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    The Loft

    4.2 (201 reviews)
    ModerateGay Bars, Dive Bars
    Open • 9:00 am - 1:45 AM (Next day)

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    THE LOFT ATMOSPHERE

    What's the vibe?
    Juke Box
    Moderate noise
    Divey
    Casual

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    M A.

    This small, yet busy, fun, casual, no-nonsense bar has been a go-to hangout for most of my friends and I. I would say this bar has something to offer for anyone, whether gay or straight. There's also more tables and chairs in the back patio. Recommend

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    Bob D.

    We stopped in here with a bunch of friends last night for a late drink. Super fun. Bar was busy but not packed and they had great music playing. The outside front patio as well as back patio are great places to hang out, enjoy cocktails and hang out with friends.

    Cat F.

    This is a very fun gay bar, and I hit it off with some people there and sat with them. I did like a mini bar hop my last night and this was stop 2. They have everything you could want to drink in a bar. I liked that they had plenty of outdoor shaded seating as well as the huge bar and indoor seating

    Jerry V.

    Sorry but I didn't like how one of the bartenders was behaving . He completely ignored me to do shots with some group . It was very unprofessional the way he was behaving. I got some shots of hin being flirty with a girl on the bar .

    Alvin A.

    Monday night out in San Diego and few of my friends wanted to go check out The Loft once we got in. Google said the bar closes at 2 am. Got here a little past 10pm and seen how many people were out on a Monday night. Seems like it was a little happening! There was a group of us 5 and we all got seated at the bar. There was also a pool table tournament group of about a hand full of people shooting pool. While talking with some of the regulars, they said that the bar normally stays open late, but of course on the weekends it's much busier. Our bartender Jacob was awesome, friendly, and very engaging. For some reason, a bunch of us thought we were going to a restaurant for food, but the only thing we could munch on were chips sold at the bar. Jacob allowed us to Uber Eats some from an outside restaurant and we could enjoy our to go food at the bar, really nice of him! There's also this cool jukebox machine where you can play all types of songs and music. Restrooms were towards the back and there is an outdoor lanai which was closed off, I'm sure it gets packed on Friday's and Saturday's.

    Henry T.

    Having a good time with coworkers here at this dive bar that's a stone's throw from work. Drinks are strong, but atmosphere is fun. I was momentarily confused about where the bathrooms in the back were, plus I'm not a fan of curtains functioning as doors. So I had a rum and Coke last week at after work drinks, a drink I've never had before. I was stuck at the bar and had no idea what drinks were the place's specialty so somehow, rum and Coke was the first thing that came to mind. Honestly, it was kinda nasty. I never drink Coke so I didn't immediately like the taste. The rum didn't exactly make that better. And I didn't even finish it. I was buzzed and sleepy after having half of it. Maybe I should've ordered a mimosa.

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    9 months ago

    Great local crowd, friendly bartenders, nice atmosphere. The loft is an excellent place to spend the afternoon and chat with the locals.

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    8 months ago

    Doing it all right at the bar but incredibly homophobic at the front door if I'm being honest.

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    11 months ago

    Yay! Fun bar, would return any day of the week! Friendly service and staff!! Love Parker and Justin and George and Gerald!!

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    Amazing bartender Joey! So much fun and delicious martinis . We will be back soon! Great back patio-

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    4 years ago

    Enjoyed this place but was told by a bartender it's now cash only. I never have cash so now I just cant go.

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    2 years ago

    Saturday night the place was a freaking joke. The staff is drunk. 20 minutes to get a drink with no one waiting in line. Pompous attitude.

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    Ask the Community - The Loft

    Is there a pool table?

    Yes!

    Will be you open on Christmas Eve / Christmas?

    Yes

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    Yes we do.

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    Review Highlights - The Loft

    “I walked in and Gerald the cute bartender welcomed me with unforgettable smile and such a friendly loving spirit!”

