I have to agree with the negative reviews. I tried this service and paid a lot of money. The only thing I had in common with the men they matched me to was that we were both single. No real attention is paid to preferences or even location. Don't waste your money! read more

I agree with someone that said I wish they had negative stars. This company is a fraud! The only thing they are good at is the hard sell at the beginning. In my opinion they have zero inventory. For the amount of money they are asking they give you nothing! The matches are so far from what I requested and if you do not like what they are sending you it counts as your date. DO NOT USE!!! I just hope that other people read the reviews and do not support this company. read more

I tried it's just lunch about 12 years ago and I am creating this review since they have been advertising on a station I listen too. Save yourself money and time and avoid signing a contract with this company. They spent a lot of time asking me about myself and what was I looking for in a person. I had a Costanza experience. They fixed me up with women that were the exact opposite of whom I was looking for. Once they have your money you are powerless to do anything, so beware. It seemed they would just fix me up with anyone that paid fir this service. read more

First of all, SCAM/SLIMY they hook you up with whoever fits your requirements which are ONLY age range, if they have kids or not, and their religion. They are manipulative and don't actually fine tune as you go, they just hope someone better is available next. Also, they will give you someone much shorter than you and tell you that it shouldn't matter and push it on you and it's TOUR choice to say no but.... ******If they present a date to you and YOU SAY NO, it COUNTS as one of your dates if it's in those criteria requirements . That's all they need to do. You also can NOT get a refund after the first 3 days or something . Best case scenario you get transferred to the manager who's going to guilt you into giving people a shot , and go off about how beauty is perspective and how you never know but in no way are they really listening to YOU and what you want. They hire and fire like it's nothing so these are not professionals . Some of them are kids just clicking based on attraction level as long as it fits the criteria. TRUST ME, don't waste your money. With this review, they will probably freak out and ask their employees and clients (who don't realize this yet and they pick the best date first so you think it's a great company then they basically disappear in the wind ) to fill the page with good reviews. They pay people for good reviews. AVOID COMPANY AT ALL COSTS! read more

I wish there were a negative set of stars. I'd choose that. It's Just Lunch are frauds. They promise and don't deliver. The matches they introduce you to are different from what you asked for. They lie about you, and they do it over and again. This company is fraudulent, and I am ready to sue them. It's Just Lunch, lie, lie, and lie again. They are thieves. read more

This company sets out to bait you into thinking they have your best interest and they make a lot of matches. I signed up and I only had two matches that were nothing like what I had stated was my type.They did not match read more

$2,5K for 4 dates? Are you kidding me?! This site is the biggest joke out there! I met many stunning girls and finally my g/f on J4Iove.com - it costed me about $600-650 total. It's total nonsense for dating to be so expensive. Basically what they do on IJL is they introduce you to several women who are supposed to be looking for relationship. In fact, they have a lot of their own in-house profiles, used as bait-and-switch. read more

It's Just Junk! The worst! Terrible communication, they switch matchmakers without notice, and they try to match you with random people who have nothing in common with you. I have had EIGHT different matchmakers---more matchmakers than dates! How can anyone serve you well with such disruptions? And anyone you don't want to date they count against you as well. On top of that, as they fail in the most basic level, they try to recruit you for their "high end" matchmaking at $14K. Why would I throw good money after bad? Avoid IJL. read more

I'm suing them. They have never provided a single date. They don't uphold their end of the agreement.

Do not contact this site They are a scam I was told today they might not be able to accommodate my height request of 5' 10" or taller. men in Florida are not as tall as men inColorado I signed up several months and the first two contacts were over 2 plus hours away: they counted as two matches Not responsive to calls or messages. I would not recommend I am not confident that they will make an effort read more

Is it possible to give zero stars, or negative for that matter? I signed up in October of 2017. They were "so excited to set me up with the many qualified women on their service." But, when it comes down to it, they don't contact you on a regular basis to keep you updated. When you try to check in, the staff gets very short with you. And bottom line, they are scam artists who just don't want to work. I paid $2500 for a six month contact (or four dates which is longer). Jasmine sent me a few matches, and for whatever reason that person they matched me with "has decided to date their dating in another direction." I get it, not everyone is compatible with everyone. However, it was about January when they set me up with someone and we finally had a meeting. We had very little in common, having a family was my top priority and she told me she never wanted kids. It's Just Lunch also promises to have a phone meeting after your date. When I asked about mine, Jasmine got pretty short with me, when I asked to speak to a manager, Jasmine informed me that "it doesn't work that way." I was then reassigned a new dating coordinator. Donna talked to me briefly and promised to be in contact within two weeks. Five weeks later, she still hadn't contacted me back. They wanted to assign me yet another dating coordinator, but I am asking for a refund. I have filed complaints with my credit card company and the BBB. It's Just Lunch has not responded to my e-mails in the past two months. It's nothing but a scam. My advice is to avoid It's Just Lunch all together. If you thought that dating sites had few quality people, It's Just Lunch has less. Their staff is extremely rude and they do not want you to even mention the word refund to them. read more

