Patti is a most amazing birth doula, who I can not recommend highly enough! Although I knew how valuable a doula can be to the birth process, I was absolutely blown away by the love, support, information, and intuition she brought to the experience. I now find myself telling everyone I know that nobody should give birth without Patti by their side!
Beginning during pregnancy, Patti was an amazing source of calm and perspective. As we created our birth plan, she helped us to address each of the points that were important to us and reminded us to consider points we may have forgotten. If any fears or stresses came up, we were always welcome to call Patti to discuss them. She is a great listener with a calm demeanor and was always able to help us to navigate these fears and return to a state of trust in my body and intuition. She also offered me ideas to look into for managing the discomforts of pregnancy. When I carried my baby several days past my due date, she offered gentle massage to help me stay comfortable.
When it was time for the birth, Patti never left my side. She supported all of my decisions (even the unexpected ones) and helped facilitate them, all the while using her many tricks to help me stay relaxed and connected with my body. Throughout the night she was there to make sure I was nourished and hydrated, she massaged my feet endlessly, and showed my partner pressure points to reduce the intensity of my contractions. She helped to make sure that I was always aware of what was going on around me in the hospital, and that I was well-informed of medical risks/benefits of any procedure that was done by facilitating conversation with the nurses and doctors. Throughout my 21 hour labor, I never lost confidence in my body and it's ability to do the work of birthing, largely because Patti continuously encouraged me to visualize my body doing everything it needed to do.
After the birth, she remained in close contact to make sure that my recovery was going well and encouraged my partner to prepare healing sitz herbs and helpful teas. She checked in regularly about how the physical and emotional recovery were going and visited our family after the birth to talk about how things went.
What stands out most about Patti is how much she loves her work as a doula. She has great enthusiasm for birth and brings loads of affection and authenticity, which carried me through my labor feeling connected to my body and baby. It is said that more important than what happens during our birth experience is how we were treated by those around us. I felt honored at every moment during mine and looking back I can not imagine a better experience.
Thank you, Patti for being with us during this important time! read more