Before you dismiss "Celito L.'s" review, consider this: In the 1960s, Anthony du Bourg, an independently wealthy, homosexual teacher who showered Pingry with gifts, took shortcuts through the boys locker room when we were undressed. He was the only teacher who did this. He made us uneasy, to say the least. This was a small school (class size 80). Everyone knew about him; the administration had to have known.
It came out that Thad Alton (assistant principal, guidance counselor, soccer coach and scoutmaster) had molested Pingry grade schoolers for four years, 1974-78, only after he was tried and convicted in 1980 for homosexual pedophilia in upstate NY. This, too, had been hushed up.
All those thousands of hymns sung every morning in chapel were a joke. Founder, Presbyterian Rev. John Francis Pingry must have rolled over in his grave.
The only thing Pingry stands for is money, pure and simple. Take a look at college admissions. The only graduates who go to top schools are in the top quintile. The rest, 80%, don't. This school is academically mediocre (unlike Lawrenceville). I was third in my class, made Cum Laude jr. year and graduated Cum Laude from an Ivy League university. I used my SATs to get into Mensa. I was a gifted child, 2 years ahead of my age group, according to the standardized aptitude tests I took in 7th grade, but, despite all this, Pingry held me back academically, culturally and socially.
If you can send your child to a good public high school, do so, by all means. The money Pingry charges simply ain't worth it. All you get for the buck is snob appeal.
PS. Of course they're going to say, "That was a long time ago. Everything's changed." O, really? I told them not to contact me in any way, but they sent me their alumni magazine. They ignored me for decades, but, when they found out I'm in a top income bracket, here come the alumni mags in the mail, with the stupid, grinning face of coach Bugliari on every other page, like a bad dream. Soccer is still their limp display of upper middle-class manhood.
Nothing's changed. Just like they had a strict 10% quota of Jews in my day, they now adhere to a requisite number of blacks, Asians, and Hispanics (none of whom were present back then, of course). Don't they make you feel like they're doing you a favor by taking your money?
PPS. I notice no one online mentions Mr. Hicks, lousy French teacher and intemperate, alcoholic, chain-smoking, Greenwich-Village homosexual. Tell me du Bourg & he had no connection, please. Fleurs du Mal.
PPPS. I have been notified that my Yelp sign-in has been "breached". Couldn't be Pingry by any chance? read more