There are so many reviews here that perhaps the 100 or so (real) people should all communicate with each other and see if by chance love can be found! From the Yelp profile photos I saw it looks like a lot of quality people tried this service and they were ready for love. It could be the silver lining in an otherwise horrible experience! Hello everyone! :) read more

Do not use this company!! I want to take the time to write a thorough review but for now, they are the absolute worst. I paid 2800 dollars and they did not deliver anything that Catherine promised they would. I have a had one date, no profile, not in my area, complete mismatch and they don't respond in anyway to valid feedback. They don't have people to date as promised in my area, I spent an hour and a half being very specific about who I am, now I find that all I get is a photo to go on a date. Nothing else? There is no dialogue about what will work and what wont. I'm supposed to drive an hour and twenty minutes to meet someone I know nothing g about. I've asked for my money back repeatedly, even compromised at half, they offered me 300 dollars. Seriously? I got absolutely nothing but a ton of work trying to get them to respond to my concerns. They also takes weeks to respond to you at all. I need to report to the Attorney General and better business bureau because I have never been so ripped off. read more

I would not use this service or any other service that charges so much upfront. You should not have to pay the large fee until you've met your match! Beware also of the agents for this company as they will oversell their service read more

Scam!! If there was a rating of zero stars, then I would have chosen that. I wish I would have seen all of the previous reviews on Yelp before I joined. They are all correct! I believe they don't have sufficient candidates (victims) to set you up with. They don't listen to your interests and will set you up with whoever they want. I gave them a list of pros/cons. One of my main deal breakers is distance. I wished to date someone within 10/15 miles, yet they set me up on a date that was 40 miles away. They don't have anyone in Miami?!? It's been nearly a year, and I have only been on one date within the first month. They keep passing me along to different dating directors. Don't waste your money, time, nor hopes. Run!!! Run away quickly!!!! read more

Do not use this company. It is a huge waste of money for terrible service. The men I met were not that bad, they could have been better for the amount I was paying but my dissatisfaction with my experience is about the service/company and not even my matches. For the thousands of dollars you pay for it's just lunch, the service should feel very personalized and like they are actually listening to you and care about you and that is NOT what you get. The contracts are also very tightly written and impossible to get out of. Don't waste your money, just use free dating apps, you will meet the same if not better people. read more

Lots of promises of great dates but most are duds. They promise 2 dates a month but in reality it's one date every 2 months. $2,000 wasted, they will never return any of your money. I got one decent date and 3 duds, and one guy that stood me up! Tinder is way better and free. read more

This is the WORST SCAM I have ever seen!!!!! I paid almost $2000 for NOTHING!!!! They had a special, a couple of months before Covid started to meet 12 match's!! Thought that is a great deal.... WELL .. you know the saying if it sounds too good to be true... IT IS TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE!!!!!! That is exactly right about ITS JUST LUNCH!! They showed me 3-4 pictures and profiles that was nothing like what I was looking for !! They DO NOT LISTEN TO THE CUSTOMER. I spent over an hour describing what I am looking for...what a waste of my time...(which shows they do not respect the customers time!!) AND I had to keep calling them to follow up... AND I have been through 3 matchmakers (because they leave the company... SHOCKING!!!!!!!! This is ridiculous. Then I did a zoom date call which was supposed to be a freebee during covid where the guy couldn't get sound... so we never really met. I am telling you this because when I put them on hold through covid... they told me I have already had 6 matches!!!! WHAT? They said that if they show you a pic/profile and you say no.. that is considered a date. I turned my contract back on and they found a date that could only meet late at night or 2:30 ON A Saturday or Sunday... REALLY? when I said no, the matchmaker said we will move on.. that was 3 weeks ago. I haven't heard back so I had to call them and her response was oh ok, I can look next week!! This is such BS..... I am taking this to the Attorney Generals Office and BBB. They need to be stopped... Please join me if you have had a bad experience. They are smiling and raking in the Doe and we are stressed out and still single!!!!!. There is something very wrong about that. Please make the calls and complain. We are in this together!! WE NEED TO STOP Them. read more

