Dr. Fleischman is a very caring & compassionate Doctor. However, before you make your decision you must know what the other side looks like. No woman should go through this alone & Dr. Fleischman is patient & empowering in helping to alleviate the emotional stress felt during this process, but after its done, youre all alone & left to deal with every fiber of the loss. Any emotional trauma you experienced prior to getting pregnant gets 10 times worse after the procedure. I wish Dr. Fleischman could pull prior patients into the office for you to consult with before making the fateful decision thatll forever impact your life. I had a medical abortion & what I experienced is unimaginable pain & loss, the kind that's inescapable, enduring & creeps up on you when you least expect it. When your baby dies inside you, you feel like youve died with it. & there's literally no cure. I honestly think its worse than death because you have to live with the excruciating pain & theres nothing, except a miracle like an angel or you going someplace to wipe away all your sins, that could possibly help lift the pain away. Its honestly the worst feeling in the world. Women, please believe me when I tell you, its so much better to just have the baby. No matter what craziness youre facing, HAVE the baby & speak up, let Dr. Fleischman know you want to have your baby too. Save your spirit the pain, no matter what circumstance youre in economically, emotionally, physically, spiritually, just HAVE the baby! Believe me, I was there, no money, no job, no bf, no home, family & friends would have shamed me, no one to turn to & if I could go back just for one second, I'd still have my baby. If youre looking for a sign, like I was, for someone to tell you its okay to have your baby, USE ME as your sign! I AM YOUR SIGN. HAVE the baby! Believe me, no matter what the pressure is from your bf, from friends, from society, no matter what youve read, what anyones told you, no matter what you think, HAVE the baby. You honestly won't regret it. Please stop crying & self doubting & just Trust me on this one. Yes, you feel like you won't be accepted, yes you feel rejected, yes you feel like no man will want a woman with a baby, but you are SO wrong. You won't know this until youre on the other side with your baby & everything you ever wanted in life is with you. For me, the side I live with is enduring loss, the kind that ripples deep into your abdomen, where no one, not anything, nobody but GOD can help me now. Believe me, you don't want to be in this situation. Its an internal battle, racked with suicidal thoughts, disease, infection & emotional pain that hurts, & hurts, & hurts...its levels of excruciating pain. Its worse than guilt, than death, than anything youve ever in your life experienced before, seriously, its an insurmountable pain that youre forced to endure. I wouldn't wish it even on my enemy, that's how bad it is. Its what I live with now. I thought I could handle it, but NO NO NO -, its irreversible when youre in it, & you'll wish to GOD that you could go back & just do everything differently. We're tested in the little things in this life, but if we stay true we could make it through. They say people in hell always plead with God, to just let them go back & do things over, theyll do everything right. I can't reverse my decision but take a little advice from someone living in it, HAVE THE BABY! Please! Even if youre scared of its health because of things you may have done thus far, keep your hope alive & have the baby. Youll judge yourself everytime you see a girl that had her babies & looks beautiful. You'll think "why didnt I? Why couldnt I?" You have the power right now, to avoid that fate, to avoid all of this pain. Yes, you feel pain now & fear & confusion, but all of that is temporary. What you gain is so much greater. Compare an innocent, clean, pure baby worth all the potential in the world, to the lasting, enduring pain of the loss of your baby that was growing inside you and filling you with nutrients you didnt know you had. There's just no comparison. Trust Me. Im holding your belly with my hand, its okay to keep your baby. He/she loves you & you know & I know you love him/her and you and your baby are a team & will get thru all the obstacles as long as you have each other. Trust me. Throw the doubts away. Those doubts don't like angels & thats exactly what you have growing inside you. Its completely at peace inside you so don't worry about what anyone else has to say, have your baby & avoid the pain I live with. Trust Me! Have your baby!
Every1 says RU486 just causes the baby to detach from the uterine wall. They don't tell you that it starves the baby of nutrients which causes the detachment. I now have a hormonal imbalance due to the RU486, a yeast inf., BV and developed an ovarian cyst, and now pelvic & back pain.
Its not worth it, the pain, the suffering, & self-loathe. Do yourself this one favor & have your baby. read more