it was my second time birthing, first time with a doula. the differences between my births were astounding and i know that having Clarissa there played a huge role in my second birth being so beautiful rather than traumatic, how my first was. not only did she coach me through the most painful contractions with breathing techniques i had no idea about prior, but they made sure i was being heard and that my needs were being met by hospital staff. when things got rough, she got right on the bed with me and applied pressure points while i was in agony from my pitocin contractions. she brought along her own items for pain management, such as a birthing comb, tens unit, and hand gripper, all which i used when my contractions were at their worst, and they helped get me through the pain before i got my epidural.
even during pregnancy and postpartum, they were there, day or night if i had questions or non-medical concerns. any time i needed to know something, or see if i'm doing something right, they were there with the answers i needed.
they stuck to my birth plan and communicated my birth plan to my nurses and doctors, never straying away unless i explicitly stated i wanted something not in my birth plan. they made sure to double check with me to make sure i actually wanted something that was i was initially against in my birth plan, to make sure it was ME who wanted it rather than me feel pressured by hospital staff. when my daughter was finally born, clarissa helped her get a good latch and kickstarted my breastfeeding journey in the right direction.
clarissa decorated my hospital room with candles and other things that made the room so much more welcoming and soft. the oil diffuser and yummy scents made it such a calm environment as well.
clarissa is an incredible doula, i felt so safe in their care and they made me feel like i could conquer the world during my pregnancy, labor, and postpartum experience. she played a huge role in how beautiful and ecstatic my birth experience was. and it was truly a magnificent experience. she is SO passionate about what she does, and it shows in her hard work. i cannot recommend her enough. if you're looking for a doula that fights for your rights, care, and pregnancy/birth/postpartum experience, look no further because clarissa is absolutely, 100% TOP TIER! read more