Scam. Purchased the program and was ensured there were lots of males in my demographic in my area. NO. They were either 62+ or weren't dating. First date was with an individual who had been on over 12 dates; the second was individual who never signed up but was recruited to date. His profile was also incorrect. It may be a year now. Unable to ever reach a human. Never able to speak with 'management.' I have requested a refund multiple times to no avail. The second scheduled date we were first told one night then told another night with a different time. "They (who they referred to as sr management)" felt bad so they would send me a gift cad for the "technical error." It's been over 2.5 months and no gift card. They are located out of Jacksonville, Fl with no office in my location. Don't do it. read more

I really enjoyed my conversation with Sheri. She helped me to learn some new things about myself. Not so much to be a better dater, but a better person. I actually downloaded the dating tips to my phone for future use. Anitra read more

I am disgusted by this service, getting calls during a pandemic. Hard sell when people are under stress is a disgrace. Shelter in placed, worried about my family and friends and future. Take a break Its Just Lunch. DISGUSTING!!!!! read more

I have been very pleased with their responsiveness and efforts to find a match, although I am just getting started. I've been provided three profiles and gone on two dates; first one just ok, the second one very nice. We may have a second date. AnnMarie has been great and listens to what I am interested in. I like that they set up the date, location and the host/hostess has your name, all very smooth. Elizabeth C. read more

I was promised a certain type of match and that was not delivered. They also took 11 days to deliver a match that I was told was ready to be delivered at the time of contract signing. They then waited to give me my first match 11 days after contract signing to make sure the 3 day window had passed for me to effectively cancel and get my money back. I wish I never signed up... For being match making professionals what I was matched with was not what I would expect of a professional match making service... It is common sense now I am trying to get my money back.. this entire experience is very vulnerable to begin with and now I am in the hole a bunch of money.. After I sign the contract it was like I was pulling teeth to get anything done. Anyway, hopefully someone had a good experience with them... read more

This place is the worst. SCAM!!!!! They promised me dates and did not deliver. I tried to get my Money back and failed miserably. I had one date but this individual will go down in infamy for being the worst of the worst. He was not a safe date by far! He embarrassed me to no end at brios Tuscan grill by yelling at a female bartender and being verbally abusive not to mention horrendous manners. This agency is a scam and needs to be stopped immediately!!! read more

BUYER BEWARE!!!!!! I paid $2800 and signed a contract with It's Just Lunch! The first week of July 2016 after a strong sales woman coaxed me into it. I was bullied into matches that did not fit my dating criteria by Marie A my first dating director. I finally spoke up about it and was pressured to "give him a chance because you never know." I just paid them $2800 to set me up with men that were in line with the criteria I provided...I ended up asking to have another dating director because Maria never responded to my calls or emails. Sept. 5th I got my first date - after getting a new dating director on Aug. 22nd Bianka. I was disappointed to realize none of the dating directors listened to my requirements. It wasn't that hard to realize they hadn't - my date was visibly shorter than me, did not have a degree, had no time b/c he worked 3 jobs - mechanic, bartender, and bus boy - needless to say, the career criteria was also not met. This guy even called me by the wrong name. 2nd date wasn't until Nov. 2nd 2016. Bianka misrepresented the match, describing him as a top executive at his company. He was said to have a degree this time and that he was taller than me. The date ended up living with his parents, no job, and the "executive position" was a manager of a gas station. He also showed up 30 minutes late for our date and I had to bend down to hug him goodbye. I was constantly forced to contact IJL b/c they don't reach out to but they also don't respond to you when you contact them. It'll literally be weeks. I asked for a refund 3 separate times - the first two times they talked me into staying and finally I made it clear I do not want to be their customer and I want a refund. I want a refund because the service they promised was not the service I got. I provided them dating criteria they asked for, said they would provide quality dates based off of what we put together, and they were never able to deliver on that. In total I had 2 dates over the span of 6 months for the price of $2800 - I was told in the beginning they had 9 matches for me, so I'm not sure why it took them so long to set me up on a date and why they would choose the two worst dates imaginable. When I asked for my refund, I was yelled at, talked over, barred, and finally hung-up on by a female manager at (954)990-2703 today, Dec 6th. I did call this woman back & when she answered I said, "hello, you just hung-up on me" - her response was that we were getting no where and that's why she hung-up. Great way to help out a disappointed customer... I asked more than 3 times to speak to someone else and after telling no she finally said, "Fine. I'll have someone different call you so they can tell you the same thing, that you are not getting a refund. Goodbye." read more

