I am a public health nurse and married to a San Jose police man since 5 years ago. He was a soldier in the Iraq war in the past and when he came back he got hired as a police man. He told me he developed a mental illness as a consequence of living in Iraq, but he still got hired as a police man in San Jose. At the beginning of our relationship he was very kind and nice with me, but after two years he became to be extremely jealous about my male and female friends and co-workers to the point that he invented that I was having an affair with another female nurse from the public health department. I got close to this female nurse because she was the only one that was supportive with me and she understood my situation. One day my husband was extremely angry and aggressive with me, he beat me up and he pointed his gun in front of me asking me to abandon "my female lover". I started to cry and I didn't know what to do, so I told him I will do it. Then the next day when he went to work, I decided to escape to Red bluff in California. . I knew he will be able to physically locate me by using my Smartphone's signal because he had told me the police have a way to track people's whereabouts by tracking their Smartphone's signal even when the phones are turned off. But I needed my Smartphone, so I took it with me. He had also told me the police tracks people's whereabouts by using the face recognition cameras on the streets and also the car plates reading cameras on the streets. So either way he would be able to locate me, but I needed to escape from him. So when I arrived to Red Bluff in Northern California, I decided to check in the Best Western hotel. I noticed that when I arrived to the hotel grounds, I strange man was looking at me, like if he was waiting for my arrival. He did not say anything, he just kept track of me. After checking myself in the hotel, I went to my room and I opened the window to have fresh air inside the room. A few minutes later, I heard the police siren very strong in front of my window. That nerve wracking loud sound announcing my husband knew where I was and that nothing will stop him from harassing me and kept me in psychological distress. Since that moment I knew my husband had contacted his other police friends at the Red Bluff police station, also his friends at the sheriff office and also the rangers office, as he had told me in the past they do when wanting to stalk people and that they will continue harassing me for the rest of my stay. Since then, every time I was going out from the hotel, I saw police cars, sheriff cars and rangers cars along my way and the officers wanted to be sure I had noticed they were looking at me to complete their criminal act. They looked at me with a smile on their faces like saying that they were experiencing pleasure while they were harassing me. This was stalking for me and if they were civilians, I would have been able to press charges against them. But because they were men wearing uniforms, they had protected status, so they were able to harass at their please. But it is the same criminal behavior. After a few days, my husband arrived to the hotel to pick me up. He was very angry and he pointed his gun in front of me. So I had to obey. He told me he knew all about me because his friends had already reported it to him. In the middle of the trip going back to San Jose, and in the middle of nowhere, he beat me up by good and left me almost unconscious. Then we arrived to our house. A few days later I discovered my dear female nurse friend was having an affair with my husband. In my absence, she managed to get into his pants to give him some company. It is ugly!! read more
