My kid was diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder when she was 3 years old. She started attending…read moreGolden View Learning Center at 3 1/2 & is now 4. It's hard for me to write this review-
as words fail me to describe how GVLC has supported us as a family & directly to my beautiful, brilliant, hilarious little girl on this autism journey.
Nothing fully prepares a parent for an autism diagnosis-particularly during COVID when service waiting times are protracted, budgets are limited, and there is a flood of (sometimes conflicting) information to wade through about what autism is, how to navigate services, and how best to support your little one & champion his/her special needs.
Parenting a child on the spectrum is a miraculous, beautiful gift. It's a wild roller coaster of stops and starts; setbacks & triumphs. Our kid is perfect as she is-but the world/we as parents-don't always know how to adapt to her beautifully complex and unique wiring.
We (my husband and I) are not on the autism spectrum, ourselves. I liken navigating autism parenting (particularly during the pandemic) as mastering a foreign language, sinking or swimming, a parenting bootcamp that can inspire (as well as sometimes, drain) the heart, soul, and mind of a parent & family.
Golden View Learning Center staff became our lifeline through many storms-both related to the confusion of parenting a child on the spectrum, as well as during other storms that hit our family. Their staff are exceptional-professional, genuinely empathic & effusively supportive of your kiddo, organized, and very consistent.
I had a lot of misgivings and ambivalence about ABA. I'm pretty much only on Facebook to follow autism parenting groups now-and I've read the horror stories as well as seen parents argue back and forth about the merits & controversies about ABA.
I will say this-as I can only speak about our experience-
My kid is eager to go to GVLC-she constantly asks when she "can go back to school" when she's not there. She wants to be there. They took a kid who was melting down day after day when so many crises were hitting her/our family (I was pregnant in a wheelchair after a pretty catastrophic accident-it took 5 months for me to learn to walk again, among other things-my wheelchair and inability to walk terrified my toddler & her frustrations in processing/expressing how she felt about the situation broke my heart)-
and she now has functional speech. She can express what she wants. She is flourishing in the arts & is making/playing with her friends. She was always interested in other children-but didn't know how to engage with them (as her ASD would hinder her awareness of social cues/how to be in a social relationship-as loving/kind as she is intuitively)-
and it was at GVLC that she began to play with others, greet others, step out of this insulated, but beautiful, world inside her head-and began to engage, express, play, and enjoy being a kid. She's talking now. When she stopped talking from her speech regression at 2 1/2 years old-it just shattered us. GVLC helped her. It helped us.
Each kid on the spectrum is so uniquely and beautifully different. As they say-you meet one person on the spectrum, then well-you've only met one person on the spectrum. However, if you change the world or open the door to communication, relationships, expression for one kid-
that catalyzes positive change in everything else. It has for us. It has for her, my darling perfect little girl. Thank you Golden View Learning Center for being part of our autism parenting journey-and championing our little girl every step of the way. Many thanks to Tony, Gina, Kasandra, Nallely, and Claudia. There are too many people to name-but those are the people who directly work with our kid now.
Tony has a heart of gold. He loves these kids & it shows in everything. Gina, his wife, is always organized, responsive, and engages with parents with absolute professionalism. With regard to Kasandra, our clinical supervisor-I don't have the right words to express how knowledgeable, responsive, and supportive she is to parents & to the children attending the center. Nallely & Claudia are wonderful, experienced RBTs. I pick up our kid everyday at 4 pm-and Nallely is always so smiley, encouraging, & positive.
We commute for a while to come here everyday-and the physical/emotional journey to be here has been more than worth it.
I don't trust most people with my kid. I'm glad I took this leap of faith. I'm not a family member or employee/staff of anyone at GVLC-I'm a flawed, but deeply devoted parent of a child on the autism spectrum. She's my everything. We chose the right vendor for the right reasons. I hope this review helps other parents who are feeling hit by storm after storm-trying to understand this new language & way of being, while looking from the outside-in. Sometimes, you need some allies and light bearers to help you on the way.