IJL isn't what it's marketed to be. It's very expensive and I thought that I could expect concierge service. I've had a couple of OK dates and both times something wasn't handled properly. Dates said this is typical. Counselors are not terribly responsive. The match process is somewhat random. Important matters aren't discussed nor considered. It's a shame and once IJL takes your money, no matter how messed up things get, they refuse to refund. Try another service! read more

SCAM! Consumers: Be aware of the "It's Just Lunch" trap. The contract that they have you sign doesn't say that it is non-cancellable, but IT IS! They offer a very expensive concierge/executive level dating service, but don't have the resources to to fulfill that promise. No follow-through. Unresponsive to my calls/emails. You wont get what you pay for. I should have known that their service wasn't going to be worth the money when they couldn't even tell me how many people in my area are in their database. I paid $4,000, but I hear that the price is negotiable and that they charge women much less because they can't get women to join. read more

My first experience went well. Kimberly set up a nice place, Carol was a nice lady. Nothing apparently clicked with us but it was a nice evening overall Ken F read more

This company charged my credit card $2000.00 without my permission, and told me they would credit it back the same day. It seems every manager in the company called me trying to get me to reconsider and join. The things they promised verbally were not promised on the contract and I refused the service without ever having anyone look for a match for me... in writing, the same day I discovered they charged my credit card, without ever agreeing to contract. I was immediately told I'd be refunded. The upper managers all called and were pushy and rude. I was charged Sept 29 and it's November and I still have not been credited. Natalie Nichols read more

Consumers: Be aware of the "It's Just Lunch" trap. It's a SCAM. They are all trained to ignore you and when you want a refund they won't give you one even when they are at fault. Stay away from them, run hide or join dating apps it is so much cheaper. The contract that they have you sign doesn't say that it is non-cancellable. They offer a very expensive concierge/executive level dating service, but don't have the resources to fulfill that promise. No follow-through. Unresponsive to my calls/emails. You wont get what you pay for. My biggest complaint is the lack of the number of dating matches. It's a numbers game, you have to go on a lot of 1st dates to even get to a 2nd. So there really is nothing special about It's Just Lunch. They provide no more service than you can provide yourself by screening people on Match. Certainly not worth it. read more

Ok. This is one of the things I did that I am ashamed of. I'm not old, I'm actually 25 and have been with my boyfriend for two years. I was 23 when I joined this service. My friend and I joined for shits and giggles. I was a serial dater at the time, so I was going out all the time with different guys. It was so much fun I never wanted to settle. However, this was not the best experience. My friend and I joined the service and we were set up on blind dates. They will have you fill out a questionnaire and interview with them to find out what kind of guy/girl you are looking for. The good thing is you go to pretty cool restaurants. The bad news is, everything else. I don't have a problem going on blind dates but I am very outgoing. The guys would contanstly complain about the service, and this was true of every guy I dated while on the service. They said there weren't enough women and that they didn't care what they had asked for in the questionnaires. It's true they didn't take into consideration what you had requested on the questionnaire. I kept getting set up with guys who were 10+ years older than me. Quite a difference. In the end, I starting dating my current boyrfriend exclusively and I decided to quit the service. They were not happy. You would think they would be since they're a DATING service and their goal is to have happy couples. Well, I guess I was shunned for meeting my bf outside of the service (met at work). The best decision I made was to get out of it. I strongly recommend NOT taking this route ladies/gents if you want to date. You can find people anywhere! And if worse comes to worse just go to eHarmony or Match.com. I'm sure they're better than this place! read more

I agree with Emily, who wrote the first review of "It's Just Lunch", meaning if I could give negative stars/rating, I would. This service is horrible, as they do not match you with what you're looking for in a person. I was thrown together with someone who basically had a pulse. It was such an awful experience and I too, asked for my money back. No answer, nothing from them at all. Needless to say, DO NOT use this service and save your money. This service is expensive and not worth wasting your time. I hope this helps someone who is thinking about using them. read more

Slow. You wait weeks in between dates. The profiles are limited to one or two photos and a bullet point description. Once you do agree to a date it takes another week or two for them to schedule. It's horrible. I have the availability to meet two or three potential matches a week but am left with one every 3-4 weeks if I'm lucky. They really limit how many people you can see in the duration of a membership. I don't think they really want people to meet matches, but to sign up for another membership when the current one expires. I opted for the $4k package which I thought would have given me some professional hands on service. That's not the case, I've had several different Dating Directors who don't communicate over the phone, email only. In addition to the fact that every time I get a new director they really don't know who I am so not so sure how they can match me. My biggest complaint is the lack of the number of dating matches. It's a numbers game, you have to go on a lot of 1st dates to even get to a 2nd. So there really is nothing special about It's Just Lunch. They provide no more service than you can provide yourself by screening people on Match, OkCupid or Zoosk. Certainly not worth the $4k. read more

