As a student, prior to my first real meeting with Barbara, I was not sure I wanted to work with her. I already had my mother bothering me 24/7 to do my homework, did I really want yet another person telling me what I needed to do? After meeting with her, and working with her, my opinion changed 100%. She made my life LESS stressful. I checked in with her every few months in the beginning, and because I saw her less often than my mother, I felt much more responsibility to stay on track, and less pressure from my mother, because she saw that I was following Barbara's advice.
I really appreciated Barbara's enthusiasm--she got me excited about raising my grades and doing extra-curriculars (I founded the men's tennis team at my school, helped bring an anti-bullying program, and attempted to get solar panels installed, but failed). She encouraged me to choose ambitious extra-curriculars, but didn't dictate what I should do--I came up with these ideas myself, and she supported me along the way.
Not having to do college research about deadlines for tests, applications, and figuring out which places to apply was a total lifesaver for me. I had enough to handle trying to get as high of a GPA as possible, playing 20 hours of tennis a week, and still playing some video games ;) I can only imagine the kind of stress this relieved from my mother, who typically worries about way too much.
Barbara also helped my family structure our finances in order to receive the most aid. If you don't think you want to work with Barbara, at the very least it is worth hearing her advice on how to make your base year look as advantageous as possible. What was the result for my family? We paid about half of the tuition we normally would have. She also helped steer me towards schools that provided 1) open curriculum and 2) full need-based aid, with need-blind admission (I forget the exact terms).
I would highly recommend Barbara because she told me what to do (and I did it), she saved us a crazy amount of money, and she saved me a lot of headaches and fighting that I could have been having with my mother if she were the one driving this process (I applied to 11 schools, and got into Brown, Amherst, Swarthmore, U St. Louis with great money, UCLA, UCSB, UCSB CCS, UCD, and U Oregon Honors).
I ended up going to Brown, and loved it.
Now that the years have made me a tad wiser, I have some advice for you about college, and working with Barbara.
- working with her is not cheap, but in my opinion it is worth it.
- you should NOT work with Barbara if you want to be an english major. I personally don't think you should waste your money on college if you want to be a writer, I've heard it's better to just spend those 4 years reading and writing on your own. The economy is TOO rough out there to start your life in debt (a special kind of debt from hell that can never be absolved, even if you go bankrupt).
- if I were a sophomore/junior in highschool again, and I had my current self as a mentor, there's a 50/50 chance that I would choose to go to Brown if I were doing it all again. Why? With the advice of someone in the tech field (where I am), I think I could have learned the same skills for much less money by self-teaching, along with a mentor guiding me.
- also, if you are not a motivated student, I would think deeply about whether you want to work with Barbara or go to college. You can do amazingly joining your family's business, or apprenticing with a family friend. Barbara will ask a lot of you, and this is not easy stuff. If you are set on working with her, even if you don't feel super motivated about all this stuff, she can still be super helpful because she helps you choose good essay topics, helps you edit the essay, and holds test prep sessions.
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