This is kind of crazy. I was getting ZERO quality matches for weeks when I decided to join Emlovz 12 days ago. Now I have 5 high quality matches in the past five days and two first dates this Saturday. INSANE RESULTS!!! read more

I signed up 2 years ago and still happy with all the techniques I was taught and how to be a better man. These same techniques I use in my current relationship which is going very well bc of my mindset shift. All the coaches are great and accessible for advice on the FB group if I ever have a question in something I'm going through. read more

Emyli, Thomas and the team have so far outdone my expectations. Although I came in super skeptical with a "give it a try why not" sort of attitude, I have come to see the importance of being taught skills by qualified people. We are thrown into the world not being taught key skills like doing taxes or cooking, and it takes time to learn those skills. Dating is no different, and as a man it can be especially challenging and lonely due to the social pressures and expectations that are placed on men in our society. The emlovz community is as supporting as sit is informative, offering friendship and guidance through a difficult and frustrating process. I am just getting started, and I have already seen improvements in my dating life - I am sure there will be plenty more to come! read more

tldr: I have 3-5 dates per week and great new matches daily. I was a client of yours a couple of years ago. I was having no luck with the apps. It appeared due to my photos. I turned the situation around -I lost about 50 lbs and put on some muscle. Got a new wardrobe of simple plain colors. Black and white mostly. Got a professional photoshoot. Did some photos on my own from friends. I've had a ton of luck on Hinge now. It's excellent and I'm going on lots of dates.  The dates are going pretty well too! Now I'm figuring out what sorts of relationships I want and how to choose the right person! A whole new issue to solve. Right now there are about 7 women I'm in the process of getting to know. Thanks for the coaching a couple of years ago - it took me a while, but the work totally paid off! read more

I'll admit it, I was skeptical, and if you're reading this review, you probably are too. I wasn't really satisfied with my dating life, and seeking a dating coach seemed like a last resort (and an expensive one at that). So many of them made bold but empty promises, and you would generally get about six calls over three months. That's not nearly enough time to figure things out. Here's what made Emlovz stand out to me. A lot of programs for men are all about hooking up and having as much casual sex as possible. But Emlovz is focused on finding and creating lasting relationships. They give dedicated, personal advice on everything ranging from profile pictures to texting strategies to going on first dates that lead to a second and hopefully beyond. Perhaps the biggest selling point for me was that it's a lifelong membership. None of this, "Hop on Zoom every other week for a few months and talk for an hour with generic advice on how to be a player and then get abandoned and left to fend for yourself." You can always hop on one of Emyli's twice-weekly calls, take advantage of one-on-one sessions with her team, and most importantly, be a part of the community on Facebook where you can celebrate successes and get advice from other members. Like any dating coach, it's expensive, but if you look at it as an investment, you'll get a lot out of it. read more

Emyli was worth every penny. If all I learned from her were the first two lessons...... it would be worth every penny I paid for the 12-week course. Specifically, her take on what photos you NEED on your profile and how to message girls is incredibly powerful. You also learn how to gauge if they are the right photos and get real responses and ratings on your pics. I tried online dating twice before and got zero response from the attractive women. Even when I could get numbers and dates in real life from much better matches. Online, it is a bit of a game. It doesn't really matter who you are in real life.....you have to know how to express that online, and it is not always intuitive. Emyli breaks it all down. read more

I stumbled upon Emyli and her service almost by accident after previously working with another dating coach that i was severely disappointed in. I was immediately impressed with Em because she really listened to me and even when I initially indicated that I probably wasn't going to enroll in her class (I soon changed my mind), she still listened and had several helpful suggestions for the issues I was going through at the time. She even opened up her Google and searched my area for people who could help me with what I was going through--again, with no gain for herself anticipated. You see, for me there are lots of things I value in a dating coach, but one trait really trumps all others--they need to truly CARE about me and the problems I'm facing. You can't really fake that--or at least, I can spot someone faking it very easily...call it one of my gifts. And Em never faked it-- she truly cared at every turn. That sort of care fosters trust and really opens you up to listen and learn. I'd call it Em's greatest trait--she is also incredibly smart and has really put in the time and effort to know her craft--but again, without the care which enables trust, none of her other abilities would be able to shine as fully. When my time in the group was up, Em reached out to me wanting me to stay in the group because she knew I still needed to grow--and she knew that my financial situation wouldn't really allow me to invest anything more--so she let me stay for nothing. As she said at the time "I want to see you succeed. I don't care about your money." Very refreshing, especially after my previous experience with my other coach. Em isn't faking it whether it comes to caring about her clients or her knowledge of her subject matter. She is the real deal on all levels...and that's extremely rare. I highly recommend her. read more

