I had both positive and challenging experiences during my two stays. On my first visit, a man exposed himself in the lobby, which was unsettling. The male staff member who worked that night was kind, and the facility itself was nice, so I returned.
During my second stay for Christmas, I requested a room with a tub ahead of time and told the staff about the previous incident. Stephanie was very kind and said she would note on my account to do something nice for me, even though I never asked. I had also suggested they could check the cameras for future guests' safety. A man, who I believe is named Sulav, gave me a free drink, which I appreciated.
However, during checkout, the tone of staff changed dramatically. A female Gen Z front desk worker was dismissive and huffed when I explained I needed to go up to get my coat after being locked out. She said I had an attitude. I told her this was not my intention and that I was genuinely confused why she felt that way. She interrupted me and repeatedly said, "Ma'am, go get your coat. MA'AM, go get your coat. MA'AM, go get your coat," speaking over me while I had my hand on my heart, trying to calmly explain. She then ran into the back office.
I went up to get my coat, but the new key card she gave me did not work. I was then escorted by the sales manager, who was more reasonable. However, she mentioned she had already heard the story from the other worker and said, "I'm not biased though," which felt contradictory since hearing one side first is inherently biased.
Shortly after, another man at the front desk, who the sales manager said was her manager, accused me of filming. I calmly said he was assuming, and he responded, "Prove it!" He then demanded I open my phone, even though I had already explained it was only open to take a timestamp of retrieving my coat. I explained I did not feel I owed anyone showing my camera roll. At that point, the three staff present (the Gen Z clerk, the sales manager, and the man) started giggling, which felt dismissive and unprofessional.
He then said, "I could be wrong, but that's what I saw." I clarified again that my camera was open only for a timestamp, after already asking for a receipt showing on-time checkout.
The man suddenly said, "Don't come back" refusing to give me the benefit of the doubt. As I started to leave, he began to say he would call the police but stopped mid-sentence, seemingly realizing he was escalating unnecessarily, as I had been cooperative and was already walking out.
I simply clarified as I left that I am allowed to take a photo of my room when checking out and that I deserve respect. While some staff were excellent and professional, the sudden shift in behavior during checkout was unnecessary, hurtful, and left me feeling dismissed. After an already unsettling first experience with a man exposing himself in the lobby, being treated this way--like a high schooler ganged up on--was outrageous.
While I had already felt uncomfortable returning, taking away a guest's sense of agency and demanding they not return when they did nothing wrong, especially after they were cooperative and had positive interactions with multiple staff is unprofessional and unkind. I decided it was worth documenting the exact sequence of events. I understand life is tough and people want pleasant interactions, but there is a difference between a problem customer and someone advocating for themselves. read more