I waited a month after my pet passed away before posting this review to try and have a clear head…read more Ultimately I think I've decided that I am not thrilled with this vet and believe there are better places to go. Sadly, my cat succumbed to an aggressive oral cancer. We first discovered the bump on her chin in early November and brought her in. With my regular Dr, I was given few option on how to go about pursuing understanding what it was. Dr gave me a couple of options, XRays (which I felt discouraged from because "it's difficult to get them to hold still, so it could be blurry", put her under anesthesia, or "keep an eye on it" and essentially do nothing. I did not feel like there was a sense of urgency from the doctor even though I brought up the fact that I understood it could be oral cancer. I also asked to have an end of life conversation as Reeba was 16, and did not feel like much information was offered except by myself being allowed to believe my delusions that We may get a few more years. Instead was met with a mandatory rabies shot if I wanted to keep bringing her there. that was about the extent of the conversation.
Fast forward about 3 weeks to a month, after emailing them a photo of her gums being swollen around her bottom teeth, they decided to have us schedule. I dropped her off for an anasthetic discovery appointment which second doctor, a different doctor in light of my own urgency, explained well, that we were going to just get in there first to see what was going on, included x-rays. it could just be a tooth extraction, or that it could be oral cancer, and I felt she prepared me well for this possibility.
In the hour I get a phone call, one no fur parent wants, with the poor news and prognosis of oral squamous cell cancer and bone degeneration. Hard to take, but okay, this is the reality. But what was really disturbing was that second doctor offered to put her down in that moment, without an ability to come and see her , or come discuss it in the office. I vehemently said no, and asked about time frame of life, to which I was met with "days." I appreciate her honesty in the severity, but am left baffled as to why one doctor would seem so different in guidance and lack of worry, than the other in this drastic prognosis (and be so quick to offer killing my pet for me without saying goodbye.) In addition, when we went to get her, the anasthetic tech was more supportive than the doctor, the doctor mentioning that she had another patient under anesthesia and couldn't see us for long (which didn't make sense if you think about the fact that they scheduled our pick up for this time.) while it's very possible it was true that she was busy, it appeared like a moment of cowardice.
I understand these types of prognosis are difficult and that she was thinking of Reeba's pain.. but felt it a bit jarring to be met with that option without the time or space to have to say my goodbyes. How is it two doctors can be, not only on different pages, but different planets?
Lastly, when I went to pick up pain meds for Reeba during her last days, a thoughtful candle and plaque was lit on the front desk, signaling someone else was saying goodbye to their pet that day in those moments, and that a soft voice was appreciated during that time to accommodate the owners final goodbyes. As it reminded me of what was to come, I shed a tear, but unfortunately the staff didn't seem to oblige as one member held two dogs on carriers on either side, joking and laughing loudly as she walked behind the desk behind the wall.It didn't sit right with me.
Death is hard, and we did say goodbye 10 days later. I wish my first visit for this bump had better prepared me for this, I wish the doctor had more urgency in understanding the possibility. It was, at least, 10 days more than we would have had. And Reeba was a trooper up until about a day or two before. We opted for an in home euthanasia, which showed us a massive difference in care and consideration, one which we felt was either missing or a roller coaster at Eagan Pet Clinic.. and getting an empathetic "sorry for your loss" card in the mail felt like salt in the wound.
Hopefully there can be more mindfulness and emotional intelligence that goes Into your work. We are looking for your guidance in all angles, not just medical, and your advice in understanding issues.
I am sure I'll get some response to this review, claiming otherwise from the Clinic, which is, in my opinion, never a good sign when a business responds with anything other than apologies for not meeting expectations and a promise to do better.
Update: I was sent what felt like a threatening email late January by the co-owner claiming I did not see one of the two doctors mentioned here. This further supports my negative impression of this business as the way I felt the email was crafted was not at all empathetic nor an attempt to kindly understand. I wish for this office to never contact me again.