Where to start? From her evidence-based approach to dating (read about her 100 date experiment!) to her passion for helping people, her wonderful personality and her huge trove of dating wisdom, working with Em over the past few months has been nothIng short of one of the BEST decIsions I've made. Would recommend for anyone in need of a dating coach or matchmaker. read more

I am giving this a low review because I just have a bad feeling about this service. I had this feeling from the beginning at an interview I had with Thomas Anthony. He did a zoom meeting with me and the vibe I was getting just wasn't positive. He is a pushy guy. He seemed to be very irritated at me during our meeting because I wasn't ready to move forward and sign up and pay. I told him I just wasn't sure about it and that I was curious because I have tried courses like this before in the past and have had zero success with them and I was afraid of losing more money and getting nothing in return like I usually get. He even said to me "why did you sign up for this meeting in the first place man?" - I didn't like how he said that to me. I have struggled with dating help services for men in the past and I even mentioned one that I did with Logan Ury. After that he spent a long time in our conversation just bad-mouthing her and her dating help service course and said that they were the "minor-leagues" and that theirs was the best because it is the "major-leagues" and its for lifetime instead of a basic month or two week long course etc etc etc. Now that's all fine being confident in what you teach and all, but come on. Don't try to sway people that have had very hard struggles getting a girlfriend by saying things like THAT. The sale's pitch he gave me was something that I've heard before in the past and it just triggered so many red flags for me. I just don't like how there are companies like this that poach and seem to just put single guys down like that. I'm tired of these courses that take my money. I'm tired of not having a girlfriend. I have no idea what to make of their success stories but I'll I can say is that if this interview I had with this guy was any indication of what they teach, then I'm glad I have elected not to go forward with this. read more

I had just gotten divorced, I was petrified of dating, and was already in a relationship that was not good for me. I was so averse to the entire idea of dating that I was ready to entirely give up and join a monastery. I started looking around for dating consultants, and found Emlovz. It was a lot of money - but not nearly as costly as a bad relationship. At first I was skeptical that the concept of "megadating" was for me. My idea of dating was more geared toward serious relationships, the idea of having many of them was scary. Emyli was patient and her lesson plans helped me to zero in on the attributes that I was looking for in a romantic partner. Her materials were sound and she was flexible - focusing on the areas where I had the most questions. Meeting over Skype was super convenient - since I live in the South Bay and served the purpose well. She helped me with everything from dating photos and apps to scripts for the dates and how to narrow the list of candidates. Her dating formulas for the first, second and third dates helped me to see how it was easy to meet people through the apps and evaluate them without risking a lot of time, money, or hurt feelings. The true power in the mega-dating approach is that you feel confident even in rejection because there are other candidates that you have in the pipeline. You also simply don't have the time to obsess about anyone because you are busy finding candidates and obtaining first dates. Finally, Emyli shared a lot of how the process feels from the other side and was able to give great insight into how women approach the process. This helped a lot in understanding how the structure of the dates helped to give the best chances that your preferred partner will say yes to you! In the end, I ended up evaluating 15 romantic partners (which is more than I ever thought I would) before I found someone that I am quite happy with. With all of the comparison points, it was easy for me to decide which person was the best fit for me and I am truly happy with the result. I highly recommend her services - it was highly educational and effective! read more

