My family recently moved to Bakersfield, hoping for a positive school environment and a fresh start…read morefor my daughters. Instead, Highland High School has shown bias, poor judgment, and a complete failure to protect my children during a very serious bullying situation.
After my daughters chose to distance themselves from a friendship that became uncomfortable, another student began harassing them, spreading lies, posting threats on social media, and escalating the situation. I provided the school with videos, screenshots, and detailed statements showing clear and ongoing cyberbullying.
What makes this situation even more disturbing is that the other student collected multiple students to attack my daughter, resulting in my daughter being bludgeoned, injured, and visibly harmed. This was not a typical school conflict -- it was a coordinated assault, and the school was fully informed.
Despite all of the evidence:
* The student who made threats, organized the group attack, and continued harassment was allowed to remain on campus with no real consequence.
* Her parent was even seen freely walking around campus with her, which was completely inappropriate.
* Meanwhile, my daughters were repeatedly told to stay home "for safety," essentially punishing them instead of protecting them.
* Staff admitted to having my daughter's earring after the fight, then later acknowledged it may have been thrown away.
* Dean Kristen Urquidez communicated inconsistently, dismissively, and left us feeling unheard, unsupported, and minimized throughout this entire process.
After fully cooperating and providing everything the school requested, I was informed that my daughters will not be allowed to return to Highland High School for the remainder of the school year.
Yet the student who initiated and organized the violence remains on campus without consequence.
This is not fairness. This is not safety. This is not how a school should handle bullying, physical violence, or threats.
As a parent, it is devastating to see my daughters punished while the aggressor faces no meaningful accountability. Highland High School failed to uphold its own bullying and safety policies and failed to protect my daughters when they needed help the most.
I hope sharing our experience pushes the school to take bullying, threats, and student safety seriously -- before another family is forced to go through this.