The coaching and information session was very helpful and re-assuring which is what I really need to feel confident in trying to get back out there and meet hopefully wonderful women. While the personalized service was really nice, the tech side was poorly executed The FaceTime meeting was just a bad idea because of connectivity issues. I recommend that Skype or Webex meetings are used to get around the connectivity issues and make the experience that much better. Thanks, Michael read more

I have had a good experience with Its just Lunch! My dating coordinator; Mike, has been very attentive to my preferences. He has done a great job of applying them and selecting dates for me. Anytime Mike sends me a match, I always know that there was plenty of care in the selection process. I would recommend this service to people who want to "price out" daters who aren't really serious about dating. read more

In my opinion, It's Just Lunch engages in unethical and deceptive sales practices and shady behavior. Read why the Better Business Bureau gave them an F rating. Below is a quick summary of my negative experience with IJL over the past 8 or so months. * I started this with Josh as my and he had no clue what he was doing. He should have been fired a long time ago. He sent me on a date with someone who was 10 years older than me with a 12 year old daughter. * On the plus side, when Josh was let go I was then put with Kevin, whose been a breath of fresh air! The first person he set me up with it went great. * Misrepresentation of their ability to introduce me to a minimum of five compatible men within my parameters. I have had 7 or so dates in a year's time, none of whom I would say came close to possessing what I described as desirable traits in a partner. When asked if there was a lack of men in my age category, my dating director said that the number of men fluctuates because many of them decide to be put on hold. In other words. * I refused a date without knowing it counted towards my minumum of 10 dates. After speaking with my dating director, Kevin, he "refunded" me that date. * The first person I had spoke to Julie was very good at her job, said she was from Baltimore, said there are tons of matches. After I signed up I never spoke to her again. We spent hours on the phone before I decided to sign up. * I asked for a prorated refund, which I was refused. I hope those of you who are considering joining IJL decide to spend your money in another. If I knew what I know now I NEVER would have done it. Who knows, maybe you will meet the Mr. or Ms. Right at the bar of a fine restaurant and you will not leave with the feeling that you were defrauded. read more

I'm giving this service such a low rating for two specific reasons: 1) Scheduling dates. Part of the appeal of this service is that they take over the scheduling of dates for you. But they do not do it well. I've had six dates with them. There were three times when they asked me when I would be available and ignored my input and scheduled a date I could not make. In one particular instance, they did not respond to my attempt to reschedule a date despite having a week to do so. I know it seems harsh, but to me for the price you're paying, this really shouldn't be that difficult for them to get right. 2) Matchmaking. In all six of the aforementioned dates, dates were scheduled with matches that didn't really fit my criteria. In one particular instance I tried to say I did not wish to go on a date with one of the matches only to have the matchmaker respond in exasperation and try to force it on me. There hasn't been a single date that I've felt the need to call back for a second date. Granted, I understand that this part is like shooting in the dark sometimes, but I'm mostly criticizing them for not the hard selling tactics. I would give this service a good review if they just did the basics right. I don't think it's too much to ask to schedule a date at the right time and to listen to what your customer is saying. I will also echo what some other reviews have said and mention that they are not responsive to emails and phone calls. read more

I am very happy to work with Linda and Kevin. I feel these two want me to find a match in the dating jungle. I tried IJL in NYC with no luck. Kevin is very warm. understanding, and works hard to find me my match. He did a good job in one of my matches as he found a man that was compatible with me. Keep up the great work Kevin! read more

You've got to be desperate. And want to throw away lots of money that could otherwise go to a good cause. They don't care at all about what you are looking for. They will "match" you with whoever they can find willing to get a free meal from you and then say since you are matched, they get your money. Spend the money on getting better clothes and some dance lessons. These guys are just out to make a quota and will tell you anything to get it. "We've got exciting and quality new members who recently joined." If you hear anything resembling that, it means there's a good chance that you are about to get screwed by them. Trust me, they will find away. read more

The team at IJL is really dedicated to quality match making. They strive to insure they align your personality, dating preferences, location, and life style preferences with your potential life partner. My coordinator works hard to source the right dates and is always personally interested in my feedback and happiness. She is a pleasure to work with. I've met some real, high quality people with this service and would recommend them highly. read more