This past weekend, during Pridefest, my girlfriend and I came into town to visit friends and celebrate a great weekend with people like ourselves. When we got into town, we met our friends at Scarlet. I have been there several times before and have not had any issues, but this weekend we had a terrible experience that unfortunately ruined the fun and sense of community that we were looking for. My girlfriend and I had been at the bar about 2 hours and had ordered 3 drinks each. On the 4th visit to the bar, my girlfriend ordered us each another drink, got the receipt, and paid left a 20+% tip, same as the previous 3 times. After a second, before even walking away from the bar, my girlfriend decided that it was time for a Redbull and asked the bartender for a can. She paid the price of the Redbull and handed the receipt to the bartender. After noticing that she did not leave a tip for the Redbull, he said something to the bouncer and then turned back to my girlfriend and said "you didn't tip me, have fun tonight b****" and the bouncer came over and kicked us out, saying my girlfriend had had too much to drink and was stumbling around. This was beyond upsetting considering neither of us were anywhere near the point of having too much to drink, but we had to leave the bar and our friends. Thankfully our friends chose to leave too, disgusted and confused as well. Everyone knows what goes on at clubs and how much alcohol and other things people consume, especially during Pride when all guards are down and the main goal is fun and celebration...we were nowhere close to as intoxicated as other people in the bar. I was mad, my girlfriend was frustrated and embarrassed that she was kicked out unjustly. This was totally wrong, and I went back to the front door to speak with someone. I spoke to a bouncer who said that they were actually trying to kick out the girl behind us, not my girlfriend. Ok, well that did not make sense knowing about the nasty comment the bartender made to my girlfriend. Then a manger came over and confirmed that it was my girlfriend that was supposed to be kicked out and it was because she had too much to drink and was stumbling. HA! I was honestly in disbelief. The manager was so rude and based off of his behavior alone, I would never go back. I explained to him that we had had 3 drinks over 2 hours, no one was stumbling (in fact my girlfriend did not miss a step of the Baby One More Time choreography). I told him I felt sad that this was happening when we had come from out of town to visit our friends for a weekend that is supposed to be inclusive. The line and the wait were extremely long and I told the manager that I believe the entire encounter occurred as an attempt to remove women from the bar to allow more men in. I'll never go back and I hope that the parties involved feel ashamed for their behavior during such an important weekend. Actually, I might go back to hand the bartender the 50 cent tip he is owed and that he ruined my night for. read more