I had the displeasure of meeting Dr. Unwin in July. Just for some context, I was not the patient: my mother was. Although she is now an American, she was born and raised in another country; as such, her English is not good enough to communicate in a medical setting. That is why I, her daughter, came with her to translate both her medical needs and the information that the doctor relayed. My first impression was that the staff was incredibly kind and accommodating. As a result of my mothers low English proficiency, she does not remember many of the official names of her prescription medications. The nurse looked through her medication list on file and looked each one up for my mom and I to see. However, the moment Dr. Unwin came in, I had a change of heart. He was, to be entirely blunt, as asshole. When he came in, he did not even look at my mother or me. Additionally, he did not introduce himself until he was in the middle of examining my mothers' eyes. He refused to even attempt communicating with either of us. Even during the exam, he kept touching and grabbing the back of my mothers' head to push her towards the machine used for eye examinations. It put me off-- why grab her face and head like that and move her around like a doll when you can simply tell her or me (so I can translate) that she should move her face a bit closer on the machine? We went in because my mother has eyelashes growing in her inner corners that cause irritation, itchiness, and blurry vision. He did not explain any of the results to her, and simply said, "there's nothing there." As I tried to ask more clarifying questions about the matter, he continually, and progressively more aggressively, repeated that "there was nothing there." It felt as though he did not want to answer any questions, he did not want to be in the same room as us, and he didn't even see a point or worth in introducing or communicating with his own patient. Even as I tried to ask further questions despite his disgusting and unprofessional behavior, he was on the edge of his seat to seemingly bolt out the door. To add, it seems like he either did not know what he was talking about or, again, did not want to treat us/didn't see the point in being professional during our interaction. My mother was prescribed a ointment by a doctor previously for her eyes; it was meant to be applied right after she would manually tweeze the bothersome inner eyelashes. My mother showed him an image of the ointment on her phone as I was trying to explain where and what the medication was. Yet, before I could even get halfway through my sentence, he cuts me off and immediately says, "pointless, that doesn't do anything." Based on that definitive and authoritative way of talking, I assumed that he had seen that ointment before and knew a lot about it. So, I asked him, "what is that ointment for then? Why would it be prescribed?" All these questions are within my mothers' right as a patient to ask and know; yet, with this tone of pride, he looks up at me and says, "I don't know, I have never seen this before." Then how do you know that it's pointless, Doctor? So, you know that it is pointless but you also don't know anything about it or what it does because you have never seen it in your life or career? Honestly, I am not one to immediately assume that this type of behavior is discriminatory, but I honestly felt like he was treating us this way because my mom and I were not white. The lack of eye contact, the refusal to even try and communicate, his obvious desire to leave the room as quickly as he could, the lack of thought or care in his responses, his aggressive responses to our questions (which is our mothers' right as a patient to ask and understand), and his ignorance and apathy regarding her situation and other medications-- everything about our visit (at least in regards to him) screams that he did not want us there, that he didn't want us/see us as patients. It was incredibly dehumanizing for a doctor like that to go on a power trip and act like he knew everything. read more