. The first time I met him, I knew that things would be alright. He has a very calm demeanor, doesn't beat around the bush, and lets you know exactly what to expect and how to proceed going forward.
During the first year of life, Billy had 4 major surgeries, and Dr. Fairbanks performed 3 of them. He did his ostomy/stoma surgery, he created a rectum/anus for Billy, and then did the closure of the ostomy/stoma once Billy could go to the bathroom "regularly". During all those surgeries, I had 100% faith in Dr. Fairbanks. Screw all the celebrities, athletes and CEOS that make millions and billions of dollars. The real heroes and people that should make all that money are people like Dr. Fairbanks. They perform life saving surgeries for children! Truly doing God's work. Saving lives, lending a shoulder to cry on, being a psychologist, all the while doing incredibly stressful work in order to better the future of America's lives! If there are Angels down here on earth, Dr. Fairbanks is one of them.
Check out this small world story, too.... Our current surgeon in Phoenix, Dr. Katherine Davenport, studied/worked with Dr. Fairbanks in San Diego and was actually IN the operating room at Rady's during one of Billy's surgeries! Crazy how the World works. Small, small World, for sure!
I will forever be grateful for what Dr. Fairbanks did for our son and other children in the San Diego area! Billy is going to turn 3 years old in about 3 weeks, and he is thriving, healthy and a normal little boy. Thank you Dr. Fairbanks! You will never know how much you have meant to us!
There you are, Yelp. My 1000th review. Hope you enjoyed it!