The pandemic hit, and with another baby on the way, we needed help with our 2.5-year-old son. D&J came highly recommended by the parents of one of our son's friends. We had previously tried to get in when our son was 1.5, but as D&J only takes eight kids at a time, openings are very limited. Thankfully when we tried again in August 2020, they had an opening, and it has been a godsend for our family.
Debbie and James offer the best combo of daycare and preschool - the day is structured so that the kids know what to expect, and there is also lots of outdoor/free play time. The children learn how to behave at mealtime, how to sit still for story time, and how to pause their outdoor play when it's time to move to the next structured activity. Because Debbie and James keep a small caregiver-to-kid ratio, they can really work with each child to help them develop at the pace appropriate to their age and competencies.
Our son (now 3.5) has blossomed in their care. He learned how to spell his name in sign language as well as how to write his first and last name, and he's learning how to hold his crayons in the "correct" manner. James plays the guitar, so they'll have music days where the kids learn about instruments and sing songs. Our son now knows all kinds of songs and stories he didn't know before daycare. They also do projects - for Mother's day, our son painted a terracotta planter, planted a seed, and grew a Mother's day plant from scratch.
Social development - Our son often comes to Debbie and James to solve a problem with other children. (Often, it's because he wants a toy that another child has, or another child took a toy from him that he had been playing with.) Debbie coaches him to see if he can work it out or talk about it with his friend first. She and James do a good job of coaching the kids to see if they can sort a problem out on their own before intervening. This has been so wonderful because our son is getting better at articulating his feelings when he's mad. (Which any parent of a toddler can appreciate!) At the same time, they also keep a close watch on the kids so they can intervene if there is any behavior that needs prompt attention. In that case, the child usually gets a warning, and if the behavior continues, they may have a time-out where they are away from the other kids to calm down and redirect.
Toys - there are lots of different types of toys - blocks, cars, dress-up, cash register for pretend play, puzzles, etc. Outside they have lots of different vehicles and trikes for the kids to ride around in. There's a picnic table and benches, swing, small slides, playhouses, basketball hoop - lots and lots of fun outdoor play. Also, there's a nice balance of sun and shade, and their backyard is fully enclosed.
Food - Debbie and James provide a breakfast, morning snack, lunch, and afternoon snack, at regular times so the kids get used to the schedule. They don't do juice or sweets (unless it's someone's birthday/special occasion). Breakfast is usually fruit and yogurt or oatmeal, the snacks are goldfish crackers/graham cracker or fruit, and lunch is chicken nuggets with carrots/peas. Our son comes home beaming with pride when he gets to help with the littler kids' lunch.
Naps - all the kids, even the older ones, have nap or quiet time from 1-3p. Some kids rest in a pack-n-play, others have mats. Debbie and James provide all the bedding/equipment, so there's nothing to take home and wash regularly.
Reliability - Debbie and James are two of the healthiest people we've ever met - in the last year, they have never had to close the daycare unexpectedly due to them being sick. At the beginning of the year, they give out a set schedule of vacation days. If there is any change to it, they give at least 30 days written notice.
Communication - Debbie and James are very responsive. We normally communicate by text, but they're also available by phone and email.
Sometimes it's hard to exchange detailed information during pick-up and drop-off, so we've had a few 20 min phone calls over the year to touch base, almost like parent-teacher meetings. Those have been very helpful, and we'd highly recommend doing that.
They also take photos of the kids, and periodically there are updates to a private Shutterfly site that are always so nice to see what the kids are working on. About once a month, our son comes home with various worksheets and art so we can see how he's developing.
One of the things we were most impressed with when first talking with Debbie and James is how long the kids attend their program - often the children at their daycare come in when they are a baby and stay until "graduating" to kindergarten. Based on how they've cared for our son this past year, we can see why! We highly recommend the D&J program, and if one of the limited spots are open, you should jump at the chance to get your kids into this high-quality daycare. read more