I am a 45yo, average-looking, divorced nerd. I have never felt super confident meeting or courting women. Not to get too deep and vulnerable in a public Google review but to be honest this has been a source of anxiety my whole life all the way back to high school. The process seemed like magic.. sometimes something I did kinda worked but usually, it did not. Or I would not even try because I didn't think a woman would be interested. Even after being separated for almost two years, I didn't try dating because I didn't think I would be able to attract the kind of woman I would want to be with. But I did want to meet someone so I started reading online and found EmLovz. From the very first conversation with Cat, I could tell Em and her team really, REALLY _cared_. Like, a lot. A lot a lot. Right away, they were so encouraging and convinced me that I could actually do this. They believed in me more than I believed in myself. I was inspired to dig in, join the weekly calls, do all the homework, read the books, re-watch the modules multiple times, and I finally felt ready last week to post my first dating profile on Facebook Dating. That was Sunday night. Within the first hour, I had already matched with one spectacular woman. I got her phone number Monday and we had a great first date three days later on Thursday. I'll see her for a 2nd date this week. I've only spent an hour with her but I already think she is amazing. I also matched with two other women last week who both seem really great although I haven't met either yet. I am meeting one Saturday morning and the second wants to meet but is scared about the new Covid variant. Over the weekend, I got an unsolicited message from a woman saying "You're profile is my favorite". We can forgive her "your vs you're" goof and just laugh because my profile is literally just copy-pasted from Em's template. Yes, I put my own personality into it but I just followed the formula exactly - zero creativity. All I am doing is following the instructions and I am showing up in ways that are far more attractive to women than I would otherwise. I am literally the least likely person that could make this work. Yesterday, I matched with one of the most beautiful women I have ever spoken to in my life. I have no idea (yet) how or why she is single. Within like three messages, she sent me her phone number and we were texting off the dating app. I don't think this woman would have even noticed the pre-EmLovz version of me. And for sure I wouldn't have the confidence to send her a message. I will say it's pretty scary to be as direct and bold as Em suggests. But it's only because I've never done it before. I got a fourth phone number tonight and it's starting to get easier and starting to feel a little more natural now with just over a week of practice. I still feel super nervous that finally THIS WOMAN is going to be the one that says like wow you're way too direct chill out dude. But nope. Hasn't happened. A part of me wonders how long it's going to be until they discover that I've got no game haha but Em's blueprints for messaging and 1st, 2nd, 3rd dates are really good and I just follow the instructions. It is often the opposite of what I would naturally do. It's still me being me but a far compelling and more pleasant-to-date package. I joked with Em over Messenger that I think to myself "What Would Em Do" in the moment and do that. It's crazy to think about and I seriously don't mean to seem arrogant, but I am now at the point where I can decide not to pursue great women because they don't fit my specific Ideal Girlfriend profile. These are women who I would have previously been stage 5 clinger because anyone would look at them and think they are amazing. But now all that energy and clinginess is dissipated and I can see that they would not be the best match for me personally and my family and my life situation. Book the Intro call. Em's program transformed not just how I interact with women but also how I feel about myself. Book the intro call. read more

Let's face it, dating is hard! Especially in San Francisco! Thankfully, I had Em to help. Her knowledge and advice is practical and doable. It can be a challenge at times, but of it wasn't for her perspective, I wouldn't feel as confident as I do now. Highly highly recommend! read more

Emyli was able to get right to the heart of my struggles very quickly and added tremendous value to my life right from the get-go. It was a real game-changer when she called me out on my bullshit, but it was exactly what I needed to break through. Thank you Emyli! read more

Priced squarely between higher-end subscription services like eHarmony and Silicon Valley matchmakers charging $50-75K and up (yes, that is what some matchmakers charge), Emyli provides a service that most professionals will find affordable and definitely worth the effort. Em's service can be broken down into three categories: Her training materials, her "academy" series, are actually quite inexpensive and very much worth it for people, specifically men, who lack polish around the opposite sex or who could use a refresher after an extended period away from the front lines. Even if you intend to rely on match or eharmony or whatever for your dates, some time spent perfecting your game with the training materials will reduce your frustration and ego-damage considerably. I still turn back to them for pointers before dates, or when making a decision regarding a potential mate. More involved are her personal coaching sessions which I found well worth the investment. Most single people have spent time wondering why they're single. After all, your parents, siblings and friends will all smile and say what a catch you are: Emyli won't. Instead she'll spend three or four months grinding off your rough edges and building you back up into something that has a chance in San Francisco's ruthless dating game. If you want to hear how handsome you are, ask your mom. If you want to know why you keep striking out, ask Em because she'll tell you...you might end up crying in bed once or twice but she won't abandon you or sugarcoat things just to keep your checks coming (payment is up front anyway so you can't rage-quit). In fact her persistence and willingness to do the job without concern for the hours required to do it is what makes this a legitimately five star service. Just be prepared because hearing the unvarnished truth about why the opposite sex isn't buying into you and what its going to take to make changes can be a brutal experience. Finally, Emyli also works as a matchmaker. Generally, she will require that you, at the very least, complete some training before she unleashes you on the dating public of San Francisco. This is definitely the most expensive option but still costs far, far less than other services for professionals. If you're an engineer, or doctor or lawyer, then it is well worth the expense because your time is precious. No one with a serious job wants to work 50-60 hours to make that Bay Area money and then go look at Match or eHarmony for another couple hours...much more economical to pay someone else to do your recruiting, to your specifications, do the preliminary interviews, and only then submit them for your approval and scheduling. More than just matchmaking however, Emyli will continue to train and refine your approach, and her matches, as you progress towards your goals. For 20-25% of what your Bay Area or Silicon Valley Matchmakers charge at the high end, this is an extremely reasonably service...and I'm now dating a girl 15 years my junior who although Em didn't introduce us, I wouldn't have any shot at without my coach. read more

Emily provides very sound advice through her women's series videos. She definitely does her fair share of research to support her theories of dating as well as provide insight into how men and women interact in the dating "game." It was very insightful to explore my patterns of dating and the types of men I date through the worksheets and lectures provided. She is also very genuine and takes an overall interest in helping you meet your dating goals. Overall, I highly recommend her services as well as coaching advice. read more