I saw this person twice and each time I felt "weird and judged" by her. She tunes up her nose to try to pretend she understands you, but it appears so FAKE to me that it does not make me feel safe talking to her. I have to try to understand what she is saying because she tend to take things so personal. She reminds me of someone who would try to treat you and then go to her family and friends and "talk about you."
I do not like her unprofessionalism when she assumes that I am thinking anything about her rather my own problems. I do not know her and besides, isn't this about me? I think she is too young and too new for me. She took my words and tried to use them against me. I had to keep repeating myself to clear up her lies that she were forming against me. She wanted to know what my expectations of her was. I didn't have any. I was too busy trying to figure me out.
When I talked to her, I felt as if she was judging me unfairly. When I left there, my hair was standing straight up on my neck. I was shaking and I felt mortified and defensive because she kept making it about her.
We got into a "power struggle" when I wanted something to happen in the best interest of a family member and she did not. I felt like I was being "controlled" rather than it being "person centered." When she realized what I was doing and that I was looking out for the family member, she "got it." But the "Power Struggle" caused friction in the new relationship.
I am a GROWN woman and "telling me things as if I am a 'child' is unacceptable and insults my intelligence!
I also don't feel that she has enough diversity under her belt to understand me. read more