Hiring a DJ for a wedding is a stressful situation. Can you imagine? If it goes wrong, nobody is dancing, people are weirdly standing around, and the party's vibe is totally ruined. The DJ has about a 20 minute window to set the tone for the entire event, before guests get bored or, even worse, check out early.
So early in my search for a DJ, I went through and found the top rated Chicago (not suburban) companies. I was nearly set on Toast & Jam - they were expensive, but they seemed unique, if a little pushy, and exciting, and are definitely very trendy. Before I could book any more vendors, though, I had to stand up in a friend's wedding, which was time consuming and crazy - but also led me to the world's PERFECT wedding entertainment.
Rich had DJ'd my friend's event and no one sat down the entire night. Even in my drunken haze I knew the music was rockin, and what I REALLY appreciated was he had found a bunch of polish popular music for the groom's family to enjoy - a thoughtful and above and beyond kind of touch. I booked a meeting with Essence Entertainment the week following.
From the first meeting we had with Rich, I knew he was going to be our DJ. He's charismatic and hilarious, sets you right at ease about the whole wedding planning process, offers suggestions on what to add to your wedding package and how each additional item would effect our evening. He was realistic and never pushy. We opted for his DJ services plus his photo montage package, and signed the contract that night.
Despite our REALLY long engagement, Rich checked in with us all the time to make sure planning was going well and provided us all the log-in information for our online portal so we could slowly build our three lists of music for the night: must play (Journey!) maybe play (Eminem!) and do not play (cha cha now, y'all). The online planner let us save our work as we went and do just a little at a time, which saved a lot of stress and hassle.
The week of the wedding, Rich was amazing, calling to finalize all details, assuring us our photo montage was together and ready to go, and even reminding us of the little important things, like don't freak out about little stuff and take time to enjoy the evening. He arrived at our venue WAY early the day of and was ready to go right when guests arrived.
He and his assistant ROCKED. Our cocktail hour was an awesome blend of Celtic tunes for my Scottish hubs. Dinner was jazz, exactly as husband wanted it. Our introductions were perfect - the music was exactly as I envisioned it and the entrances were perfectly timed. Our speeches were well paced due to Rich's organizational brilliance, and the photo montage Essence put together for us was FLAWLESS. 25 photos of Dom, 25 photos of me, and 25 photos of us together, all set to our choice of music. I'd seen the photos all a million times and seeing it all together, even *I* cried. My mother was obsessed with the whole thing, and the crowd LOVED it. I wish I could have that moment of the whole room enjoying that photo montage forever.
Right before our first dance, I panicked and decided I didn't want to do it anymore. Rich jumped on it and after 30 seconds of awkward dancing, called all other couples to the dance floor and saved the day (and my dignity!) and the pace of the evening was on. No one wanted to sit down the ENTIRE night. From conservative coworkers to college friends to aunts and uncles, every single person was enjoying themselves and dancing it OUT. The best part about Essence Entertainment was how well they read the room - I couldn't believe in 6.5 hours he never once flopped onto a "whoops, everyone sat down" song.
We've been married for two weeks now and I still have people calling, texting, and coming up to me to ask WHO that amazing DJ was. Rich and his team created the atmosphere I dreamed of for my wedding and made it look effortless - all at a price that was thousands of dollars cheaper than I expected to have to pay.
I had a fantastic group of wedding vendors, but if I had to do it all over again, the very first call I'd make would be to Essence Entertainment. They MADE our wedding the unforgettable, amazing, partyriffic evening I dreamed of, and I can't imagine it getting any better than that. read more