I want to share my story about what happened to me and my son when we were staying at Emily's Place in Plano, Texas. I went there looking for a safe place to rebuild our lives, but instead, we were exploited, mistreated, and treated with complete cruelty.
When I was there, they forced me to do uncompensated work at their thrift store. They told me my only options were to work like a regular employee for free, go to college, or work at the thrift store. I chose to go to college and even found a part-time job inside the school. But right when I was heading out for my job interview, the staff demanded that I don't go. They told me to only focus on college and promised they would fully support me.
That was a lie. When I was doing my interview for college, they kept interrupting me. They told me they wanted me to do volunteer work instead of finishing my interview. Because I told them no and said I was focusing on my college, they gave me a "strike." The next couple of days, they scheduled me to do volunteer work all for free. They told me that "working on college" and "going to college" weren't the same thing, and forced me to go.
While I was walking to that volunteer work, two men tried to sexually assault me. I was terrified. I ran all the way back to the shelter crying. The staff called me in because they saw me come in on the cameras. I told them exactly what happened, and instead of helping me or comforting me, they told me I needed to go back out there because my shift wasn't finished. I told them I wasn't going back out there. They actually laughed at me and said, "Well, you're getting another strike then."
The mistreatment just kept getting worse. One day, a lady called me down and accused me of leaving my food out. I had a pot roast cooking, and I was literally just putting my son to bed. I told her that, and she just shrugged and said there were complaints. Then, another lady who worked there came in and physically knocked my son down with her body. My son was only a two-year-old autistic child. When I told them she just pushed my son down, they got mad, lied, and claimed she didn't push him. They told me there was a "difference between pushing and knocking over" and accused me of making it up.
I went back to my room, and the lady texted me saying that if I didn't want to stay there, I should leave in the morning. They gave me just one single day to get all of my stuff out. The next morning, they were threatening to call the police on me because I wasn't packing fast enough--mind you, I was trying to pack everything alone with a two-year-old autistic toddler. While I was crying from the stress and panic, they just stood there laughing at me and rolling their eyes.
What they did to us wasn't okay, and it wasn't right. They used threats of homelessness to force me into free labor, completely ignored an attempted sexual assault, protected a staff member who knocked over my baby, and threw us out on the street with zero notice. I am speaking out because people need to know how they truly treat vulnerable mothers and children behind closed doors. read more