I call it Life changer X 2 because it really has affected my life twice during my last divorce in 2001, and in 2012, a year from hell in my current marriage. In my life with my ex-husband I had no clue that I had anger management problem, during the divorce procedure including marriage therapy I learned about my anger problem and was introduced to "Harriet Lerner's Dance of Anger" it made me a different person but it was too late for that marriage and luckily the curse of love was lifted from me long before I started to think about the divorce. Today I am married to a wonderful man who ididn't know he had anger management problem and sure enough after 7 years of marriage and many many heartaches he came to the conclusion that he needs help with his anger management and thanks to his wonderful therapist, Dr. John McNeel in Palo Alto our marriage is better than before. During the tumultuous 2012, heartaches I forgot all training from Harriet's Dance of Anger and rolled back to my scary place of being angry and lower self... I could not believe and did not like what had become of me ... Then I picked up "The Dance of Anger" downloaded it on my iPad and didn't put it down until I finished it! Wow I did it again! I Changed myself again, from a bitter, de-selfed, and angry woman to a much calmer, more together, and happier woman whom i actually like!!!! X2
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