Google maps gave me perfectly accurate directions to this TI club "Contrarians", but once I arrived, I was a bit confused to see that the building was a retirement home. I proceeded anyway into the parking lot and took a right instead of left and made every effort to avoid running over the cutest little Asian grandma, who smiled at me and waved like I knew her. I waved back, because that's who I am. I don't care that she's not my grandma, she was sweet and her smile was infectious!
The beautifully manicured and well kept building is three stories high and the Contrarians Toastmasters International Club was tucked away on the top floor. I asked for directions from a very helpful and friendly receptionist, signed in and made my way up the elevators.
The conference room was decked out with the Toastmaster's International Banner baring the name of the club, the American flag, a miniature red, yellow, green "streetlight", the day's agenda, and forms to critique the speakers and vote for the best speakers of the day. Everything looked in order! I was acknowledged with warm smiles and quietly look my seat in the back.
The motto for this TI club I found to be rather intriguing, which is the reason why I found myself displaying rather "capricious" behavior late this afternoon. I had not planned on visiting a Toastmasters club today nor thought about joining one in a few years actually (btw tonight's word of the day, was you guessed it, capricious haha). Sorry off subject, this TI club's motto is: No topic is taboo! Really? OK, I'm there! I'm yours for the night alright!
I was not disappointed in the prepared speeches nor the "table topics" (ie impromptu speaking) and the encouragement and suggestions for the speakers was as to be expected, having been involved in another TI club in the past, something I missed hearing really. Unfortunately, in today's dog-eat-dog world and our tendency to expect instant gratification and communication through electronic measures (ie text messaging, cell phone calls, FB and email), it was so refreshing getting to meet new people and actually seeing someone eye-to-eye talk about how vitamins could possibly harm more than help, discussion on how marriage and divorce cost allot of money and how it is a good idea that when you have all the time in the world and the bottomless wallet, to enjoy life and impart a little joy by helping others. Hmmm, money could possibly bring you happiness after all!
For the most part, the Contrarians followed basically the same format as my former club with the only twists being that it is not supported by a specific employer, we didn't have a meal at the beginning of the meeting and since this TI club is not a club in a religious, educational institution or place of employment, the weekly topics and prepared speeches could possibly me more risque or adult-only/adult-like topics.
On my way out, I asked a few other guests how they liked the meeting, the club, the atmosphere, how they heard about TI and the Contrarians. Most mentioned they heard about TI through word-of-mouth or "meet-up". I myself found this club through, well Yelp and another visitor "Googled it". I was told unanimously how the visitors thoroughly enjoyed the meeting, they felt welcomed, they found the possibility of "taboo" topics to be one of the reasons why they chose to check out THIS club.
No promise yet from me, because even thou I LOVE to talk to people, I comfortably do so in very small groups or one-on-one, I tend to be a little shy in LARGE unfamiliar, AND familiar groups like this one. I will think about coming back and will try not to wait another 2 or 3 years!
I recommend Toastmaster International Club "Contrarians" to anyone looking to improve their speaking ability or leadership skills! TI is like NO OTHER club out there and for a minimal amount of club fees, you get MORE than your money's worth from this experience! Thumbs up Contrarians! Great job!!! read more