In 2020, I was in the midst of a divorce proceeding, and I was looking to change attorneys after a terrible experience with a divorce lawyer in Carlsbad. I did not have any luck with new attorneys, but when I found Lisa's profile on Yelp, I was impressed. After meeting in person, I felt that she would give me the best chance to obtain restitution from my now ex - husband of 30 years.
Lisa had her work cut out for her as my previous attorney did no work on my case, and he sent her a pile of papers that she now had to sort through. Our first hearing was scheduled for March 2021, and the judge did not let Lisa speak, an event that left us both frustrated. As the months carried on, I began to feel that the case itself was dragging on, and that we were on the defensive. Simply responding to vague and untrue statements from my husband's lawyer was a useless waste of time, and after our second hearing in July 2021, it became apparent that the judge was not objective in this proceeding. I suggested to Lisa that we obtain a new judge, but she did not feel that it would be a good idea. Future hearings confirmed that a new judge would provide a new outlook, but she continued to refuse despite my protests.
Hearings continued to get placed on the court's calendar, and I was dropping money for an attorney, and a case, in which there seemed to be no end. There did not seem to be a strategy nor a list of objectives in place, and by July 2022, I wanted to end this proceeding via settlement after I was recently "awarded" a mere $341 in monthly spousal support. My now ex-husband offered a settlement shortly thereafter, and it was satisfactory given my dire financial circumstances. I was eager to sign, however, Lisa tried to convince me that this settlement was 'inconsistent with what I wanted' and that we should continue this divorce case, and counter propose. I did not want a counter proposal, but she was persistent, and ultimately was furious that I wanted to end this case as it stood, despite the the fact that I had spent $30,000+. She prepared the final settlement and - after a few choice words for me - she sent me my remaining balance, and she still owes me over $1300.
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