Words cannot adequately describe how grateful I am to have been able to work with Bethany through my pregnancy and delivery. She did a fantastic job preparing us for the big day, and when it came, she was our most valuable resource. In the very early stages of labor I visited my doctor and he pressured me with so many immediate decisions I wanted to cry. From the moment I first called Bethany that day she was ready, confident, and amazingly reassuring. Once at the hospital, Bethany not only helped me stay comfortable and productive, but she also assisted my blind husband to make sure he was never left out and that he supported me when I needed him in the ways I needed him. She also worked amazingly with the hospital staff. Every time a doctor was due to enter the room Bethany knew exactly what they were going to say and what options they'd give us. This gave us time to actually understand and discuss medical decisions before agreeing to anything. At one point a nurse walked in and, while I was in the middle of a painful contraction, told me my baby was shifting into a bad position and what I should do to fix it and then walked out. Needless to say... I retained zero of that information. Bethany knew exactly what to do and resolved the issue immediately.
Unfortunately, my biggest lesson that day was that birth isn't necessarily something you get to plan. Luckily for us, we also learned just how beautifully adaptive Bethany is to changing situations. When my labor started to drastically slow down, she explained the options the doctor would give me to speed things along and options they might not give me that I might want to consider. When I decided to ditch the natural birth plan she reminded me of all the pain medications available and helped me understand their effects. When an infection spiraled me into an emergency c-section, she went above and beyond and vetted the staff. Upon finding out that one of the nurses that was to be in the OR only had 3 months of experience, she got a replacement with more experience. When I was finally in my hospital room allowed to hold this precious little bundle that I had no idea what to do with, she helped me breastfeed.
Bethany was our anchor and made both of us feel comfortable during the most stressful and intimate event in our lives. I absolutely cannot recommend her highly enough. read more