This post was not taken in light, and it has taken me about 2 months to decide what I wanted to say about this organization. I have decided to speak my mind, with hopes that the organization may move towards policies that support their volunteers. I wanted to help animals, I know the importance of foster homes in relation to children, having worked in the foster care system for approximately 10 years. The foster parents are the pinnacle of their existence, training, housing, donating time and money that includes gas money to drop the dogs off every weekend. When I took on my first two foster puppies and after working in the foster care system for as long as I have and having to grow some pretty thick skin, I didn't think I'd bond with any dog like I did. I've also never raised a puppy in my life and didn't know the power they can have over your heart. Long story short, I spent all my time with them and developed a deep connection, especially with Weasely, because the other one went to live in another home that would fit his medical needs. They were not cute, so ugly that the volunteer felt the need to apologize for their appearance when she dropped them off. They had been treated for mange and had fur missing everywhere. But I didn't care at all, they were perfect.
After 3 months, lots of Instagram posts, long walks and runs, many texts between my parents with pictures to update them and countless hours training I finally gave in and asked the organization if I could adopt Weasely. I contacted the volunteer who I got the puppies from and she reached out via email to the adoption coordinators. I know they are busy so I waited patiently. That week I dropped him off reluctantly, cause I wanted to follow the rules, and asked about adopting him. What I received was very harsh words from the lady checking the dogs in. In a very crude tone that shammed me for asking, she basically said people like me are trying to take advantage of the system and find an easy way to adopt a dog. This felt terrible, I went home feeling miserable about myself, like I failed these puppies. I am a single woman, living in an apartment, and give back most of my time and energy to the community. I live a frugal life so I can give back, and first of all it is a shame that I felt nervous to tell them about my life based on reviews and people I've spoken to, whom let me know that there is a very particle population they cater to. I don't give myself much, and this puppy had given me so much comfort. After a long day I was so happy to see him waiting for me and thoroughly enjoyed worked to train him.
There were no interests that week in adopting him so I was able to take him home for another week. I picked him up on Sunday and 5 more days went by and I realized a cant give up. The thought of loosing him was terrifying I dropped him off again and wrote another email to more people working in the organization. The response I received was even more devastating, they stated that there was a couple who had submitted an adoption application, who worked from their home and they took priority. I let them know that I had expressed interest in the puppy weeks ago, but that didn't seem to matter. We went back and forth communicating and in the end the response was they had already committed to the couple and it was my responsibility to foster, I was an adult and would get over it. I dropped the dog off with the new parents the following week, crying my eyes out, and went home to my apartment to continue to cry my eyes out for three days. It has been about 2 months and my heart hurts every day for my friend. When I reached out to the foster parents they would praise me for how well the dog behaved and told me I should be a dog trainer. I was amazing. He didn't have one accident in a week, let them know when he needed to go out, didn't bark or bite things and was great with people. I did that. At this point, the house is empty and I can not imagine going through what I've went through again. Id have loved to have kept Weasely and used him as my help when training other foster puppies and to have him in my home when they leave. I did not get into social work for selfish reasons and I did not get into fostering puppies for selfish reasons. I accidentally fell in love, isn't that how it often happens. In my opinio
I do not want this organization to lose money from donors, they help a lot of dog and have many quality volunteers whom I worked with. I want is for this organization to adopt policies that meet people where they are. In respective to finding adoptive homes, working with clients in the community who need to find a place for animals they care about and working with their volunteers whom should be treated as individuals. read more