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    3.2(378 reviews)
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    Decided to stop by here last night, and unfortunately I felt so uncomfortable. The place was…read moreabsolutely wall-to-wall with people, normally would say that's a good thing but this was dangerous. Honestly, this could probably be a really great spot, but they seriously need to pay closer attention to capacity limits. There comes a point where a packed bar stops feeling fun and starts feeling like a human game of Tetris. I definitely don't wish anything bad on a gay bar or a space that's meant to be safe and welcoming for our community. That's exactly why I think this is worth saying: if there were ever a fire, emergency, or any situation where everyone needed to get out quickly, the level of overcrowding I experienced could become incredibly dangerous, very fast. Hopefully management takes a closer look at this, because a fun night out should be memorable for the right reasons -- not because you spent half of it wondering where the nearest emergency exit was.

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    Went for Tuesday spaghetti night, as it was recommended to me by other people…read more I could eat spaghetti was eight dollars, the add-on chicken was I believe another 3 to 6 dollars. I ordered a Well margarita and well shot. Somehow the bill came out to $46, with no itemized receipt. I was clearly overcharged. Spaghetti sauce was watery, the grilled chicken was fried, and there was only about five slices of chicken. Topped with bread that had seemed to be microwaved as it was toasted at one point earlier in the evening. The Well tequila was cheap and the margarita tasted like corn syrup.. I guess you get what you pay for when it comes to all you can eat spaghetti. I ate a little bit of what was on the plate. Overall, after spending $50, I would've been more satisfied somewhere else, or ordering food to my hotel room.

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    First time having Sunday Brunch here. I would drive by it all the time, but with limited parking I…read moredon't come unless I can find a spot. All the staff was super duper friendly and they were playing my jams the whole time. We were a group of 3 adults and 1 medically fragile pup in stroller. I ordered Avocado Toast with chili oil on the side with a side of fruit, So . . . About last night subbed eggs over easy, Shrimp and Grits and soft scrambled eggs for our pup. My friend ordered some green drink too. Avocado Toast was delish, the bread was killer and avocado to veggie ratio was on point. So . . . About last night was a very generous portion and definitely on the heavier side but very yummy. Shrimp and Grits was full of flavor and cheesy grits were so velvety smooth. Stitch gobbled up his eggs and my friend thoroughly enjoyed her drink too. Definitely coming back for music and trying their regular menu items.

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    Fun, great bartenders and a nice, diverse crowd. Great bar for a Saturday night, was visiting from…read moreout of town and had a great time.

    Return Pecs in my MBL Vest, yes!…read more This all inclusive Bear and Leather Bar is one I'd frequent for sure if I was a local and will return to again whenever I'm in San Diego. Double patios. Double Bars. Plenty of room. Great happy hour. Cool events including cigar socials, 90s music nights, themed nights, a pool table, good seating and great service. The happy hour beer special was stellar. $10 for a pitcher of Bud Light I shared with guy. Plus 90s Night with nostalgic classics for this made in the 80s baby, was 10 kinds of perfect. It's so easy going and chill here, but also very social and friendly at the same time. It reminds me a little of my home bar in North Hollywood, Los Angeles (The Bullet Bar). Bartenders are amazing (including Dutch who I remember from his days at Redwing) and I even got to reconnect with some of my SD friends I haven't seen in 7 years. Nor been into Pecs since 2018. I've been here during San Diego Pride in summer (July), causal hangs in the winter (like now) and a variety of fun things. We've been in a bit this weekend. Including on our way to tthe "Bad Bunny Bowl"! But also Go Seahawks! Nice bar eats when available. Veggie friendly. Website could use a little modernized tlc, but their IG and FB stay updated. Parking isn't your bestie, boyfriend, sir, or someone you know well lol, but the true locals recommend a ride share, early times and carpooling. We drove around on a Saturday night for quite a while and lucked into a sort of parking spot without restrictions. Restrooms are solid. Seating around the bar area and on the outskirts including a long beach or two fills up, but if you're patient something will open up. They typically card everyone at the door so please bring your non expired ID since no matter your age it's prohibited to serve adult beverages to anyone. Pecs does it's best to be a great bar so let's do our best to keep it that way. Open 12PM til Midnight daily, and until 2AM on Friday/Saturday.

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